tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post3824915367801563575..comments2024-03-22T11:40:35.348-07:00Comments on SPIRITUAL INFORMATION: The Postive and Negative use of Hot Foot Powder Part 1~~~VooDoo Queenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comBlogger72125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-3696698096365415162017-09-15T10:16:13.615-07:002017-09-15T10:16:13.615-07:00Hello My Dear,
Funny that you would ask that. T...Hello My Dear,<br /><br />Funny that you would ask that. The other day my friend who had come up with making and using the Hell Hound Hot Foot Powder dropped by for coffee and as we chatted that very same subject came up.<br /><br />She remarked that she had last seen the horrible, abusive bad-news ex-boyfriend earlier this year and he looked horrible, a few months later she saw his obituary in the newspaper. <br /><br />I asked her if that is what she wanted and she replied, without any guilt, “yes” because he was bad news for any woman. <br /><br />We talked about the Hell Hound Hot Foot Powder, she said she applied it the same way as you would any standard hot foot powder, a little in his shoes (all of his shoes), a little in the back pocket of his jeans, a little in the pocket of his jacket, a little on the side of his bed where he usually gets up out of bed. <br /><br />She even put a tiny amount between the bottom sheet and mattress cover of his bed. She made sure she never slept in his bed. She put it in any of his clothes that had pockets. She even put a tiny amount in the bill-fold section of his wallet, but it had to be tiny amounts so he wouldn’t wonder about it. <br /><br />He even had a pair of favorite Jeans that he rarely washed so she sprinkled a bit on the inside leg of those jeans. She was creative.<br /><br />So he left her, but he could never settle down, couldn’t hold a job for any long period of time, he said to mutual friends that he thought he was being followed, they thought he was being paranoid, stop smoking the mary jane they said. <br /><br />He couldn’t even keep an apartment so he’d bunk out at any friends place but didn’t stay long. <br /><br />One of them that knew her said when her ex-boyfriend was staying with him that he thought there was a dog in his apartment because he could hear panting and like the sound of dog nails on the wood floor when the bad-news boyfriend was staying with him. One time he heard what sounded like a dog growling It stopped when the ex-boyfriend left. <br /><br />Once she read that he had died, she went to the jar of the left over graveyard dirt of the K-9 that she got it from, (she kept some of it in reserve to keep a spiritual connection to the dog) she held it between her hands and thanked the dog/hound for his service and he could now rest from his duties. <br /><br />Later she went back to the cemetery and put on that dog’s grave 9 more biscuits for services rendered as a reward saying “Good Boy, that’s a Good Dog!” <br /><br />She said that if she needed to do it again, she’d once again ask the dogs at the cemetery to see which one would like to take on the job, she said if it’s the same one that’s fine. <br /><br />But she knows you have to do payment. <br /><br />I hope that helps you.<br /><br />You know you’ve just given me an idea about another article since you and several others asked about Hell Hounds. Thank You!<br /><br />Bright Blessings,<br />Ms. Q <br />VooDoo Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-13508954365101079552017-09-14T17:17:39.337-07:002017-09-14T17:17:39.337-07:00I love your post on hot foot powders. Can you expl...I love your post on hot foot powders. Can you explain how the Hell Hound Hot Foot Powder would be applied? Thank you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-34474827127340097072017-09-04T16:44:40.837-07:002017-09-04T16:44:40.837-07:00You are very Welcome Elishia. And I’m glad that y...You are very Welcome Elishia. And I’m glad that you are being cautious.<br /><br />Bright Blessings,<br />Ms. Q<br />VooDoo Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-11996087695407794802017-09-04T00:35:49.654-07:002017-09-04T00:35:49.654-07:00Yes ma'am I'll be cautious while marrying ...Yes ma'am I'll be cautious while marrying the ingredients together. Thank you so much for taking the time to talk or type lol to me. And yes ma'am I'm looking forward to reading more from your family experiences :)Elishianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-82008151857072903362017-09-03T15:48:31.685-07:002017-09-03T15:48:31.685-07:00Hello Elishia,
Yes it would be effective as those...Hello Elishia,<br /><br />Yes it would be effective as those are the basic ingredients for Hot Foot Powder, much like water, flour, salt and yeast are the basic ingredients for bread.<br /><br />People add other ingredients to ramp up the power in it like graveyard dirt, dirt daubler nest, dried scorpions etc. <br /><br />Just be careful with the red pepper and sulfur powder, do not touch your eyes with your hands, and be sure to wash your hands after handling it, or wear disposable gloves.<br /><br />I hope as I write about more things to include my experiences from my younger days, it seems that many of my readers, like you, enjoy the fact that I include my experiences from when I was young, I guess it helps out. <br /><br />Bright Blessings,<br />Ms. Q<br />VooDoo Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-60583720262032753792017-09-02T22:22:45.087-07:002017-09-02T22:22:45.087-07:00Hello Ms.Q,
I've found all of your childhood s...Hello Ms.Q,<br />I've found all of your childhood story's and all of your very helpful hints on the Hot foot powder very helpful also just on a side note the details in your learning and raising as a young I could see it in my mind as you were describing so thank you :) my question for you is I found a recapie for Hot foot powder containing black salt pepper red pepper and sulfur powder, So would this recipe work as a Hot foot powder? Thank you in advance :)Elishianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-85342234450006270322017-08-22T17:58:34.321-07:002017-08-22T17:58:34.321-07:00Hello Jennifer,
Not to worry, I found your questi...Hello Jennifer,<br /><br />Not to worry, I found your question, it had gone into the "spam" folder.<br /><br />I'll be replying to you in the next day or two, I'm still recovering from the excitement among the family seeing the Eclipse.<br /><br />Hang in there.<br /><br />Bright Blessings,<br />Ms. QVooDoo Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-49541911873720575212017-08-21T10:20:14.276-07:002017-08-21T10:20:14.276-07:00Hello Ms.Q I posted my problem last night in the m...Hello Ms.Q I posted my problem last night in the middle of the night because I am at the end of my rope and don't know what to do. However I forgot to check the notify button on bottom of the box. I wasn't sure how I would is able to get a response and thought maybe I should give you my email address if that would help. It is jen4travis@gmail.com. I really hope to hear from you. And would greatly appreciate your helpJennifer Tnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-74873037403212980892017-08-09T13:15:41.816-07:002017-08-09T13:15:41.816-07:00Dear Sab,
Technically --- No.
Rats are highly ...Dear Sab,<br /><br />Technically --- No. <br /><br />Rats are highly intelligent, that’s why they are used by scientists in mazes and pshycology tests. <br /><br />And yes they are a curse. <br /><br />But you need to see what is attracting them to your house, are they coming into the house or basement? Or into your attic? <br /><br />First you need to remove what it is that attracts them, such as food including cat food or easy to get to garbage, even a compost heap can attract rats. <br /><br />Then hunt for any holes that allow them entrance into your home. <br /><br />If you have fruit trees in your yard you need to pick up any fallen fruit as well as pick any ripening fruit.<br /><br />If they go into your attic, put down poison as they will make a nest up there and eat the electric wires---I know that sounds cruel but wild rats are what brought the Plague and you need keep your home free of such vermin. <br /><br />You can use fresh Bay Leaves in your attic or basement if buying rat poison scares you. But make sure your cat doesn’t get to that. <br /><br />Put the Bay leaves down all the time, even when you think they are gone.<br /><br />One remedy that my granny use to do is plant a lot of peppermint plants around her house and around where she had her garbage bins, she also planted it around her hen house and chicken run as well. <br /><br />And that seemed to work, but it takes time to get those plants established, in the meantime I’m giving you this link for home remedies to get rid of rats: <br />https://www.homeremedyhacks.com/14-effective-home-remedies-to-get-rid-of-rats/ <br /><br />And you'll find that the peppermint plants are very nice smelling for humans.<br /><br />Good Luck!<br /><br />Bright Blessings,<br />Ms. Q <br />VooDoo Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-37804328441030147632017-08-08T14:00:58.139-07:002017-08-08T14:00:58.139-07:00Hello Ms. Q,
Can Hot Foot Powder be used to rid a...Hello Ms. Q,<br /><br />Can Hot Foot Powder be used to rid a house of rodents? I know it's a crazy question but they keep coming back. The cat ignores and they get smart on the traps. I might sound crazy but I swear they're a curse. I'm grateful for any ideas. I enjoy your blog, very insightful. Blessings,<br />SabAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-13656106683464295082017-08-08T08:34:41.430-07:002017-08-08T08:34:41.430-07:00Hello My Dear,
I am sorry but Hot Foot Powder wil...Hello My Dear,<br /><br />I am sorry but Hot Foot Powder will not banish a sickness, it can only be used to banish a person from your presence, not a sickness that is in your body. <br /><br />For that you need to see a doctor and get medical treatment and do not hesitate to see the doctor if you are ill.<br /><br />Bright Blessings,<br />Ms. Q<br />VooDoo Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-33160944486409552742017-08-08T08:28:18.166-07:002017-08-08T08:28:18.166-07:00Hello My Dear,
I'm assuming that you posted y...Hello My Dear,<br /><br />I'm assuming that you posted your question twice and to both my answer is the same. I'd like to let you know that no question will post until the "moderator" first sees it and then it will post.<br /><br />First let’s look at your situation from a legal standpoint----are you renting? Or do you own your place? Is her name on the rental agreement or on the title to the house? <br /><br />If it is then you might have a difficult time legally to get rid of her but not an impossible one since she is an undesirable tenant, but if her name is NOT on the rental agreement or on the title to your place, it should be easier to serve a 30 day eviction notice on her as an undesirable tenant. <br /><br />Talk to a lawyer about that to do the proper procedures in either case, since you are NOT married to her and have concern for the welfare of your children, you should be able to have her legally removed.<br /><br />In the meantime put a bit of the powder into her shoes, a touch into the pockets of her clothing, a tiny pinch into her hair shampoo, do this when she is not at home, and make sure she does not have any video recording devices going on. <br /><br />If she replaces the shampoo or brushes it out of her clothing or shoes, put the powder in again when she is not at home, lightly sprinkle some on her side of the bed when she’s not there, so her bare feet will touch it when she gets in and out of bed.<br /><br />If she should notice the dust and asks where did it came from say to her “I don’t know, maybe you kicked it up on your shoes from some place.” Which is true, you don’t know exactly where it came from.<br /><br />No bad karma will come to you or the children because you are doing this to protect you and most importantly your children,<br /><br />In doing the work to protect yourself and those you love that is a perfectly good reason that the Divine Presence would approve of because you and your children deserve to be safe and happy.<br /> <br />And don’t be afraid to call the cops if she should hurt you or the children, this will build up a legal case against her for eviction by showing a reason for it. <br /><br />And you can have the police with you when the time comes for you to legally evict her. <br /><br />Then get a “stay away order” against her sighting physical abuse against you and the children.<br /><br />The hotfoot powder will have her leave voluntarily, but the “stay away order’ will make it permanent. <br /><br />I’ve always said that the magick is done in support of those things or efforts that one does in the real world. <br /><br />Bright Blessings,<br />Ms. Q<br />VooDoo Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-30147907917924845922017-08-07T11:31:55.011-07:002017-08-07T11:31:55.011-07:00Do you think I can use this to get rid of a sickn...Do you think I can use this to get rid of a sickness? Banishing the sickness and keeping the good?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-74211357771677381052017-08-07T07:03:18.883-07:002017-08-07T07:03:18.883-07:00Hello Mrs Q
I need help.. My gf has been abusive...Hello Mrs Q<br /><br /> I need help.. My gf has been abusive to me an my children. Physically an mentally. We have been together 3 years the 1st year was ok but it started getting bad. She always refuses to leave because we have a place together.. I have lost my oldeat daughter because of her she wont come around because she doesn't like nor trust her... I was thinking about using hot foot powder but wasnt sure if this was the best for my situation.. I dont want any harm to come to her I just want her out of mines an my children's life for good.. An no harm or karma to come back to us. What would be your recommendation. Thank you for your help in advance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-85910781217048245662017-08-07T06:53:28.737-07:002017-08-07T06:53:28.737-07:00Hello Mrs Q.
Im in a situation with my gf she is ...Hello Mrs Q.<br /> Im in a situation with my gf she is mentally an physically abusive to me an my kids. She's just out right mean. We have a place together an she refuses to leave. Im not at peace in my home. Me an my children live n fear. I just want her gone. No harm done to her I just want her to leave an forget about me an my family.. I've lost my oldest daughter because of her. She doesn't trust her nor like her so she doesnt come around an we barely speak.. My question is will hot foot powder work for what I want done??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-31324412551102824912017-08-02T19:04:35.369-07:002017-08-02T19:04:35.369-07:00Dear Gia,
I’m replying to both your comments
God...Dear Gia,<br /><br />I’m replying to both your comments<br /><br />God Bless you for your bravery. And to answer your question, no it will not hurt you karmicly, because this person is a squatter, you don’t want him, you want him out O-U-T out!! <br /><br />The one thing that the Divine Presence wants if for us to be happy, and if you’re not happy, then get rid of what is making you un-happy, use Hotfoot, use a D.U.M.E candle, serve an eviction letter on him, call the cops, if he so much as put a finger on you call the cops and get him locked up. <br /><br />You will not be punished by God, THAT I can guarantee. <br /><br /> In reply to your second comment, You will, you just have to be strong, and if Hotfoot doesn’t work after another week, then switch to Goofer Dust, Also in a heated oil diffuser (the kind that is ceramic and you burn a tea light under it) heat up white vinegar with crushed garlic, Cayenne Pepper, Rosemary and Black Pepper in it, the pungent smell might cause him to leave. <br /><br />This is a form of 4 Thieves vinegar it is used to strengthen you and weaken those you don’t like and drive away unwanted people. <br /><br />Just make sure to replenish the vinegar to make sure the diffuser doesn’t burn. And don’t just burn it once, do it often. <br /><br />And pray to God and St. Michael to get rid of him. <br /><br />You’ve learn a lesson from being with him. Now it’s time to take out the trash.<br /><br />I’ll put you in my prayer circle.<br /><br />Bright Blessings,<br />Ms. Q <br />VooDoo Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-88651043249389701692017-07-31T09:42:43.675-07:002017-07-31T09:42:43.675-07:00I just told him this past weekend that I was done....I just told him this past weekend that I was done. He has shown me a side of him that I would have hoped to have seen while I was still in love with him but still very weary that this is just a show and know that I am not going back. I have only done the hot foot which has not worked yet but I have heard that there is no real time period ?? for these things to work, that it is up to the greater powers. I hate that you are going through all of this, I truly do. It is very tiring - emotionally, physically and mentally. I feel like a fog was lifted literally and I was able to stop going back to blaming myself for his actions and forgiving him when I know I should have just left and giving him chance after chance. I am not a very religious person either but have found myself praying more. You have to just make a decision that when it has been enough, he has been enough and that is truly the hard part and finding the strength to break free of the situation. I hope that I can continue on this path and to get out of the relationship. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-52314419015709310932017-07-28T16:57:40.787-07:002017-07-28T16:57:40.787-07:00Hello, my name is Gia. I'm in a very similar a...Hello, my name is Gia. I'm in a very similar and distressing situation to the last lady you helped. I, too, have been trapped for 13 years - by a covert narcissist. I don't have children with him, thank God, nor am I married to him, but I have gone through hell and found your site today looking for new answers. I read everything on this page and found your wisdom and advice very helpful. I'm afraid if I hotfoot my abusive squatter it will hurt me karmically. I try very hard to do God's will. I'm not a religious fanatic, I just am wary of doing actual magic. However, I've got to get safely free before I lose everything. I feel that lady's pain. I learned there were covert narcissists just last week. I pray she gets free. I pray everyone trapped gets liberated, me included. Bless you for helping people when all other help fails. ♡Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-23275775643021190952017-06-28T08:59:39.141-07:002017-06-28T08:59:39.141-07:00You are welcome my Dear.
Yes, please keep me post...You are welcome my Dear.<br /><br />Yes, please keep me posted and I have you and your children in my prayer circle for strength and protection.<br /><br />Bright Blessings,<br />Ms. QVooDoo Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-72462153813542563332017-06-28T03:42:19.932-07:002017-06-28T03:42:19.932-07:00Thank you. I will make sure to update you as to wh...Thank you. I will make sure to update you as to what is going on and how things are going. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-15873833753458182562017-06-27T07:50:05.457-07:002017-06-27T07:50:05.457-07:00Dear M,
You are welcome.
I'm putting you a...Dear M,<br /><br />You are welcome. <br /><br />I'm putting you and your children into my prayer circle to help give you strength.<br /><br />Tell your friends and family members that now you know what he is trying to do, keep them aware of his tricks.<br /><br />Your lawyer is right--go for the throat---he is crazy. <br /><br />And do not go on that vacation trip with him, have him cancel it and get a refund. <br /><br />Considering his mental make up it would be unwise to do.<br /><br />And stop feeling guilty about divorcing him.<br /><br />With my first husband I was trying to stick it out, but my Mother told me what happened to one of her family members, that family members husband drove her to suicide, Granny and Mom found out later what he had done, needless to say they "fixed" him.<br /><br />Stay strong and do what is right for you and the children.<br /><br />Bright Blessings,<br />Ms. Q VooDoo Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-40656042571232477632017-06-27T03:49:03.433-07:002017-06-27T03:49:03.433-07:00THANK YOU! I pulled up this article and it is him ...THANK YOU! I pulled up this article and it is him to a tee. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/11-signs-gaslighting-in-relationship <br />It has literally broke me, he denies things that he has said and done - in return I think I am crazy. I will sit down and think things through and have a plan. I had already retained a lawyer (female) in March and have kept her retained, she thinks I need to go for the throat - alcohol/drug test within he first week we separate, etc. Thank you so very much for everything you have done over the past few days! I greatly appreciate it and will be going to a shop today or tomorrow to get the oil and speak with someone in the store and try and network. Bless you for your ability and support. It is just such a scary thought and I have felt so guilty for trying "to break our family apart" as he has said, I just need to overcome those fears and do what I know is right in my heart. Much Love MAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-39190433654169264172017-06-26T20:55:45.060-07:002017-06-26T20:55:45.060-07:00Dear M,
Thank you for clarifying the separation l...Dear M,<br /><br />Thank you for clarifying the separation laws for your state, it is clear that he is the one that needs to leave, so that you can at least have a place to stay with the children. <br /><br />With the Lemon curse you can do that when he is not at home, put the bowl in an area where he will not go to in your home or ask a friend if you can do it at her house and have her keep the bowl where no one will touch it ---do not put it in the refrigerator, if your friend has a back yard, it could be put up on a shelf outside or in a garage out of sight, check on it once a week then when it has sufficiently rotted follow through with the rest of the instructions. Find a friend who would be sympathetic to what you are doing. <br /><br />You can do the lemon spell after he leaves the house, or before he leaves. Whichever you’d feel best doing in timing. <br /><br />On having him leave you may want to use Goofer Dust from Lucky Mojo, or Kufwa dust from Conjured Cardea, wear disposable gloves or rubber gloves and put a tiny pinch inside his shoes, in the back pocket of all his jeans or slacks. <br /><br />As you do that recite Psalm 35 lines 5 and 6 and Psalm 59 lines 11 through 15 from the King James Bible, to get him to leave. <br /><br />Be sure to wash all his clothing separate from yours and the children. <br /><br />If you use rubber dishwashing gloves, after you put the dust in wash the gloves with lemon scented dishwashing soap to clean them. <br /><br />You are not over reacting, he is playing mind games with you, take anything he says or does with a “grain of salt”, it’s like saying mindlessly, uh-huh, uh-huh, uh-huh. It will help maintain your sanity.<br /><br />Keep of journal with dates of what he does, hide the journal, he wants you to leave so he can gain more control over you. <br /><br />Like I said if he abuses you physically do not hesitate to call the police and have him detained in jail, do not bail him out, he needs to be away from you. <br /><br />If you have the funds talk to a female divorce lawyer to get an idea of what you can do. At least you’ll have more information. <br /><br />In essence he is trying to do what use to be called “Gaslighting”, named after the film “Gaslight”. <br /><br />Make an excuse to cancel the birthday vacation and get a refund, it does not sound like a wise thing to do with just the 2 of you, say that you cannot leave the baby in the care of another. No matter what he says, don’t do it. <br /><br />I drew a card for you I got the Knight of Wands, reversed, this means discord, or cruel indifference, making haste without thinking.<br /><br />You need to be very careful of not rushing into things without thinking it through first. <br /><br />Even if you are starting to get frustrated with a lack of action, you need to consider the consequences before doing something. It's referring to him, then it is best to steer clear of his games for the time being, avoid being alone unless you have the children or a friend. <br /><br />The Knight of Wands reversed suggests that you are at risk of acting impulsively, doing or saying things that you may later regret. <br /><br />Be careful, too, that you are not reacting instantly to everything that happens but that you give your circumstances some space and time before you take action. <br /><br />You may also find yourself feeling frustrated that there are certain factors impacting your situation that you feel you cannot control. <br /><br />Remind yourself that there WILL be things that you can control and change as you want to.<br /><br />Plan your actions carefully for separation and divorce, document everything and no you & the children will not be hexed. <br /><br />Bright Blessings,<br />Ms. Q<br />VooDoo Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11009368155195205624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-34523808785892673312017-06-26T06:15:10.052-07:002017-06-26T06:15:10.052-07:00Also I guess I just want to make sure that nothing...Also I guess I just want to make sure that nothing will come back on me or harm me and my children as well. Thank you again for your time Ms. Q. Much Love M Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3400471483592958984.post-66947729608553163392017-06-26T03:59:19.694-07:002017-06-26T03:59:19.694-07:00Thank you for taking the time and care to put into...Thank you for taking the time and care to put into this. I am saddened by the response but it is something that I already knew, I guess just knowing that it what it is, hearing it from someone that is not here seeing it, but can feel it - I need to be honest with myself and stop skirting around the truth of what is enviable. When you say "Then leave your husband and do this hex far away from him." You mean separate right? Just wanted to be clear, then comes my issue - I haven't the means to leave right now and have been trying to figure that out. Would it be possible to still do something to push him to leave him the house, then I could file for separation, once that happens and he isn't living here or vice versa then do the lemon spell? My state I live in is horrible with separation - one has to leave the house and not be living in the house before the other can file for separation - then it is for a 1 year unless at fault is found. I would have left over the last 4 months but the financial and housing uncertainty with the 2 children is what held me back. I can understand the "sanity" part. I often feel like I am crazy for not wanting to be with him or have felt like "Am I overreacting" or "Did I just imagine him doing that". Even over the weekend - our child's 1st birthday sat - he decided to drink with a friend for 4 hours during the day (a weekend we took intentionally to just be family - the 4 of us) and then walk around with his typical grimace expression. Then Sun we return home, I needed space so ask him if he would like to go out and while he is out books a vacation for my birthday just the 2 of us, which I have not so much as a card in the last I don't even know how many years - so with things like that, it just sends my mind into fits and I cannot wrap my head around if there is true sincerity in anything, is it for show or what. This why I know I cant stay, the back and forth is just too much. I would love another reading though and not sure if you are willing to do that or could suggest someone in my area. It is hard to know who to go to. Thank you so much for much for putting so much energy and care into the response . Much love - M Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com