Candle Colors and their Meanings~~~
This will be a work In Progress~~~
This page on Candle Colors is meant for quick reference so you will know what color to use in any magikal workings.
It is by no means diffinitive and as I come across more information besides my own experiences it will be added to, so check this page often.
At this time this is the basic colors for most workings~~~~~
WHITE candles reflect all colors back. White is also the Balance of all colors: Spiritual enlightenment, cleansing, clairvoyance, healing, truth-seeking, purity, innocence, clarity and unity, Dawn,purification, peace, truth, protection, spirituality, General work, cleansing, White help repels negativity; use to bring peace, spiritual strength, truth, purity; heals emotions, and provides protection.
NOTE: White can be used in place of any other candle color and is suitable for any ritual, if you need to do a ritual and do not have the color candle needed a white candle will work as well if you either carve a symbol, or word or name of what you want the white color candle to represent.
IVORY---(beige): neutrality, balance and harmlessness, this is a good color just for meditation and/or prayer.
RED--- for sexual love. But it's also about Energy, vitality, and strength, health, passion, sex, love, protection, fire, sexual fertility, fast action, strength, potency, lust, blood, Physical love and passion, courage, warmth, energy, attraction, magnetism, desire, action, physical strength, power, as well as willpower. Red also strengthens magnetism in a ritual, creates Ram and Scorpio energies when needed in ritual work.
PINK---- for love of the heart. Devotion, love, tenderness and faith, friendship, romance, honor, spiritual
healing, caring, affection, forming partnerships, peace, emotional healing, Universal love, purest form of love, love that is unconditional, spiritual love without sex connotation, raises vibrations, sensitivity, healing. The color pink is designed to attract attention and achieve a purpose in rituals. It is the color of femininity, Honor, Pleasantness – enhances joyful and lively conversation. When having friends over or if friends drop by even un-expectedly burn pink and white candles for conversation and peacefulness.
ROSE----This is a combination of pink with a touch of purple, a very gentle and spiritual color it reflects
compassion for self and others, higher mystical powers, humor, Love, romance, opening the heart, forgiveness, compassion in general, healing, joy, creativity, endurance espeically in times of great trials,
strength, stability and security.
PEACH---- This is a combination of pink or light red with orange and is good for workings on restoration and rejuvenation, it is espeically good to gentle help a person through ritual regain their vitality after a long, delibating illness without over taxing the body system.
ORANGE - for attraction. Cleanses negative attitudes, situations and places, Happiness, business deals,
attracting good things, success, career, goals, stimulation, attraction, power, luck, sudden changes, Warmth, energy building, enthusiasm, attracts success and prosperity, emotional healing, attracts friends, courage and ambition. This is good for a calling a spiritual diety. So those orange tea candles or lights you find on Halloween is good to do a quick calling and focusing on which diety you have in mind.
YELLOW - well being, concentration, intuition. On a more complex level it means Intellect, wisdom and honor, action, inspiration and creativity, studying and intelligence, concentration, memory, logic, learning, attraction, confidence, mental powers, intellect, inspiration, concentration, retention of memory, energy, cheerfulness, sunny disposition, changes, endurance, stability and security.
If you are a writer yellow is a good color for strengthening the imagination and in ritual increases the concentration in a ritual. A yellow candle can be used in rituals in which the trust of a person is be gained or in which one wants to convince someone of something.
GREEN - represents health and healing, money, changes and renewal. Abundance, growth, money, success, wealth, physical healing, health, marriage, fertility, employment, balance, Stimulates growth, healing, financial success, good luck, new job, good harvest, nature appreciation, mother love or love of nature.
This is a good color in rituals to gain money or a job.
BLUE - spiritual, healing, memory. Communication, truth, peace, calm, loosing weight, wisdom, understanding, protection, harmony, inspiration, truth, patience, health and happiness, luck, communication, loyalty, peaceful, cooling, contentment, healing, idealism, harmony, devotion, meditation, Blue is concidered to be the best healing color for rituals that involve healing.
INDIGO - Brow, third eye, psychic center. Helps to see aura. Psychic awareness.
PURPLE - Crown center, royal color, Deity, spiritual. The third eye, psychic powers, meditation, spirituality, success, confidence, hidden knowledge, protection, divination, All forms of expansion, expands what you already have, spiritual protection, power, wisdom, healing, recognition, enhances psychic ability, Recognition in work, contact with spirit world. When used in ritual with a white candle it helps to neutralize the effects of karma and ego. It can open the third eye and the psychic center, but Indigo which is a combination of blue and purple takes it a step further.
VIOLET----This is the "softer sister" to purple, Strength, Success, Idealism, psychic revelation; Ideal for rituals which are designed to secure Ambition, Independence and financial success or to establish contact with the other, spiritual world; Enhances Neptune energy. I have found that using a combination of Violet and white candles for seances to be the most effective.
LAVENDER---- This color is even a much softer side to purple, softer than violet but with a hint of pink, it reflects the Mother consciousness, manifestation and selflessness, Spirituality, compassion, understanding, inspiration, make contact with Higher-Self, attract spiritual assistance, very calming, if you are in most modern supermarkets able to find lavender colored candles scented with lavender it will help keep your sacred space in a spiritual, calming condition when you are not working in it and by doing that it will help keep it sacred when you are preparing to do spiritual workings.
BROWN ----This is an .Earth color, a balanced color. Excellent for Rituals for material gain, eliminates indecisiveness, furthers powers of concentration when combined with Yellow, learning, telepathy. Expands financial success and Material prosperity when combined with Green, Home, friendships, balance, animal magic when working with your animal totem, earth magic, concentration and studying, wealth, success,
intuition, psychic powers and ESP. Protecting pets, and stablity, When you burn a brown candle and pray to St. Anthony it is said to help find lost items.
BLACK----burning black with any other color disolves negative energies! Protection, hex-breaking, reversing, banishing, destroying evil or negativity, binding, and repelling. Also used for healing very powerful illnesses.
Black also has its negative side when used alone such as for cursing, laying down a hex, sending out evil. But when in use with other colors and espeically when dressed with Dragon's Blood Oil can be very powerful in working in a positive manner. If you have a Black candle and only have a white candle to aid in bring in positive energy for a specific reason you can carve on the white candle what it is.
GREY---is a combination of black and white and is good for pendulum work as it works with the intution.
GOLD---This color in ritual work can represent the God, it is for enlightenment, protection, success, wealth, money, masculinity, playfulness, luck, divination, victory. It Enhances communication and attracts the power of cosmic influences; Useful in rituals which are designed to gain fortune or money.
SILVER: (Light Grey)---in invoking the dieties Silver is primarily associated with the Goddesses while Gold is associated with the Gods, even in Christianity the friendship between St. Francis and St. Clare of Assisi was referred to as "Brother Sun and Sister Moon" or Gold and Silver---this color is forVictory, Stability, meditation, Developing Psychic Ability, Removal of Negative Power, Repelling Destruction, Cancellation, Neutrality, Stalemate. If you want to do a ritual for a delaying action Silver is a good color to help focus that.
In the last 40 or 50 years certain colors have come to be associated with astrological signs, the list that I'm presenting here is by no means diffinitive---some spiritual supply stores feel that other colors are associated with those same signs---this is just to give you an idea, eventually as you work with the colors to represent the individual clients under what sign they were born you will eventually get a feel of what is right, but it does take practice and intuition---This is for your information----
ASTROLOGICAL SIGNS AND THEIR CANDLE COLORS
Aries---Red, white, pink
Taurus:---Green, pink, red, yellow
Gemini:---Yellow, silver, green, red, blue
Cancer:---White, green, brown
Leo:---Gold, orange, red, green
Virgo:---Grey, yellow, gold, black
Libra:---Royal blue, light brown, black
Scorpio:---Black, red, brown
Sagittarius:---Dark blue, purple, gold, red
Capricorn:---Red, black, dark brown
Aquarius:---Light blue, dark blue, green
Pisces:---Aquamarine, royal blue, white, green
My Spiritual mentor Rayba (who instructed me after my Granny passed on) said that to help determine the correct color for the Astrological signs you need to know first it's element, Air, Earth, Water, Fire and then if its a fixed or mutable sign, by doing that you'd have a better understanding of which color works best.
For example Pisces is a mutable water sign so Aquamarine would be the right color, if not available then follow with Royal Blue, then white, then green, some are not so easy to determine so you'd need to know the general disposition of the Astrological sign as well.
As I said in another posting my Grandmother did not have colored candles to work with, hers was made from cheap parafin wax and in the real old days from tallow or animal fat. The colors were added by tying bits of color cloth to the candles or rolling it in the prescribed herbs and inscribing symbols on the candles.
Within the major colors that I have listed there are variations which has make the intent stronger, softer or focus in a different direction for example colors such as mauve or light blue or green even turquoise or reddish brown, as I go through my notes and sort the more subtile meanings I will post them hear, so you will need to check back from time to time.
Now with colors one can focus your intent much better.
As I come across more information I will continue to update this page. You the reader should set it so that when its updated you can be notified right away to add to your "Book of Shadows" or "Grimore".
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Dear Queen, Thanx for helping many, hope u will help me too. please do me a card leading, i was born on october 21, october,1983,my husband divorced me, then i found another man, he also left for another woman. Now i have 2 kids with different fathers. i'm desperate.
ReplyDeleteDear Queen,
ReplyDeletePlease tell me how to burn candles pertaining to hatred I am receiving from others that seem jealous or me, my child hood memories that haunts me of how my mother treated Mr and continues to do, the fact the both of my children's father's abandoned them even though my oldest is 21, I still feel mad that her dad side of the family is not a part of her life. Youngest child dad is upset with me because I divorced him so he is not in the child life. And I want my ex back, not over him, will he ever want me again? My finance have discrepancies, how can o repair that? I need to find love, I hate being alone.
Dear One,
DeleteYou have so many issues and to address them all I have to reply to your questions in 3 sections, so check the next two replies below this one.
You have so many issues and you perceive Hate around you when you want love. The only way you will receive love is when you let things go, the anger towards your child’s dad’s side of the family that is not a part of her life, first you need to ask key members of the family the reason why, and if they still abandon her, then let them go, teach your child to let them go because they are not worthy of being in your child’s life. They are selfish.
The hurt and anger that you have towards your Mother you also have to let go and instead seek answers as to why she acts that way towards you.
One has to remember you can choose positive people as friends to be in your life, with family you are stuck with them, so weed those that are unworthy out.
With your youngest you need to explain very carefully why you divorced your husband, be honest, don’t lie, and then you need to be honest as to why your youngest child’s Dad is not in that child’s life, are you deliberately keeping him away or does he choose to remain away and be honest with yourself and with your child. If he has been abusive then you have good reason to keep him away but if not, then I ask you Why?
About having your ex back? I drew a card on that issue and it was Strength: Health and physical fortitude. The ability to face and overcome opposition brings the inner qualities of strength and forbearance. This is Strength for yourself to learn to live without him, the two of you broke up, you have to remember why you broke up. Otherwise you’ll be back in the same trap.
I drew a Card to get an overall idea of your life situation and I drew the Eight of Pentacles (Prudence): This means dedicating yourself fully to a task. Applying painstaking attention to detail. Industriousness and the efficient completion of tasks. Sticking with a project long enough to see it through.
When this card comes up in a reading it usually will accompany a daunting time in one’s life where life seems mechanical, monotonous, frustrating and unhappy. You may feel like you are caught in a rat race or that you are trying with your all but you are not getting anywhere. Often before we can advance onto higher lessons in life we have to continue taking baby steps. You may feel that you should be doing more in your life… however if you feel this way then you are probably discounting the actions you take and their importance. Right now is an important time in your life and you are on the cusp of something greater. It is important to not quit just yet and allow your actions to complete their cycle.
The overall message of the Eight of Pentacles is that hard work and determination will allow you to succeed. Whatever your role is regarding this card, communication, building a foundation, and consistency is key to the questions that you have of life right now.
The reading continues in Part 2
Part 2 To continue the Reading
DeleteWhen dealing with other people in relationships petty arguments and bickering is bound to happen. The Eight of Pentacles comes up when there are complaints in the relationship or insecurities about people in one’s life. If either of these situations are you then the Eight of Pentacles is reminding you that we are not all perfect. We must all start somewhere in order to grow on your path and it is likely that you are in this situation for a reason.
When looking for love, the Eight of Pentacles has a different meaning entirely. In this case traditionally the card turns around and says you need to lighten up on yourself and your desires and advises to take small steps forward right now. Focus first on ways that you are ready for love and cultivate those. Be aware that you likely still have old emotions or hang ups from a previous relationships that need to be resolved so that you do not repeat past mistakes. Which you seem to be doing.
You need to take care of that which is important first----and that is finding out why there are discrepancies in your finances. Does someone have access to your credit cards or checking and savings account? If they do then you need to make changes quickly.
2nd---stop yearning for your ex, you are only wishing for the good times but have forgotten why your ex is your ex, be realistic.
3. About your relationship with your Mother, flat out ask her why has she been hurtful towards you, what reasoning was behind her actions, don’t say anything, remain silent, let her talk her mouth off, if she stops and there is an area that is unclear simply ask her in a quiet voice “Why did …..?” and let her talk again and remain silent.
Silence from you will un-nerve her, it may wake her up to those actions, But remember in this day and age people have a very bad habit of not accepting that they are equally responsible for having bad things happen. Not only them but yourself as well. If you cannot get any answers from her then seek a counseling therapy group that deals with relationships, and in doing so have the clouded scales fall from your eyes to see things clearly, Because there is a lot of anger that you have. And that anger you need to let go.
Work with your children and be honest with them about situations, they are hurt too, it may be that you all will need group counseling to honestly deal with issues.
This continues in part 3
Part 3 A Candle ritual you can do
DeleteIn terms of rituals you need to first love yourself and release previous pain for that you should get a glass enclosed pink candle or a Chuperosa aka Hummingbird candle in pink
Myrrh incense either in a stick or cone format that can be burned on a heat resistant vessel.
A rose quartz
Sit and meditate envision a warm pink light surrounding you as you hold the rose quartz in your hand, say out loud:
“There is abundant love in the Universe
There is abundant love in me
I see myself as the eternal soul I really am
I know I play an important part in this world
Give me guidance to help me see my path
Give me clarity to help me see my worth
I am a Divine being and I love myself deeply
As I am worthy of the love of others
So shall it be.
Do this meditation every night for 15 minutes chanting this over and over, let your family know that you need this time for yourself, no phone calls no interruptions, no arguments, you need this 15 minutes to yourself.
Eventually when the candle burns out get another and do it again, get that 15 minutes every day or evening.
Then look at my postings for protecting and cleansing your home you find it under archives, you will need to do that to get rid of the negative energy that has built up. It’s like a spiritual spring cleaning.
Carry the rose quartz with you in your purse or pocket so it will generate the loving energy you need.
Teach yourself to be calm and still emotionally and mentally. In time Love with come to you, but it will be slow, this is not a quick process, you first must let go of that internal anger and you need to clear up your financial situation, once you do that everything else will follow suit.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Wonderful, thank you for your insight. Answering the question of why I divorced my ex husband... I could no longer tolerate his drunkenness, and verbal and emotionally abusive ways. I carried the household for two years all the way from cooking cleaning, attending school, looking after the children, working, paying all the bills, everything alone and he let me. I didn't like the fact that a man would let a woman carry all the weight alone for so much time. He lofts off in the hood smoking and drinking everyday and it was just too much for me. I will practice the meditation that you suggested. I appreciate your time.
DeleteThank you.
Mentioning the section where the question was asked if I am keeping him away from the child... No I have never kept the child away from him or mad it difficult for him to have contact with the child...when he would have the child for a day or two, she would come back injured in some form or fashion. Not that he was abusing her, but more like neglect... Unsupervised... Even when we were married I would always tell him to call your children, he would say he don't have any money. I would let him know its important that they hear from you and that they know you care of how they are doing. The history is very long on this story. Those were his older children.
DeleteDear One,
DeleteI had to ask, I'm sorry if I mis-understood you on that aspect.
Many times I've found that Mothers will keep the children from the father's out of anger.
But I did not have that feeling it was that, from the reading, but I had to put it there to be sure.
Yes there are men who are that way, selfish, self-centered.
And neglect, being unsupervised does communicate to a child that they are not loved.
It is sad, and I am sure you did your best in a very difficult and trying situation.
Trust me, you are loved and are very blessed, Jesus and Mother Mary know you for the good person you are.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
I completely understand. Thank you!
DeleteHi, I sent you a comment but its not viable.
ReplyDeleteHello My Dear,
DeleteI have received you comment but I do not post it until I also have an answer or reply for you.
Please be patient, you've asked many questions and I'm trying to sort it all out.
Now when you say its not "viable" do you mean "its not Visible" that is do you mean you do not see it as oppose to "it's a non-issue". I am assuming it is the former, "visible" and not the latter.
I receive many questions and it takes time to discern the answers. You must be feeling a lot of pressure, please just take deep breaths, relax I will have an answer for you soon.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hi i was wondering if anyone knows who or where I can get a reading t.i.a
ReplyDeleteDear T.I.A.
DeleteNot knowing what state or city you live in I cannot suggest anyone, especially if you want a full reading that is more than just one card. Especially if you want to see the card reader in person.
If you want a full reading done over the internet I can suggest three Associations to you and you can choose a reader that feels right to you.
The first Group is the American Rootworker Association (ARA) their web site is http://www.americanrootworkassociation.com/
The second group is the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers (AIRR) their web site is http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/
There is also the American Tarot Association go to their web site and click “Readings” their web site is http://www.ata-tarot.com/
If you live overseas then I recommend Biddy Tarot of Australia she has several certified Tarot Readers and you can book a reading with them, their Website is https://www.biddytarot.com/tarotreading/
If you wish a one card reading from me, which I do as a courtesy, then you will need to post your question and only one question, and I will eventually post your question and the card reading. Do not worry if your question does not come up immediately, that’s because there is a delay of some hours between your submission and the posting.
But if you want a reading in depth where you have more than one situation happening then I suggest that you check on the readers that are offered through these Associations.
Please Avoid those telephone psychics that advertise on T.V. Most of them read from a script and it can become very expensive for you.
JUST REMEMBER THE ASSOCIATIONS THAT I’VE SUGGESTED DO NOT DO THIS FOR FREE, THERE IS A FEE INVOLVED, If you do not have the Money to pay for a Reading then I’d advise you to save up for it. If it’s an emergency of great mental and spiritual stress then speak to your priest or pastor to help you.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Thank you Queen, :) . yes I was trying to type visable. I will be patient.
ReplyDeleteYou're Welcome My Dear,
DeleteIf you look above you will see I've done a 3 part reading on your situation. You have a lot of difficulties to deal with.
But with time, and a lot of work it will all come together. Just know that when things are at its hardest, the spirit of the Divine Presence is always with you, you are never alone and never un-loved.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hey, I hope your in a good health. My name is Jyotika. Okie my husband monish Ramchandani he in a good job I am just lil worried regarding his stability his success in his new job. The company where he is working is called Property Anthem it is a real estate a complete different field for my husband . His role is about client servicing will he be able to do closures will he receive abundance of Wealth good luck I don't anything wrong or bad happening with my husband . Could you please see my card and help me as I have been daily burning green candles at our house. My mom in law Meeta Ramchandani she is working really hard will she get good amount of closures where her incentives increase. Will our financial crises banish and abundance flow our way. Please help me
ReplyDeleteDear Jyotika,
DeleteI did a one card reading for you and the card I drew is Justice, this may be an odd card to draw but I feel it is the correct one.
Justice is about the achievement of balance and inner harmony after a great trial. Agreements, contracts, or treaties concluded justly. Things set to rights. Karma restored. A turn for the better in matters.
Justice deals with the idea of karma and the law of cause and effect, stating that all events, and all people, are connected. It's important to remember that not everything you are dealing with, however, is a direct result of your own actions or karma. Sometimes you will be called upon to deal with the results of the actions of someone you care about, and this can sometimes be as difficult and demanding as it is when you're up against something that is completely of your own making. Don't blame or worry yourself unnecessarily.
You are concerned that your husband may not do well in a new field, he is going to have to work hard but needs to be sure that his work/life balance is where it needs to be. Too much emphasis on either one could throw the other off balance. Balance mentally and spiritually is necessary in order to thrive.
Very often, when this card appears in the context of money, it can mean that a (usually fairly small) "windfall" may be coming to your family’s way. Money that you weren't expecting can show up now. That's always a good thing. Use it wisely, use it to pay off debts or save for that which is very important.
Justice is also saying that it’s an important part of living a sensible and healthy life. Consider how you might be "out of balance" - particularly if you have a health challenge now if you do from worry then remedy the situation. You have the power to do so.
Spirituality this is a time to work on being grounded. Do you feel as though you are connected to the earth and your fellow man? Can you be "in the world" but not "of the world?" Balance again is the theme here. Working on keeping the proper perspective about life will help you to stay centered.
Justice is a very good card to draw. It is a significant indicator of a positive resolution, although how and what sort will depend on your own experiences. It also may simply be telling you to seek out balance in your life.
Balancing your emotions will pay off and bring you harmony in your families life. The confusion of your life can be overcome if you find inner balance. You will receive some gift of advice or have a debt repaid to you.
When all is said and done, you will receive the outcome that you truly deserve. Your moral character will be justified, so maintain integrity and strive to balance yourself.
The Justice card is all about karma, fairness, and balance in different affairs in your life. It does not suggest an outcome that is either for or against you, but accountability, dignity, and integrity are all liked to its presence. It also indicates that it will be important to settle old accounts and debts.
Your husband will be working hard to learn his new job, it will take time for the wealth to come but it will eventually, he will have some stumbling blocks at first but he can do it, keep burning the green candles, but also watch his health and the health of your Mother in law, stress on making good closures can bring illness so it’s important to maintain balance in their health, your mother in law will also do well but it also pays to look at the economy of where you live to get a good idea of what people want, it will give your husband and mother in law good insight on how things will go.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello I was told by a reader that my man let's call him jay baby mother is burning a black candle on him and I causing negativity. So I decided to burn a reversible candle. I have been burning them for two weeks and in the past two weeks they have been arguing is it because everything that she wanted to happend to me and him is reversing back on her but worse.
ReplyDeleteHello My Dear,
DeleteThe short answer is “Yes.”
That is why in Conjure, Hoodoo, witchcraft and folk magic it is vitally important that anyone who does “the work” have shields and wards on their home and on their person for protection and to reverse negative magick.
I have a feeling she is no going to give up, so you may need to continue doing the reversing candle for a while, until she is exhausted in her efforts.
In the meantime while you are burning the reversing candles, burn candles for a peaceful home, for gentle love to grow between you and your man, so that he senses that you and your home is the place to be, now it won’t be easy especially if he likes to go what I call “Tom Catting” but by also burning those candles it will make you and your home environment very pleasing, and inviting.
I also suggest especially during these cold month and through spring to burn scented candles that smell of vanilla and cinnamon, that will help with the cozy, comfortable feeling in your home.
I also strongly recommend that you put shields and wards on your home to protect it from negativity.
Check my archive listing for posting on Shielding, psychic attack, wards, and warding, as well as witch bottle, spirit protection, rail road spikes, personal protection, protection spells, Keys for protection, house warding, house cleansing, house warding cleansing continued, and Cleansing personal space.
I know this may seem a lot but once you start the work to protect yourself, your loved ones and your home, you will see the difference it makes.
My Granny and her ladies did it all the time, it’s like getting rid of negative, spiritual dust bunnies only they are nastier.
It goes beyond being organized and Fung Shui, because by being organized, the house/home clean and the spiritual energy flowing correctly, you’ll find you can do wonders.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello the good one I hope you are health and well I just, visited your blog today. My name is emeka I have leave in south Africa 16 years now, I can't find my feet I went home 2014.my family told me that they went to consult for me they were told that. If come home I cannot go back to south africa.ms Q after spending 2weeks with my family, at south Africa entry point I was depoted to Nigeria the immigration said my permit is old permit. That I need to come back with visa,i stayed 9months before coming back December 2014 haven went home March 2013.since coming back to SA I don't. Know what is following me,and my wife has been having night dream terrible one in fact I am in middle of no place. Please my Queen I need your help.my first child is 7and half years born in 16th of January 2009,since then we have been trying but Notting.my business is in shambles I can't eat please tell me what to do I was born in March 1972.please help me,please help me.
ReplyDeleteDear Emeka,
DeleteFirst find someone who speaks very clear English and can understand some of the words I’m writing and can properly translate them to you.
I am not sure how spiritual consultations are done in either South Africa or Nigeria, I can only tell you from my American Folk Magic experience. Some terms or phases that you say are not familiar to me, but as I understand it you can’t go home because of your permit and visa problems, I’m not sure what “not finding your feet” means but to me it means that you are not grounded with the earth, something is separating you from it.
I looked into what it is that is “haunting” you and drew several cards from Tarot the first was the Nine of Wands (Strength), but reverse or upside down, it means Efforts compromised by traitors or saboteurs. The scattering of forces before the battle is fought. Ill health and faltering of the will. This concerned me. Because this means you may feel as though you are constantly under attack or are being watched. Oftentimes, this is indicative of a fear from within, rather than an actual external threat. Counseling help is advised.
So I drew another card and it was the Five of Wands (Strife), reversed, meaning quarreling at a time of crisis. A stressful situation that brings out the worst in the participants.
You wife is a natural “sensitive” she has the ability to see things beyond, this is why she has terrible dreams, her guardian angels are trying to warn you and her about this unseen “thing” which is making your life very bad.
In American or European words we would call it a “psychic vampire” I do not know what you would call it in your language, the Afrikaans word is vampier, I think in Africa it might be called a tikoloshe but this thing was sent out to you by someone who knows you to deliberately make your life miserable. Why? I do not know, envy? Jealousy? Greed? Any of those reasons are possible.
If it is this creature, legend has that it can be capture and killed, but then the energy used to send it out needs to be returned to the original sender, first do a reversing candle to send the energy back to the sender to weaken the creature.
Then put up protective spiritual shields to keep it away. Have you, your wife and child wear a St. Michaels medal and call upon him to protect you. Then consult with a good practioner to get a better idea what it is that is following you and either destroy it or send it back to the one who wanted it sent to you.
I do not know how to do it, because it is a creature that I am unfamiliar with so I do not know its weaknesses, but a good practioner will know how. One thing I do understand is that it can be lured with a drink of milk that is sometimes mixed with blood, but how to get rid of it, I have to admit is beyond my abilities. That is why a good practitioner who understands these things and won’t cheat you is very important.
Call upon St. Michael to help you re-build your business and always have Holy water in your home and at your place of work to bless yourselves when you leave your home and when you return, have your wife and child do it as well. Once this is done things will start to go better for you and your family.
Do not despair, this thing Can be defeated.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hi Queen,hope you are doing well. I was hoping you could do a 1 card reading to see if 2017 will be a better year for me. Thank you for your time and consideration.
ReplyDeleteMy Dear,
DeleteNot knowing the life situation you’ve been having I simply asked my Guides to direct me to the correct Tarot card for you for 2017 and the card I drew is the Two of Cups (Love) upright.
The Two of Cups’ Meaning is about Commitment · Friendship · Love · Partnership · Relationship: The perfect harmony of union, in romance, friendship, or business. A deep and palpable connection radiating joy and contentment. A great concordance or pledge of fidelity.
The joining of male and female interpreted in the broadest sense. The sanctification of the natural through that which exists on a higher plane.
This may indicate the meeting of a kindred soul, possibly marriage, engagement, merger, or a business partnership it could be anyone of these situations.
No matter what the single resounding theme associated with the Two of Cups is partnership.
What sort of partnership is less clear, but you are in the past, present, or in the future, part of a powerful one. This partnership will involve absolute trust and commanding respect.
It may, of course, be a particularly emotional love affair, but it’s possible that it could just as easily be a deep and abiding friendship. The exact nature will be revealed to you as time goes on.
Either way it will be a source of happiness for you, though, a presence in your life you can count on at every turn, and whose well-being will be as important to you as your own.
In the Past you have recently made a friendship or partnership that will in time bring you great rewards in the future. This connection will be meaningful for years to come.
It is possible the eventually a loving union or close partnership will begin soon. Through commitment and dedication, this relationship will bring you great rewards, even if they are distant.
For sure in the Future be on the lookout for a partner that will facilitate the achievement of your goals. It should be someone like you who can understand your ambitions and priorities that will be very important to you.
No matter what the Two of Cups shouts about love, positive relationships, and togetherness which is what you are going to need. It suggests a life full of close bonds, good friendships, and mutual love and respect therein.
This card encompasses all happy, positive, loving feelings. If you have a question then the answer that the Two of Cups is providing to you is yes.
2016 in numerology is a 9 year, a 9 year is a time to finish things, get rid of old habits, clean out the closet, get rid of that which no longer works be it things or relationships, clear out that which clutters up your life.
And that is because 2017 is a 1 year and a 1 year is new beginnings, a fresh start, getting one’s life back on track, new ventures and a lot more, but to do that you need to clear the decks so to speak, and realize and get rid of what is holding you back so that 2017 can be the positive start to a new life for you.
The Two of Cups is saying that will happen, exactly when in 2017 or who it is I don’t know, only that it will happen so be aware of it and make use of it to get your life to be better and healthier for you.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello I have been dealing with a problem and I don't know how to get rid of it i have been in a relationship with the same person for 3 years now and her mom is always in the way making her lie to me and putting things in her head that are not true so that she will leave me I am asking for help what can I do to make things better with her
ReplyDeleteMy Dear,
DeleteYou do not tell me how old you and your friend are, and is she living with her Mom or on her own or with you.
The big question I would ask of you, which is being left out, is why is her Mom so antagonistic towards you? Do you live a life that her Mother does not approve of? Do you dress in a way that is off-putting towards her Mother? Do you behave in a manner that her Mother considers disrespectful? Do you try to dominate your friend? And I’d have other questions of a similar sort but that would take up space.
All parents Mothers especially, who love their children, will go to great lengths to protect them, and you Have to respect that, when you have children of your own (if you don’t already), you will understand what I call the “Mama Tiger Syndrome” and you Do Not want to mess with a Mama Tiger, I’ve seen them in action, not a pretty sight.
What you need to try to do is make it better with her Mother, be respectful, dress conservatively, avoid being involved in things that maybe considered dangerous, or illegal, utilized caution and care in everything that you do. Offer to help out around the home such as repairs or clean up or if you drive a car take the Mother shopping, moving furniture, painting a room. Show her that you are a responsible and honest person. And be nice, even if it ‘kills you’. That is the best way to solve a problem, solve it, don’t get rid of it, because that will make things worse.
Recently we had a very tragic fire that killed 36 young people, look it up on Google under Oakland Ghost Ship Warehouse Fire, a mother came to me crying, she didn’t want her daughter to go, but the boy ignored the mother’s warnings and persuaded the girl, she got out but was severely burned, the boy escaped without a scratch thought it was a lark, I don’t have to tell you the Mother’s feelings towards the boy.
What you can do spiritually is a Honey Jar to sweeten her Mother towards you, and then do what I suggested to see if that will solve the problem.
I did a one card reading for you on this situation and sadly Spirit had me draw Ten of Swords.
In terms of romance it’s not good, it means Sadness and desolation in the aftermath of a catastrophic and total collapse.
Ten of Swords mainly describes a relationship that will end both sadly and bitterly. This card shows a rejection. Now if you have been arguing with her she will eventually break up with you, in spite of your best efforts.
This relationship will go nowhere and only leads to arguments, I looked further into this and drew another card because I didn’t want to leave it flat, and I drew the Seven of Cups which means Daydreams and things seen in the glass of contemplation. The scattering of energies by strong desires and unrealistic goals. The pursuit of illusions and the dissipation of energy on false choices.
This card only confirms that your relationship is not really based on Love or real friendship but on the antagonism as presented by her Mother. And that is not a good basis for a relationship.
So I asked another question of Tarot and I drew the Two of Wands, it means that both of you will each go your own way and each of you will find partners who will be just right for you. During the time away from each other you will both come to grips with the decision to part and plot a new and responsible course in both your lives. You will both set positive goals in each of your lives and a new vision for a better future.
In the long run it will be better and healthier for the both of you. Please seriously consider that but wait until after the New Year to make a decision or do anything. During the Holidays just let it be between her and her Mother do nothing to upset anything, as hard as it will be.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Good day to you Ms. Queen:
ReplyDeleteI am very new to these sorts and have recently found my place within my soul and the lord. It has brought me to so many new levels that I am eager, willing, openly and ready to receive.
I have a child of 4 years of age and he and I have struggled because of his afflictions for a few years. I stay strong for him through everything. I am the non parent of my child and have had him since he was 1 month old, over the past year I began to rid myself of what I felt was negative in my life, closing doors for me, any opportunities I was seeking. This is a slow process and I am in no means innocent of sin, or wrong doings.
I have legal custody of my child, but this custody is shared by another, however she has not ever been apart of my child's life. I felt that my partner of almost 3 years was a huge impact of negative surrounding me and my son. But my now ex has strong ties with the other woman who has legal rights to my son as well. So now my son and myself are facing a great deal of torment. Lies are being spread about my sons health and my abilities as a parent are being challenged. My son has overcome a great deal of obstacles, well we both have, and we continue to stay vigilant in our quest to get past it all and live a fruitful/and happy life. I believe strongly there are forces trying to take my son away from me so I have begun my rituals with my candles, and yesterday an incident occurred that I had not ever encountered, one of the candles ( and I lit 3 and wrote petitions upon) lit in an uncontested way then the flame split into 2,the shadow that cast looked like horns. I continued with my ritual and began cleansing my home, and that particular candle began to burn almost in a violent manner, I did not let this restrict my abilities to proceed with my ritual. once the ritual was complete, I brought my son to my bedroom to lay with me fearful for any negative or evil spirits or harm to come to him. The candle flickered out, I moved the candle to a different location away from the other 2, and it finally burned as a regular candle would, but when I removed this candle from the other 2, the other 2 began to burn in almost a violent way as well, but not for a long time.
I am looking for guidance or anything to help ne stay strong and focused in making the right decisions for what is in the best interests of my son, any insight I would greatly appreciate.
I forgot to make mention of the candles I am presently using, with a guide I am burning the candles in hopes to stop any gossip, or to keep them quiet, but I feel they have strong forces behind the ones I write upon the parchment paper. I have a statue of St. Anthony and have performed this ritual as well, which brought me my son home, because the other woman did take him at one point and had him for 12 days. I have read upon your archives for the just judge, I truly believe I need something more.
DeleteMy Dear,
DeleteThe most important thing is to seek legal counsel from a good lawyer who can assist you.
2nd you need to determine who is spreading those lies and take legal steps to prevent those lies from being believed by authorities.
If need be get an affidavit from your son’s doctor testifying to the care, health and well-being of your son.
There is such a thing called “Slander” and once proven in court that Libelous and false allegations have been made against you then you can take that person to court and sue them, perhaps even get a restraining order against them.
This takes time but you most certainly need a lawyer to help you, this goes beyond just evil magical doings.
You have not told me what kind of candles you are burning and which one split into two flames. That would help me interpret what Spirit is trying to say to you.
It seems that they are fighting off negative energies or spirits and doing their best, but you also need to take action in the “real, mundane world” and get a lawyer immediately to protect you and your son from improper legal action.
That is what the candles are doing, they are talking to you.
I did a one card reading on your situation and drew the Six of Swords but it’s reversed.
This means being stuck in a problem which has no apparent solution. Frustration and anxiety that are left unsettled.
In a way you are experiencing information overload. Clear your mind and put your thoughts in order. In a situation where there has been mental or physical abuse - you need distance and support so that you can gain a new perspective. With distance it is possible to rise above the situation so that you can see the larger pattern, determine some meaning behind it and what actions are necessary.
There are times when it is proper to leave others behind, in order to break through relationship patterns that obsess and bind you.
When you feel locked into a difficult set of circumstances - nothing can be accomplished – you must center yourself, from that you will know what to do.
The Six of Swords reversed indicates that you are trying your best to move on from the past and make the important transition that you know you need to make.
You are trying to move from any past experiences which you know that have not been helping you.
However, given this card is reversed, it is clear that you are experiencing some challenges in doing this and no matter how hard you try to leave the past behind you, it keeps catching up with you.
What is hard is that there are a lot of unresolved issues from the past, which you had hoped you could leave behind you but they keep rearing their heads preventing you from getting to being that you really want to be.
Although there maybe moments when you doubt whether you are making the right decision, remember this card gently encourages you forward, reminding you that you are heading towards a better future, even though others are trying to stop you, you will break through.
What is important is that you look at the benefits of this rather than focusing on the fears or drawbacks so that even if this is out of your control, you can at least look forward to it and get some sort of value out of it.
The reversed Six of Swords may also indicate that you have not moved on from a past relationship and are carrying a lot of ‘baggage’ from it with you. You need to work hard at leaving this behind, otherwise it will continue to plague your current and future endeavors.
That is why getting a good lawyer to help you is vital to protecting you and your son, if you are getting assistance in caring for your son (money) it’s possible that greed on another person’s part is the motivating factor.
You need to work on this both legally in the real world and spiritually in the alternate world that is what Spirit is trying to tell you.
I will put you in my prayer circle to give you strength, but you will succeed, you just have to work at it.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
My Dear,
DeleteI’m glad that you have used St. Anthony which brought your son home, but sometimes stopping gossip is going to take more than burning candles
If you know who is doing the gossiping you can do a freezing spell, what you do is write the name of the person nine times in pencil on a piece of brown paper torn from a paper bag, (do not cut), then turn the paper 1 quarter around and in pencil write across the name either the words “Stop gossiping about me” or “Shut your mouth do not talk about me” then fold the paper away from you, put it into a small plastic bag (like Ziplock baggies) fill it ¼ with water from the tap and put it into your freezer, and let it stay there.
If you don’t know who is gossiping about you then write down “All of you who are gossiping” and then do the rest. Keep that in your freezer for as long as you need to.
Another spell is called “Tapa Boca” or to shut the mouth, but it requires getting from the butcher a calf tongue or lamb’s tongue the problem is those are pretty big.
Now buying a beef (calf) tongue is not unusual because it can be cooked, and eaten, in some places in the USA it is done and is not considered unusual. During World War II, many people couldn’t get the better cuts of meat and learned to make soup out of tripe, beef tongue, and also prepare Blood Sausage all very edible, but not done so much now. I remember my Granny still cooking those foods and it tasted good.
Doing “Tapa Boca” takes a bit of time, and is far longer than what I can write here. So I may eventually do a post on it. When I do, print it out and keep your own copy for future reference.
But in the mean time you may want to consider doing a Just Judge for your situation as well as the freezer spell, You can also write the name of the other woman and then across her name write, “Keep away from my son” and freeze her as well.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Thank you so much, the candles im using are st. Raymond...I found one to be cracked when I got home yesterday. I placed a white just judge between 2 of the ones that turned black on top, and the one that split into 2 flames will not stay lit, today I will begin the ritual again using a new candle.
ReplyDeleteMy situation is one that is unique and I do have legal representation, I am doing my best to stay focused...so much over is whelming, but as I stated before I will remain vigilant...many blessings to you and yours through the holidays thank you so very much, your reply has brought me to tears...I am truly greatful
My Dear,
DeleteI am glad that you are starting the ritual again with a new candle. St. Raymond is very good for gossip.
Yes a situation like this can be overwhelming but you will get through it.
I did another one card reading for you to see how 2017 will be for you and your son and I drew the Six of Swords again, but this time it was up right and I take that as a very good sign.
It means to be Trusting in intelligence and intuition as you are both setting off into the unknown.
You will be leaving an untenable situation and charting a new course in your lives.
This is a Passage from difficulty and progress towards a solution. It is the road to recovery.
You will find the process a form of learning travel and exploration to achieve the peace you desire for both you and your son.
2017 will start with a bit of difficulty on your journey but not so bad that you cannot weather through it, you will see things getting better, it will take time and by this time next year you will feel as if you have completed a rite of passage and all for the good.
Part of it is that you will also be learning more how to do “the work” to protect the both of you, as well and working with the legal system and your lawyer, you may always have to do it, but you will get better at it, and more successful at it.
Keep doing what you are doing, also read my postings as well as the comments section to add to your knowledge, print it out if need be and keep it organized in a 3 ring binder. You never know when it will come in handy.
I’m keeping you in my prayer circle, and Have a Blessed Holiday.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
I happen upon your blog because I was trying to learn candle colors and their meaning because of a reading I learned I have something on me that's blocks my relationship from blossoming. Voodoo Queen you are a blessing and inspiration too many. May your health and knowledge continue with the highest of blessings. Also I learned the fellow is my soul mate and I really want this removed to see this relationship sore. This is blocking my soul mate getting closer to me, the reader said. Unfortunately the reader wants a fee but I want watever it is gone. Please help me help us, thank you.
ReplyDeleteMy Dear,
DeleteIn this case it’s not so much a particular color candle that you need to find and work with although there is one that you can do, but you first need to clear yourself. And to do that I recommend that you do an Egg cleansing spell, followed by doing an 13 day herb bath, your blocks can also be crossed conditions as well, so by doing the cleansings you will be doing the work to uncross yourself.
How do you get into a block or crossed condition? It could be from many factors, from working in a negative environment to having someone putting a crossed condition on you out of spite and you may not know it.
Now I want you to first look up on my archive section “egg cleansing” and then “13 herb bath” follow those instructions---it takes time but it’s worth it. Then I want to you light two different candles one for uncrossing and another for Block Buster, anoint the first candle with Uncrossing oil and the other one with Block Buster oil. Then for 3 days in a row pray Isiah 41 using the King James Version.
I recommend that you purchase these items from another Metaphysical Shop not from the one where the reader that you went to works at.
The one thing I can guarantee is that over all you will feel better, be able to breathe better, but will the fellow come to you is another thing, because the Soul mate process it much different than what most people commonly believe, because we can have several “soul mates” but it depends upon how they are to relate to you in each life time.
We do not have just the “One and Only Soul mate” but we can have several, for example in my life my Mother was my soul mate because we got along so well we could read each other thoughts, a dear friend of mine who was Gay was also a soul mate but we were to be together so I could help him transition (pass on) but we were the best of friends. And my husband is also my Soul mate even though we have occasional “hissy-fits” but we are together for the long haul, but in the next life time my friend may become my husband, my Mother become my friend and my Husband may become my Father, because each soul steps into the position they need to be in.
If he is meant to come to you he will, otherwise he will become a very good friend, as my Granny use to say “Don’t push the river, it will flow by itself” but do that spiritual cleansing, it is very important that you do that.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Greetings to the Queen
ReplyDeleteI would like you to help me get direction for this new year.
Firstly let me start by introducing myself. I am a mother of two kiads, different fathers. My last born son is only 5 months and the breakup between me and he's dad was the worst thing that has ever happened to me. But I have survived. Last year I managed to get myself a car that I have been wanting for so long.
This year my Queen, I am hoping and praying to get my kids a home. And to also get myself a better job. Kindly advice me on which candle colors do I use to pray for those. And also I would like to find out if will I ever meet my soul mate? Or am I one of those woman who will be successful without a spouse ?
I thank u Queen and may the blessings be poured unto you.
Dear Joselyn, And may many blessings be poured upon you as well,
DeleteYou have a “spouse” working for you, one who has been with you spiritually, now you need to recognize him.
He is St. Joseph the worker, in Catholic lore (old time-pre-Vatican two lore) he is referred to as the Chaste Spouse of Mother Mary, he is believed to be an older man, who took in Mary knowing she was already with child and unmarried, he did that to protect her, later to protect the child Jesus.
He is called upon to help find work, to help both to buy as well as sell a house, as a protector of children and families, as well as those who travel in their Vehicles and as one gets older and close to the end of their lives he is called upon for what is called “a happy death”.
Sister Mary Martha, on her blog site “Ask Sister Mary Martha” describes St. Joseph as a very understanding man, a good all-around man.
You really don’t need a color candle, what you need is a St. Joseph candle and usually that candle comes in yellow and yellow usually stands for knowledge, dreams and desires.
But if you cannot find a yellow candle then a white one will do and you can print an image of St. Joseph off of the internet to help you focus.
You would do a 54 day novena (a series of prayers) to him and start it on a Sunday (also light the candle as well) have 27 days to petition and then pray 27 days in thanks, first do one for 27 days then on the next day start the other, whether any results have immediately happened or not.
There are many prayers to St. Joseph on the internet that you can find.
And I recommend finding a very nice picture to hang in the Children’s bed room so he can watch over them.
Now are you eventually going to find a man who will be good for you?
Well I also did a one card reading and I drew the Knight of Swords, now this card tells me that a romantic situation is coming your way and you’ll find him charming, he may not be handsome but there’s something about him it is intelligence and personality that attracts you, he’ll be a very nice dresser. In some ways he may even over whelm you.
When that happens take a step back because you want to be able to see him and his intentions clearly.
Because sometimes this card can also represent someone who is also a “player” and you want someone who is there for you that is steady for you.
He himself may not be romantic as he finds most displays of affection silly and embarrassing. Holding hands and acting tender do not readily fall into his territory. He’d be more long chats and discussions over dinners or meals that would be more entertaining to him. His high energy will leave you quite exhausted, but happy.
But remember this person is an incurable flirt and knows how to charm the opposite sex.
So I would say that in the almost near future you will have an interesting interlude but be prepared for the fact that he will go his own way, and you should make sure that you do not have child number 3.
So I would say that for at least this year you will be far more successful without a man in your life.
You are a very determined woman, strong, you are the kind of woman that really doesn’t need a man to define who you are, but in a way you’d like to have a man to help share the burden, I do not see that happening this year, because you are going to be busy with other things that come first, new job, and a home. Focus on that and you’ll find happiness.
Bright Blessings
Ms. Q
What candle can I burn to save my home from foreclosure I am less than five thousand dollars behind Please Help
ReplyDeleteMy Dear,
DeleteIf you are able to work with the bank, Find out about your options early in the foreclosure process.
You may have to file bankruptcy in order to save the house, you may have to get a re-modification, do your homework and be proactive. This will make all the difference in saving the home.
If need be get a good reputable lawyer that works with foreclosure to help negotiate with the bank to allow time for you to make up the difference, and get back on track.
Burning a candle will not be enough to prevent foreclosure, but nailing your property down with railroad spikes might help. Please read my two postings on railroad spikes when you do that pray with conviction that you shall keep your home.
Burn a green money candle to help you find the money or a block buster candle to remove the obstacle of foreclosure, If need be Read Psalm #1 (King James Bible) and Psalm 18 when you are done speak out loud to the Divine Presence asking to keep your home.
But work proactively with the bank, if this not a bank but a questionable lending organization you may need to go to court or even submit this case to the FBI. That is where a good lawyer will help you.
This is not a guarantee but it might help forestall the proceedings. Good Luck!
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Blessings Ms. Q,
ReplyDeleteI'M so glad to have stumbled over your page. I need help. I've been with the same person over 12 yrs now, we have 2 beautiful kids but yet he refuses to marry me. I love him so much but im not willing to settle. Can you tell me if I should hang in there anD wait for him??
Dear India,
DeleteBlessings to you too, but what I’m going to say about your situation may seem harsh but I cannot emphasize this enough to you.
You’ve been with the same man for 12 years, have two beautiful children yet he does not want to marry you?
He is forgetting the fact that the rules of marriage in a court of law will protect both you and the children, I’m not sure what country you live in but if it’s in the U.S. by being married if anything happens to him then through the various programs the government offers, you and the children will have help, but without marriage you and the children will be destitute, possibly homeless, living on the streets, has he thought about that?
Marriage protects the spouse and the children, both in insurance, health care and in finances, it’s important that he be made aware that he, by his refusal to marry is placing both you and the children in dire circumstances, especially if he’s hit by a truck or is felled by a fatal heart attack or killed in a drive by shooting tomorrow.
Of course he’s going to say “Oh that won’t happen” WRONG, it or something similar WILL happen when he least expects it. Marriage protects the both of you, Why do you think Gay and Lesbian couples have been fighting for the rights to get married, because of the protection!!! And he doesn’t want to get married??? Why? Does he have another hidden wife someplace else??
Forget the aspect of that “you love him” If he truly loves you, he would march the both of you to the court house and get married right away. But if he’s not doing that then forget about the Love aspect and protect yourself and your children because he’s NOT!
As my Daddy use to say “Men think why should they buy the cow when they can get the milk for free” it’s a crude way of saying this arrangement benefits him but by law it does not benefit you.
O.K. now that I have “scolded you” and pointed out the facts of the legal benefits of marriage, I did a one card reading for you and your situation and the card I drew is the Eight of Pentacles (Prudence)
This card means dedicating yourself fully to a task. Learning a new craft or skill. Applying painstaking attention to detail. Industriousness and the efficient completion of tasks. Sticking with a project long enough to see it through.
It means it would be prudent of you to see to getting married, pointing out to him the benefits of it, and if he agrees and goes through with it then you will have completed your task in protecting yourself and the children, but if he refuses, then you are going to have to go to work, find a day care provider and then sue him for support in the courts, point that out to him, he won’t have his cozy nest anymore.
It means it would be prudent for you to move on if he won’t budge and take all those legal steps to protect your children. Be strong and mean it, and do not be his “comfortable pillow” let him know what he’ll be losing, if he cares and will do it, then have a simple marriage ceremony with close family and friends, if he doesn’t care, kick him out and take him to court for support.
Because you have reached a point were love will not feed and clothed and shelter the children.
I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but I'm thinking of the children too. Remember its not just you and him, there are 2 more lives to consider.
Good Luck.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hi Queen, Happy New Year, I hope this year is finding you in good health. My partner and I have been discussing marriage, buying a house and having a baby this new year. I was hoping you could do a 1 card reading if possible. My dob is 11.19.82 and his is 06.24.71. Thank you in advance for your time.
ReplyDeleteHello My Dear,
DeleteI just want to let you know I have your question, but please give me a day or two to answer. We are having power problems and I never know when it will cut out.
But I will answer you soon.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
And Happy New Year to you my Dear,
DeleteMy Goodness you want to do all of that in one year? First I would advise not stressing yourself out so much, take things slowly, planning a wedding can be insane (I should know, been there) but if you are planning something very simple that is wise and less stressful, I would strongly advise that for the both of you.
You are Scorpio but close to the cusp of Sagittarius so there will be some influence from the next sign, he is Cancer and just past the cusp of the previous sign Gemini so there may be some lingering influence from the previous sign, but I’m going to look at both of you as Scorpio and Cancer, the good thing is that you are both water signs but may have some fire and some air influence, Cancer is a Cardinal Sign, Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. When both of you have a common wish or goal, it comes true. However, if your opinions clash, look out and duck for cover! Cancer will be the first to start an argument and Scorpio will finish it.
The resulting relationship draws together energies of two emotionally intense Signs. You would combine well, each partner’s strengths balancing the other’s weaknesses. Cancer and Scorpio have a great deal in common, and a lot of potential to keep their relationship passionate and going strong.
This combination enjoys buying things together, creating a comfortable living space, are both concerned with the home and have fierce loyalties to the family group, this combination complements each other well.
But the two of you have to remember that rather than letting disagreements and bad feelings boil over, you must discuss what’s truly important to the both of you in order to reach an equitable compromise.
Once the both of you learn to trust and believe in one another, then the two of you can achieve almost anything through sheer determination.
This relationship will only fail if the two of you truly cannot overcome your opinionated, stubborn sides.
But once you are comfortable and are going in for the long haul then your mutual determination makes your relationship formidable.
Now the one card reading, with all your goals in mind I drew a card from Tarot and it is the Three of Wands (Virtue)
Three of Wands’ Meaning is about Achievement · Fresh starts · Long-term success · Partnerships · Trade as well as personal fortitude and strength of character. Accumulated power set in motion towards a distant goal. The initiation of an enduring partnership based on absolute trust. Honor maintained in a time of desperate struggle. Taking full responsibility for a decision, and bearing the solitude of leadership.
If the both of you can bring the fullness of your creativity and inventiveness to the table, then the Three of Wands brings good news. You will enter a time where potential for productivity and accomplishment is very favorable. Keep your eyes open for new career opportunities and your minds open to new possibilities. The rewards these new opportunities bring, however, will only come in the fullness of time. You both will need to be patient and stick around for the long haul. Also, look for new allies, as any new undertakings will be most successful if undertaken as partnerships.
Your efforts have established a foundation for your success. Maintain your resourcefulness and keep efficiency at the heart of your drive forward. It’s possible that an offer for help may bring about a new project or idea, so do not delay in accepting it. The opportunity to interact with someone with greater resources than you will lead to long-term success. The work ahead of both of you will pose an intellectual or mental challenge. In order to succeed, you must be able to think creatively or invent a path forward.
The Three of Wands stands for fresh starts, achievements, and positive partnerships. It could mean some sort of business expansion, or it could be the confirmation that you are on the right path toward success. It has an overall positive tone the answer is yes.
You'll see the baby in 2018.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hi Queen, I hope you are doing well and are in good health. I previously asked you for a 1 card meeting and things were going great. I feel like my boyfriend and i have it a bump in the road. I was hoping you could do 1 more reading to see if in fact it's just that a bump in the road or more. And to see if what you said is still in our future, marriage and baby. Thank you so much for your time.
DeleteHello My Dear,
DeleteI am doing much better now and still healing.
If you read my latest post I am giving up doing courtesy readings so I can use my time to teach my family about the work, but I will do one last reading for you, and then no more.
I drew a card for you and it is the Seven of Cups (Temptation), but reversed.
Yes you’ve hit a serious bump in the road. And I hope by now the two of you managed to climb over it.
This card means that daydreams and fantasies are brought into realistic focus. It’s a sort of a wake up situation, because the contemplation of many options will help to eventually lead you to a conclusive choice.
It’s a sort of wake up call to you and maybe to him because this is an inner clarity that dissipates illusions and false choices.
It is vital that you continue remaining connected to reality in the face of “pipe dreams”, intoxication, delirium, or hallucination or “being led down a ‘garden path’”.
It’s possible that something has developed perhaps an unwise investment that is costing you either money, or his ideas of what he wants is far too unrealistic and he refuses to be brought down to earth and it could endanger what you had hoped for.
Under rare and extreme circumstances, this card may indicate the failure to recognize a transcendental spiritual truth. It is possible that he is not being realistic or is refusing to.
The Seven of Cups reversed is a card of illusions, temptations, and diversionary tactics. Either his or your views of life at this time of your question, are a bit illusory, and may tend toward fantasies that cannot actually be realized in the real world. There is an unwillingness to deal with the day-to-day reality of life, and a need to get one’s head out of the clouds. The both of you may be feeling unclear about what you are really searching for in order to become fulfilled. Each of you may also be hiding something from the other that probably has to do with subconscious emotions. These illusions and diversions need to be stripped away and seen for what they really are.
The both of you need to stop and give yourself some time and space to think carefully about where your best intentions lie.
If you both have done that then on a more positive note, the reversed Seven of Cups can indicate a time when you are finally breaking through a fog of confusion and illusion to focus on your chosen goal. If the both of you have done that then with resolution and purpose, you should be setting your intentions and finding solutions.
Hopefully you both are doing that.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
May Love's Blessing give you all your heart's desires.
ReplyDeleteGreetings Mrs. Q,
I have been through a lot in my life. I am awaiting for all of my breakthroughs, near or afar.... I AM READY. I'm also in love with this young man who has no children; I have one beautiful daughter, pre-k! May you please give me insight on how to pray my breakthroughs in to existence and shield my family from negativity and generational curses.
So appreciative of your time,
Eboni
DeleteHello Scott,
You’ve posted to me twice but each one is sort of a different question covering different aspects of your life, so I will answer them separately.
You sound happy being blessed with such a beautiful child, enjoy her growing up and discovery years, too soon they become older and think they know everything, but if you can always make discoveries a joint adventure to gain knowledge for her then it will be more than mother-daughter it will be partners in learning, think of it as a female Batman and Robin (1960’s version), even young Robin continues to learn through the guidance of the older Batman(Batwoman?).
Let’s start with Generational curses I did a post about that on October 15, 2015 it was titled “About Curses Generational and Otherwise” if you look at my Archive look up the word “curses” and you find it, read it, and trust me you are not under a “generational curse” the article will explain it thoroughly to you.
Shielding from negativity well is it physical or spiritual is the first thing I ask, because if you are dealing with negative people or even spiritual then look up again in my Archives under the word “banishing”, Two postings one on Banishing oils with a spell and the second one on dealing with “Psychic Vampires” basicly it tells how to deal with negative people. Then to help protect against it creeping into your home check my Archives on “Wards, Warding, House protection, protection” those posts will explain in greater detail than what I can post here to help you. Also wearing a blessed St. Michael’s medal and invoking him helps as well.
Now about Breakthroughs, well it depends upon what you want There are two “Road Opener” and “Block buster” now once again I posted in the Archive “road opener oil” this is more than just an oil posting but also how to open those roads to positivity, you can also do a Block buster candle as well to help spiritually achieve those breakthroughs, and pray to St. Peter or petition him to help open those roads for you.
Pray to St. Peter saying:
“Dear St. Peter, I pray to thee to open the doors, clear the roads and un-block the pathways, Dear Lord, we beseech Thee, raise us up by the Apostolic might of blessed Peter Thine Apostle; that the weaker we are in ourselves, the more powerful may be the succours whereby, through his intercession, we are strengthened; and that thus, ever fortified by the protection of Thine Apostle, we may never yield to sin, nor be overwhelmed by adversity. Through Christ our Lord. St. Peter Thou art the Shepherd of the sheep, the Prince of the Apostles, unto thee were given the keys of the kingdom of heaven. Blest holder of the heavenly keys, Thy prayers we all implore; Unlock to us the sacred bars Of heaven's eternal door.”
Bit by bit you will see things eventually happening,
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Greetings Mrs. Q,
ReplyDeleteMay you please give me direction for my 2017? Is my breakthroughs here and ready? What about this guy I am truly love with? What about my family and finances? I desire your input.
Thank you in advance and Love's Blessings to you and yours!
Eboni
Dear Eboni,
DeleteYou are asking many questions, Breakthroughs don’t happen without a lot of hard work and prayer, I posted a reply to your earlier question, which I feel will be very helpful for you.
In regards to 2017 and your direction, only you can make those choices, I can only tell you what possibilities are out there, I did a one card reading to see what you might be looking at, the card I drew is the Six of Swords.
This card is about a journey · Better future · escape · Left over challenges · possible Travel: Trusting in intelligence and intuition and setting off into the unknown. Leaving an untenable situation and charting a new course. Passage from difficulty and progress towards a solution. The road to recovery. It may include travel and exploration.
You are leaving your current troubles behind to better times ahead. It’s important to face problems from a mental standpoint, thinking through them. There’s still trouble ahead for you, but the worst is over.
You have worked to overcome a major hurdle while staying true to yourself. What you have developed will lead you to a better future.
Currently you see a change in your life for the better. A burden or challenge you will face may yield a new path. In the future the challenges you face will eventually be overcome. The struggles are necessary to provide you with the growth you need to find your way to a better future.
Remember the Six of Swords is symbolic of a journey or escape into mental clarity. It suggests a better, positive future or possibly a period of calm straight ahead of you. Moving forward could require you to use your logic or natural intellect, but the end result is of a positive nature. The breakthrough that you are looking for will come.
This card can literally mean that your financial tide is turning; for the better if you've been struggling, or for the worse, if you've been "riding high" for some time. If it's the former, you might treat yourself to something small but don't get carried away, use your influx of money wisely, save or carefully invest. If it's the latter, batten down the hatches. Now is not the time to gamble, in either situation. Do not loan money, nor co-sign for anything, otherwise you will lose money.
In general this card shows at least a slight reduction in stress and strain. Things may not be perfect, but they are going to be better than they may have been in the recent past. Take this time to get your head above water and decide where you're going from here. Even a short break or change of scenery will be helpful. This doesn't have to cost money.
In terms of work, you may feel that you need a change of employment, that is possible with positive information, don’t just quit work in the hopes of finding a new and better job, keep working as you hunt and then when the new job is secure and you have a start date then leave but do not burn the bridge behind you, do it on a friendly basis.
In love this card says if you're looking for love, this card points to a need to get out of your routines and your usual haunts if you want to meet someone new. Now it’s possible that you already have a new love in your life, and this person is encouraging you to get out of the “blues” and the rut of your life, if nothing else he’ll help you make that transition. Will he be permanent in your life I cannot see that but if nothing else you’ll discover so much more of what you want out of life with him or without him.
This card is saying that you know that even though the situation is not ideal, you are moving toward a more positive place. Change is in the air, and new, more hopeful conditions lie ahead. But use your mind, use logic not emotions or the heart, keep your eyes open, watch for anything that makes you think that things may not be completely ideal, while you will miss those you leave behind, you will also find that you will have an amazing time on your spiritual travels and will learn so much about yourself.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Miss Voodoo Queen, I have contacted you before about my health issues. So here it goes again. Long story short you told me to get a second opinion and I eneded up becoming pregnant and they told me it was life threatening for me and baby. I opted for a medical abortion which I did not want to do. ButcI have a child already so I was thinking about her. Later to come to find outcI was missed diagnosed. So 6months later I am now pregnant again, I think my child never left me and saved me the first time. First question is do you think this is possibly my pass baby soul and will he/she forgive me?.... On top of everything else Me and my fiance are struggling financial we workhard and just want to have our own home for our kids. Is there anything I can do to help this?. I do pray and cry sometimes. My candles stock is gone was goin to purchase more are there other things I neee to get?. My family is from New Orleans is there anyway I can call on my passed away love ones for help?.....my unlce was a voodoo priest will he be able to help?.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your ear and taking time to read this and for offering any advice you can give
Tracy Trammell
Dear Tracy,
DeleteSweet Child how difficult things have been for you, and how difficult was and is your situation.
Sometimes children come into this world only to leave it sometimes even before they are born because they know their immediate work is done.
Yes, your unborn child did save you and is with you again, the child’s soul/spirit hung around to see you getting well and when the time was right is happy to join you again.
Your child never condemned you in the first place, because it knew what was to come, it could see how you agonized over your decision, by coming back again it has forgiven you.
Now you must stop crying because that stresses out the baby, for now the only thing you need to buy is just green candles which you can find at the grocery store, or supermarket, or in a drug store, the simply plain green candles, then find an image on the internet of St. Joseph the worker, he protects families, help people find jobs, even helps them find homes.
Once a month do a nine day novena to St. Joseph to assist you and your fiancé, in whatever you need, right now for him a better job, for you good health, to protect the family, and then in due time (because you do need to slowly get yourself and your focus together, having a child is going to keep you busy) as I said in due time he will help you find the way to buy your own home.
So light the green candle (glass enclosed is best) have the image of St. Joseph and start the novena on the new moon do it for 9 days, then after that pray to him on Sunday evening calling upon him to watch over all of you.
Then the following month do the 9 day novena again starting on the new moon again, then after wards again pray to him on Sunday evenings.
Do that for as long as you need to then when you finally have your home, pray to him every Sunday in Thanksgiving and to continue to watch over you and your family.
Call upon him to be your protector, he will hear you. Have an image of him near where your children sleep, so he can watch over them.
I did a one card reading for you and I drew the Ten of Wands but it is reversed and this is good for you because it means “Bearing the weight of ultimate responsibility without being crushed. Through careful conservation of their fuel, the engines of creation continue onward.”
It means that through your prayers and hard work you will succeed in your efforts, it will take time and it is hard work but you Will succeed.
Your uncle as a voodoo Houngan or priest would know that is the right thing to do because St. Joseph is the Patron Saint of New Orleans and is also known as Papa Loko who is the first Houngan. He is the father of all Houngans and Mambos, and highly respected by all. Call upon St. Joseph first, then your Uncle and then the spirits of your family when you pray.
If you want create an altar to St. Joseph to help you in your petitions and prayers.
Be of good cheer and take heart it’s all good.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Thank tou soooooo much. I will be taking your advice. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.!. After I posted this I had a dream about snakes. I was holding the heads of the snake the first one was a white snake, the second one was a yellow snake, the last one was a black snake and it bite me on the stomach then I woke up...... Has me worried I smudge myself and my belly. Not sure what that means but It scares me.
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DeleteDear Tracy,
First relax and breathe. It was a dream that your subconscious is trying to work out a problem or worry that you have.
First the fact that you were holding the snakes by their heads means you are working to control the situation(s), and its hard work because of your worries.
The black snake which is causing you the most distress is really a reflection of you still hot having gotten over terminating your previous pregnancy, you still have guilt feelings about that, not on the surface but in your subconscious. You still need to work that out, prayer and asking Jesus of the Sacred Heart will help you with that, he understands.
In the bible in Mark 10 :13-16 “People were bringing little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them, but the disciples rebuked them. When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.” And he took the children in his arms, placed his hands on them and blessed them.”
Just remember it is only your own personal guilt which you are still having a hard time dealing with that was reflected in the dream with the black snake, but I say to you, is that you had to do what was best and the soul of your child is with you again and forgives you. Do your best to let it go because you also dreamt of the white snake and the yellow snake.
The other two snakes were white and yellow, the yellow one is saying “stop, use your mind, on everything proceed with caution, be careful, but don’t panic” you have that under control, the white snake is your spiritual self, having shed the seeds of doubt, it reflects the transformation that you will be and are undergoing.
And you will reach your higher self for that.
You did the right thing to smudge yourself, because snakes are complicated symbols they have both positive and negative meanings. And they can cause fear in our dreams, because they also represent the unknown. Snakes are also symbolic of a hidden threat and/or a betrayal.
You need to stop and think is there someone or something that has you very concern, maybe you didn’t think of it at the time, but subconsciously it laid in your mind and manifested in your dream. That is why there was the yellow snake, it wants you to take precautions, with what I don’t know, but your higher self will understand it.
But for now Tracy relax, breathe and do all things that your doctor tells you to do, take vitamins to keep yourself and the baby strong, your doctor will tell you what kind. And above all pray to Jesus of the Sacred Heart and to Saint Joseph to watch over you and your family.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Thank you for your input on both questions. ABBA Heaven, may Mrs. Q have a lifetime of LOVE and her heart's desires fully materialized and manifested in her presence as YOUR LOVE presents- I thankfully ask in Jesus Christ Heaven, AMEN!
ReplyDeleteThank you Eboni.
DeleteAnd may you have many blessings in Jesus name.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Good day Miss Queen. I hope you are feeling way better, I just read it from earlier comments. I'm Fema and stumbled on your page when searching for candle color meanings. I like to light one, dedicated to my mother who could not properly eat. We consulted medical/professional assistance and help from energy readers like yourself. The doctors are great. It started with my mom's thyroid. She had a full thyroidectomy Jan 19, 2016. I understand as the doctors explained, her esophagus was damaged when extracting the thyroid due to her thyroid's abnormal size. It's now okay, like a wound, as docs described it thru numerous endoscopy, all are scars. The wounds are healed. But my mother still cant swallow proper food without stopping once in a while as she needs to check first if the food (chewed to tiniest possible) will pass through her throat. If she's not careful, she can die by just drinking 1 teaspoon of water. I feel that there's something blocking her throat. We were advised by the energy doctor to continue seek a cure from medical doctors. He advised us that there's someone from my mom's side who's responsible for my mom's condition. Knowing my mom's loving nature, I could not think of any from her family's side who's angry at her. Is it jealousy? I do not know. Please can you advise me what to do, i really like to light a candle and pray harder. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteDear “Protein”
DeleteThe scars are what’s preventing your mother from swallowing properly, I feel that the doctors are afraid of doing any surgery to improve it, you should ask her doctors further, she may need to see a specialist.
The energy doctor is correct in that you do need to see the medical doctors about this and also confirm with them if your mother is strong enough to deal with the corrective surgery.
Have her avoid all soft drinks as the fizziness of the bubbles from soft drinks will cause problems as well.
You say you do not feel that it’s anyone from her family’s side but you may feel it’s someone else, there is an egg ritual you can do to determine if it is someone who may be doing this out of spite because this person is resentful for all the blessings your Mother has had.
There is a reversing candle spell you can do as well. But let’s start with the Egg ritual.
First make a list of all names of people that your mother knows, including family, then get an egg, you may need more than one egg, wash the egg in either Florida Water or church blessed holy water. Allow it to dry, then with a felt tip pen very gently make tiny circles on the egg, cover the egg with those circles, then have someone read out the names on the list slowly one at a time, as each name is read, check off a circle, keep doing this until a name is read and the egg breaks, supposedly that is the person who is wishing either knowingly or unknowingly (that can happen) ill will towards your Mother.
As I said it may take more than one egg, this is time consuming.
Now once you know who it is, get a double color reversing candle in black and white, this should be a pillar type candle not glass enclosed, usually it black on top and white on the bottom, but you want to reverse this, flatten the black part of the candle, and have it on the bottom, with the white part upright on top, carve the white part it so the wick shows, you are reversing the process. Bless the candle with either Florida Water or Holy water, dry it.
Dress the candle with “reversing oil” and “banishing oil” and say to it “all evil or ill will wished upon (your mother’s name), I return it to the sender” repeat that three times, light the candle and repeat the same thing three times and then recite the 23 psalm “the lord is my shepherd…” allow the candle to burn safely until it burns out, you may have to put it in a large enough candle holder, but have it burn safely away from cloth, plastic, curtains, curious little fingers and pets.
I do not say that this is a cure, only doctors can do that, but it should help improve your mother’s energy so that any surgery if needed, will be successful. Always have her wear a Blessed St. Michaels medal or a blessed medal of the sacred hearts of Jesus and Mary to protect her. The only time the medals should be removed is for any medical procedures.
I sense that it is something that she exhibited great valor for, that she was Standing courageously for her beliefs in the face of adversity, someone resents her for that.
Hopefully that will help.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Thank you very much, Miss Q. I am praying that all will eventually be well. Hope for your good health, too.
DeleteThank you Protein,
DeletePrayers always help, I'm recovering much faster than expected, so I know how much prayers can work.
I've included your mother in my prayer circle so that she will get well.
Thank you again.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello queen
DeleteI too have a same story of love affairs. Now he is engaged with an another girl. Our relationship started five or six years back. Our age difference and other circumstances never parted us. But the reason he mentioned here now as practical and selfish to take a call for this marriage. I tried my level best to fix things. But all ended in vain. I feel lifeless at times but working thigs as life has to go anyway.
I stood for this relationship with my family very strong and faced long troubles from my own siblings. But now i am ... i am managing things to the best and saying my prayers just not to lose hope.
Can you read a card for me to help me understand whether would i get married to him? Please
Hello Queen, hope all is well and blessings. I'm in dire need of saving my home and my husband to return home to me and our children. We've been separated several weeks, and I've tried to make amends with him. However i questioned why am I taking the fall of the relationship. At times, I want to let go because he's being unreasonable and at times i miss the good side of him and the way he use to love me. Now im almost in the verge of losing my home and im very afraid of disappointing my family due to knowing where the funds are going to be available. Please give me guidance regarding the relationship because I feel broken; not sure if he'll ever return and to save my house.
ReplyDeleteMy Dear,
DeleteFirst do not be afraid of disappointing your family, your children know that Daddy has left, so you need to let your other family members know that you are going to lose your home because you husband has left you and is not doing anything to help, he has in essence deserted you, tell your family that your husband is a coward in not facing up to his responsibilities, DO NOT TAKE THE BLAME, put it all on your husband.
Your first instinct about letting him go is correct, he is abusing you and the children mentally and with the loss of your home physically.
His unreasonableness is very typical of a man hiding something.
Have you told your family what he has done and how he is behaving?
Trust me is it not your fault, don’t bother to make amends with him----get a lawyer and find out what is your rights as a deserted wife, if you know where he is staying at ask a lawyer if you can sue him for support because he is leaving you destitute and close to being homeless.
Don’t cry! Get MAD! And take back your power as a woman and as a mother, you have responsibilities that he has deserted, so kick his butt!!! It may bring him to his senses.
I did a one card reading on this situation and I drew The Chariot, but reversed.
This card in reverse is a strong indicator that you need to get out of this relationship, and you need to get back on track to keep what you have.
He has left without consideration of the consequences for others and has turned against you for something or someone else. He himself is a coward because he has a lack of discipline perhaps in handling money, and he has poor direction in how to take care of it, he feels things are out of control so he decides to just walk away, run really, instead of facing up to the situation
For you while the feeling of loss of power can be quite demoralizing, the key is to look at what you can control and what you cannot control. Do not allow yourself to be worried about what is out of your control as there is nothing you can do about it.
Instead, focus your energies on what IS in your control. Examine what you can do to change the situation. At this stage, you need to be able to feel as if you have at least some direction, because currently you feel pushed and pulled around in the sea of fate.
There are going to be moments in the future where you feel as though aspects of your life are out of your hands. Be open to spontaneity and new experiences.
Talk to your family members ask them for help, if you are buying a home talk to your bank and explain to them what’s happened they may be able to help you, if you are renting talk to your landlord and work out an arrangement to allow you to stay while paying some portion of the rent, and most importantly TALK TO A LAWYER and sue your husband for support, plan on getting a divorce because you do not need a coward in your life.
And if you are not working, start looking for a job, you need to learn to be independent and in control.
I wanted to see what his reasons were for leaving you and I drew the Six of Swords, this tells me he no longer wants to deal with his current situation, he wants to be free to travel and be without responsibilities, he wants out of the relationship and enjoy it with someone new and free without encumbrances. And that is selfish and abusive on his part towards you and the children, so Get a Lawyer, and let him know that he cannot just walk away, there are lives dependent upon him.
Like I said Take back your power and kick his butt!! Don’t cry, instead get mad and mean, sue him for alimony and child support, you deserve it!
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Queen...I've been with my husband for 20 years we have 4 kids together..6 months ago I found out he had been having an affair when I let him know that I knew what was going on he told me he didn't want to be in a relationship with me anymore he has shut down and started using drugs and alcohol...also last month my mother passed away what can I do to get rid of all the negative energy
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DeleteHello My Dear,
Losing one’s Mother is difficult and painful, it’s not so much negative energy from losing her as it is dealing with the loss, and that wound is very fresh. For losing your Mom I suggest that you seek out a group that deals with grief, by sharing your pain and finding out how others have dealt with it will be the beginning of your healing.
But to have this happen on top of discovering your husband is cheating, no longer wants to be in a relationship with you after 20 years and 4 kids, and is “escaping” by using drugs and alcohol is a disaster.
You do not say if your husband is still living with you or has left. If he is still living with you then you must be the stronger person, if he is not contributing to the welfare of the household, supporting you and the children, is no longer working, then he needs “shock therapy”. You do not need to have his negativity around you or the children because he is not doing you any good. Tell him that because of the drugs he needs to leave because he’s endangering the children, he might be inviting drug sellers to the home, which places all of you in jeopardy. He is the source of the negativity that surrounds you.
Once he is out of the home you need to do an Egg cleansing and the 13 herb bath (see my archive on that) to clear your energy, then you need to Cleans and ward your home (put up psychic protections) to keep the negativity out (see archive for protection, wards, warding, shielding), and that may include a restraining order against your husband if he’s being abusive or continues to endanger the children. If he insists on seeing the children have a judge order that it MUST be supervised visits because of his drug and alcohol use.
This is the “shock therapy” he needs, after that it will be up to you to decide to stay married but separate from him or to divorce him.
Put next to your front door a dish of church or priest blessed holy water, bless yourself each time you leave your home and when you return to keep your aura clear. Wear a blessed St. Michael medal to protect you.
In regards to losing your Mom, my Dear one never gets over that because when one loses a parent one symbolically becomes an orphan that is why going to a grief counseling group will be of great help to you to deal with this loss. See if your church has such a group also see if there is an AA group for those who are troubled by family members of alcoholics and drug users it will help you get a handle on his problem.
He’s 20 years older, he had an affair to prove to himself that he is still a man, but all he’s done is destroy what he had, but to him it was not enough, so now he’s trying to escape. Do not allow yourself to be dragged down into that grave that he is digging.
I drew a card for you and it is the Queen of Cups: The essence of water, such as a deep and placid lake: Spirituality, maturity, and grace. As I said you need to be the strong one and you can do it with prayer as well. Do a novena to St. Jude to look with compassion upon your husband to free him from his entrapment to drugs/alcohol and to return him to you as a loving husband and father, if you wish for him to heal.
Also pray to Mother Mary to help you banish the negativity in your life, you can do that in addition to the egg cleansing, the herbal bath and warding your home. You will find that once you spiritually clean the negativity out and ward your home you’ll see that things will improve and even find it to be “lighter” in energy .
Good Luck!
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Am glad I found this blog.. I have been with the same man for 5 years he has been a god send.we both went through a bad divorce.. my ex cheated on me and his ex treated him awful. He isn't perfect but what man is. He recently told me he didn't want to be together with me and he says he loves me very much but he has been angry all the time and he hates it that he takes it out on me. And he needs time to fix himself. I talk to my angels for help and guidance..But because of how my ex cheated on me I have trust issues.i just need to know will we find a our way back together.. 06/24/1969.. any input would be appreciated.. god bless
ReplyDeleteHello Edie,
DeleteI’m presuming that the question that was posted a few minutes later is also from you, so I’m going to look at them as two separate questions
I did a one card reading regarding if the two of you will find your way back together, and the card I drew is The Sun, but reversed. This means Loneliness and uncertainty. Nostalgic memories. The warm passing glow of dusk. An odd sort of peace.
The Sun appearing reversed indicates a gap between your personal plans and ambitions, and the present reality. It is important to guard against feelings of despondency. A lot of effort is needed to turn the present situation around. But it cannot be forced he has to work at it too. It is also warning to avoid making rash, impractical decisions and choices. It’s important to go slow.
The Sun reversed tells of a need to be realistic. It’s saying that you need to stop in your tracks, and have a realistic outlook on this situation. Be perfectly honest with yourself. The fact that he is angry all the time and he says he needs to fix himself first is correct.
You need to allow him to get help to control his anger issues, it is better to give him space, your angel guides are working on keeping you safe from any explosive temperament he has, he is fighting personal demons but you cannot help him except to encourage him to seek help from those trained in helping him.
In a way better to have loved and lost then never to have been loved at all, better to be alone than to be tormented by his anger. Be realistic about this.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Ms Q I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years we both have had bad divorces and we found each other.he has been anger alot lately and has broken up with me. Because he need to fix himself I just wanted to know will we be back together. I know he loves me I just been told in the past by other tellers that his ex wife is doing everything possible for him not to be happy. I have prayed and talked to my angels to help him break free from all the negitivity. I just want us to be happy
ReplyDeleteHello my Dear,
DeleteI am presuming that this is Edie, because of the exact similarity to the questions, but I have drawn a different card for you.
The fact that other “Readers” are saying his ex-wife is doing things to make him miserable tells me it is either being done physically like through the courts or with the law, or harassing him in some way. It is possible that she is having some work being done on him.
Because he has been angry a lot lately and has parted from you and says he needs to fix himself, tells me that something psychically is affecting him, there are several things you can do. If you still see him give him a St. Michael medal, tell him it’s to protect him and for him to call upon St. Michael whenever he feels angry to help calm him down.
About breaking any negativity, You could make a poppet (a very simple rag doll) that contains anything of him such as hairs from his hair brush, a used toothbrush, a piece of old clothing he might have left and no longer uses (it can be a few threads from an inside seam) fill it with that plus write his full name and birthday put it inside the poppet along with Sage, Basil, Rue, and a tiny rose quartz crystal. Baptize the doll with holy water with his name and then light an angel candle asking that all spells and negative workings done on him be diverted to the doll instead.
There is also a candle ritual, get a short black pillar candle inscribe it with his name, have it sit in a bowl fill it with water to just under where the wick is so that the flame will be just above the water, pray over the candle asking that as the water snuffs the flame out so will any negative spells done on him also be snuffed out. Then light the flame and continue to pray until the flame is snuffed out by the water.
Between those three things that should begin to help him, but it will take time to see any positive effect.
Now since you asked the same question to be fair I drew another card for it and it was The High Priestess, but reversed, I was not happy seeing this card, in that position.
It means he is being confused and led astray from the true path. Insecurity, conceit and self-destructiveness. The forces of nature unleashed. It means that things will be confusing and unsure for you and him to get together.
This is a very troubling card hen The High Priestess appears reversed in a reading, it may be telling of someone who is shallow and conceited. This person may be selfish and has a weak character and may lack stamina.
She is telling you not to place your trust in someone or a situation until you have completely analyzed it/them from all angles as it could adversely affect an important relationship or support base. It indicates a lack of inner-harmony resulting from the suppression of feelings and the failure to acknowledge unconscious guidance and to go against one’s own intuition.
This card reversed, indicates strong tendencies towards mood swings and unstable emotions that can impair judgement, resulting in jealousy and lack of insight and tact. At this time it would be difficult for him to accept advice or counseling from others.
Sad to say this card only confirms the Reversed Sun card, I do not see the two of you getting back together any time soon.
Best to let him go in the hopes he’ll eventually find his way back to you, it may be better in the long run.
I am so sorry my Dear, you can pray, but I also suggest that you keep your heart open for other possibilities as well that the angels are slowly guiding to you.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Thank u !!
DeleteGreat article, this is such an interesting and informative article as well. for few of people like me this article is really helpful.
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ReplyDeleteHello and Good Morning To You Ms.Q,
ReplyDeleteI really don't know where to start but here it goes.My name is Natalie,I am 39,and I was born on May 19,1977. I am lost right now well actually I've been lost for a long time. i am an addict and I don't know who I am,who i was as a child,I only remember very little,but do remember I got into alot of trouble as a teenager.I don't know if what I saw when I was spending the night at my dad's house has meaning but I remember being on couch,all the dogs around started barking throwing a fits,sitting up to look out window to see if i could see anything, what I saw was something walking out of the darkness into the edge of yard light,not being able to move,to scream,or breath. It was a burnt red color,body as a man,walked on hooves,green eyes,and the head was that of a ram horns and all. I can see it so vividly now just as I did then. Truly Terrifying. Do you have an idea as to what it was I saw,or maybe why I am such as I am? Please help me Ms.Queen
Dear Natalie,
DeleteI saw something like what you described but it was in a movie that was being shown on T.V. back in the 70’s.
It is possible that you had what is called a “waking dream” that is you are in a twilight state where you are sort of awake but still dreaming. The dogs barking brought you out of deep sleep and brought you to the twilight state.
Some people would call it being between two worlds, if anything that dream was a warning to you to change and work on bettering yourself.
You say you are an addict, then it was warning you about how dangerous addiction can be, that it can lead you to a form of “hell.”
Images that we have seen either in the movies or on television have been known to remain implanted in our minds to be brought out later as symbols in our dreams.
I’ve had dreams where the wrestler “The Undertaker” was trying to defend me from some indefinable threat and it turned out to be different medical problems, it was my subconscious trying to tell me through the dream state that something was medically wrong with me and it took the form of that wrestler.
In another dream it was a vampire with a very white egg shape face, and that was a warning about a co-worker, again the subconscious warning through the dream state about a threat.
In your case it took the shape of a beast warning you, now you need to try and understand what it was warning you about, who you are right now is a woman who is trying to get back on track in life.
The fact that this dream has remain so vivid in your memory is your mind still trying to warn you that this devil is still riding your back.
Seek out a group therapy to talk and understand and work with the type of addiction you have, many of them work on the same principals as AA.
I have put you into my prayer circle. Good Luck!
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Ms.Queen. I hope you are doing well. As I was reading your comments, I felt the need to ask you a question regarding myself. I have been in love with the same person for a couple of years now. We had been off and on until the beginning of the year when we decided to be officially together. I feel like there's a negative energy surrounding us, I am not sure. Personally, I feel like he is the person I was meant to be with. At this point I am seeking help, so I can be free from this negative energy. If you have any advice you could provide I would greatly appreciate it. Even by just letting me know if this is the person I am meant to be with, if not, just move on. Because I don't think its good for me to hold on to someone who I think is my soul mate, but isn't. I hope you are feeling better and in time that you'll be able to overcome this that is making you ill. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteHello My Dear,
DeleteI apologize for not responding sooner but I’m healing from a broken ankle and am finally catching up on questions. I’m slowly getting better old bones take longer to heal.
Something is psychically telling you something is wrong, that is why you are feeling this negative energy, so you need to ask yourself when did this feeling start? What it before you two decided to be together or did it start after you got together?
If it was before then the negative energy was directed at you, in that case do an Egg cleansing spell and an uncrossing bath. (see my archives on how to do this).
If it occurred after the two of you decided to be together then it is something that you are sensing about him, it is not overt, but subtle, something is warning you about him. I hope that the two of you have not moved in together, because it’s important that you maintain your own residence, and keep your funds separate, and do not loan him any money nor co-sign for anything, nor allow him to use your credit cards. If you do loan him money have him sign a promissory note to pay you back.
I drew a card for you and it was Judgment, but the Two of Wands was stuck to it, this concerns me, the Judgment card speaks of the reality of a serious relationship but there is grief tied up in this card it signifies that the person loves who their partner used to be rather than who they have become. If you are feeling uncomfortable in the relationship, it may be better to let it go because someone better is coming.
But the Two of Wands was stuck to this card which means someone is trying to establish dominion over you personally, trying to control you. If it’s this person who is doing it that is a warning signal, it may be done subtlety, like why are you seeing this person, or don’t bother to call your parents etc. He he’s been doing that, take that as a sign.
If you feel it’s not him then ask him if he’d be willing to do the Egg cleansing spell and the uncrossing bath because of this negative energy, if he refuses do it for yourself and petition St. Clare for clarity in this situation to see things clearly.
The idea of soul mates is just a myth, either two people are companionable or not. And in our life time we can be in love with a number of people before we settle for the one who is the most companionable and shares the same interests and likes and dislikes as we do, and is willing to work together on things, not pull apart. It can take a long time to find someone like that.
Do what I recommend on the cleansing and petition St. Clare for clarity.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hi Ms.Q, I hope you are feeling better and recovering. I have been in love with this guy almost for two years now, he always comes back and leaves. I feel we are meant to be together but I am unsure. I just have really bad luck at this and do not know what to do
ReplyDeleteHello my Dear,
DeleteThank you My Dear it is a long an slow process but I'm getting there.
It’s always best to do a card divination to see if it’s worth pursuing this matter and going through the effort of making the Honey Jar.
I drew a card for you and it was The Moon in reverse, that means that although you love him, he doesn’t love you and never will, his attention to you when he’s around is merely an illusion, his actions speak much louder, he is all shadow no substance.
To be honest a person, especially a man who acts like a butterfly, (comes back and then leaves, back and leaves) tells me that this person is not serious in having a relationship and maybe a cheater, so I ask you do you really need that kind of heart-break? Because even if he stays with you he will still cheat on you, the honey jar cannot prevent that if that is the man’s natural nature. And the Moon card confirms it.
Do not waste your time or efforts in doing a Honey Jar, let him go, his love (if any) is not real and your feelings for him is really not real, only a crush, you can do much better, if he comes around enjoy it for the moment but don’t give up dating other men, because eventually A Real Man will come into your life who truly loves you.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Ms. Q
ReplyDeleteGreetings from here,please i would like to have a private talk with you on email or facebook please can you email me on princemakuochukwu@gmail.com you can use that to get me on facebook also is urgent and serious please thanks.
Dear Prince,
DeleteI'm sorry but I do not give out my private e-mail, at my age my privacy is very valuable.
I regret I have not replied to you earlier but there was problems in posting your comment and replying also I am recovering from a broken ankle.
If you have a question please post it here.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Blessings,
ReplyDeleteMs Q
Compliment of the season i was just checking things about red and black candle then i come across your blog and i have read all that people said but i have my own problem that i have been going through for 5 years now i have an uncle he is evil man i think he's the one that kill my blood sister on accident and also my grandmother and grandfather i have been having many attack since i challenge and confront him he told someone that since i challenge him nothing i put my hands to do will be a blessing to me and i have been suffering hardship for over five years now i dont know why he's after my life and when will all this end please i dont know if you can reply to me here or by email please i seriously need your respond thanks
Mark
Hello Blessings,
ReplyDeleteMs Q
Compliment of the season i was just checking things about red and black candle then i come across your blog and i have read all that people said but i have my own problem that i have been going through for 5 years now i have an uncle he is evil man i think he's the one that kill my blood sister on accident and also my grandmother and grandfather i have been having many attack since i challenge and confront him he told someone that since i challenge him nothing i put my hands to do will be a blessing to me and i have been suffering hardship for over five years now i dont know why he's after my life and when will all this end please i dont know if you can reply to me here or by email please i seriously need your respond thanks
Mark
Dear Mark,
DeleteWhen you openly challenged him you had given some of your personal power to him, but you can take it back.
It’s an old trick for someone to tell someone else that they’ve done a hex on you so that the other person will tell it to you, then when something difficult or bad happens you then believe that it was the hex or curse put on you by the original person, when really it’s because you’ve lost confidence. You are going through a bad period in your life, and this knowledge (the hex) has shaken your confidence.
I went through a period of 5 years when I lost 10 family members, it was like every 6 months I was going to a funeral, but when I looked it over I realized that for some members their deaths were inevitable, with others it was their own careless actions. We all go through difficult times.
So don’t put it entirely on your Uncle, part of it is also you. And you have got to get that confidence back.
Read my articles on Shield, Warding, Protection, railroad spikes, Cleansing spell, Cleansing your space first part physical cleansing, Egg Spell, 13 herb uncrossing bath, and black destroyer oil. You will find them listed in my archives section.
Those articles will give you the information you need to protect yourself, and also to reverse things.
Then I want you to make a doll out of cloth, It doesn’t have to be fancy stuff it first with some cotton balls to fill it out then with personal items from you, hair, a bit of spit and blood on a Kleenex, a few threads from the seams of some clothing that you wear often, put into it these herbs and items for protection a tiny piece of rose quartz, an amethyst, black onyx, Basil herb, patchouli, fresh dry coffee grounds or beans, rosemary and sage, then bless the doll giving it your name and ask it to protect you from whatever your Uncle is trying to do. Wrap the doll in white cloth and put it in a safe place.
You should start to feel better after you make the doll, and do the uncrossing bath and the egg spell.
Your situation has giving me an idea to do an article on making dolls or poppets for protection and other situations. Watch for it.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Ms Q,
DeleteHow is your health?and i hope you're getting better as well,thanks for your respond but am having a little problem because as things may be right i dont know where to get some of the items you listed for me because if i was in my country nigeria everything will be easy for me to get but right now to find it here in senegal is a bit hard for me i dont know if there is other means i can do this because i really need it a lot of blessing have been hanging and what i need is to fight back spiritual even if he will go down for me to stand i dont mind all i need is freedom because the project of marriage i have everything hang the lady i want to marry can't even come to meet me due my my present condition please dear take me as a son and help me out of this the same way i come here to talk with you is still the same way i will still come and tell you that what you did for me have work out please ma i hope to hear from you soon be good and heal i wait your reply soonest thanks.
Mark
I forget to share a dream i heard yesterday with you because i dont really understand it i was in a dream when i come back to see my family everybody was getting ready for church so they ask me why am not going to church with them and i told them that all my clothes are not clean but junior brother come out of the room and told me that he have wash all my clothes for me and she show me where he put them on hanger i ask him when did he wash it he didn't tell me but i check all the clothes it's was clean so i have to dress up for church as i want to go that my wicked uncle bring out 10 nigeria naira into 50 piece and give me i told him to keep his money for his self that i have money and i dont need his money he was looking at me i turn to go out i wake up but dont understand anything in this dream at all i dont know if it mean that i will live better this year or what am just confuse i wait your respond on this one also thanks.
DeleteMark
Hello Mark,
DeleteSlowly I’m getting better.
Many of the things can be ordered over the internet, but they will take time to get to you, but if you can buy an egg you Can do the Egg cleansing spell.
You can also buy salt and Hyssop at an outdoor market, If you cannot find Hyssop you can still make a bag of salt out of cloth and while taking a shower have it wash over you and recite 3 times “cleans me with hyssop oh Lord that I made be clean as the whitest snow” but if you can purchase hyssop add that to the bag with the salt and do the same thing.
There are some herbs that you should be able to find in Senegal and they are a start.
You can put in the 4 corners of where you live, branches of Acacia (also known as Wormwood) for protection, (Herb and Oil) Burn purification, aids psychic powers, meditation, platonic love, psychic awareness, purification, inspiration, wisdom, visions, anointing, protection, prophetic dreams, spirituality, money. A sprig place over the bed wards off evil. Also Called: Cape Gum, Egyptian Thorn, Gum Arabic, Hachah, Wattle Bark, gum senegal and gum acacia. You should find it at an outdoor market. You can put it into a poppet or cloth doll for protection and all the things listed.
Artemisia herba-alba commonly known as wormwood or desert wormwood (known in Arabic as shih, and as Armoise blanche in French) this is also known as Devil’s Claw this is also used for protection, put it into a small red bag and keep it on your person for protection.
If you can find Thiouraye (Senegal Incense) also known as Tchouraï Thiouraye Chouraye
(Senegalese incense) the smells are used to cleanse the home, for creating a beautiful spiritual area, the herbs, roots, barks and oils call the angels and dispels the demons also for protection.
You should also be able to find Cinnamon, both the Herb and Oil are used Meditation, Defense, Creative Work, Divination, Energy, Power, Protection, Success, Astral Projection, Health and Healing, Love, Money and Riches, Purification Do not put the oil on your skin as it will burn, but put the herb into the poppet for all those qualities listed.
Sometimes you’ll find a small stone that will look heart shape you can put that into your poppet as well.
Mirrors are also good, put small mirrors facing outside of your living quarters to reflect evil away from you, a small reflective pin or brooch that you can wear on your person, like an old-fashion tie pin works very well.
You have to be inventive to put these items together. Even though you think you may not be able to find some of these things, if you hunt and look you will find them, you just have to open your eyes and look, it may even require a bit of searching—walking around (safely of course) and seeing what you can find, even asking folks, you would be surprised what turns up.
My Granny told me that when it came to coffin nails, and rail road spikes, if you meet someone who works on the rail road ask them what do they do with old used spikes that are removed when they put in new ones. Read my articles about them (you can find it in the Archives section).
Be inventive, you’d be surprised how over the years I had to be in putting things together.
The dream is saying that although you may be starting all over in life fresh or new (aka clean) you are also seeking to cut any sort of psychic tie to your uncle by declaring to him in your dream you are on the path of cutting the ties with him, he could not hold you back because you were able to turn away from him. He has no hold over you. So yes, you are at the beginning of starting out a new life for yourself and that you do have the strength to do it.
You know what steps to do to protect yourself, even if it means having to order things through the internet as well as reading the archives and articles, you will build a brand new life without him and break his hold over you. The dream is telling you that.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Greetings Ms Q blessing,
DeleteThanks for your quick respond i will try to see if i can get this (stone that will look heart
Hyssop
Armoise blanche
Herb and Oil
Thiouraye (Senegal Incense) also known as Tchouraï Thiouraye Chouraye
Cinnamon (Also know in french as Cannelle)
but i want to know the color of egg i will use for the Egg cleansing and how many egg i will use to do that because here they have white and brown egg and again you list this (You should also be able to find Cinnamon, both the Herb and Oil are used Meditation, Defense, Creative Work, Divination, Energy, Power, Protection, Success, Astral Projection, Health and Healing, Love, Money and Riches,) and said Purification Do not put the oil on your skin as it will burn, but put the herb into the poppet for all those qualities listed. i dont understand what you mean or how i can use the Cinnamon and the poppet as well please explain everything for me so that i dont do mistake on it but i dont get does thing i want to know how i can do the egg own and the Hyssop and salt while taking a shower and how many time i will need to do it and also if i will read my bible before doing that i wait your respond again thanks ma
best regard
mark
One more thing ma i have a girl i want to married and she is from london she want me to help her to visit me here in senegal before we can live together but she can't afford her coming here and am trying my best to see what i can do about that but things just block on my side since i start making this plan i want to know if i make the right choice and after doing all this cleansing will there be open door on the things am doing and is it possible for us to meet before august please ma i need to check this thing for me as well my name is Makouchukwu and her name is shelley i wait your responds on this one also let me know how fast i will need to be about the cleansing own thanks
DeleteMark
Hello Mark,
DeleteYou can do the cleansing any time and if you feel the need you can repeat it later on.
You can use any color egg it won’t matter although some practitioners prefer using a white egg, but I have used both.
About using the herb Cinnamon, if you cannot find the other herbs that I suggested in my previous post, you can substitute Cinnamon the herb, cut up or ground up and put it into the poppet/cloth doll, and you can apply cinnamon oil onto the poppet to help keep it activated to protect you. The poppet (or cloth doll) can be small, smaller than the palm of your hand.
You can burn the incense to clear the area where you bathe, so it will be free of any negative energy. You can do that before you shower.
Now about the shower and the egg, first before you take the shower read psalm 51 first out loud then while you are taking the shower just recite just the one line “Cleans me with Hyssop Oh Lord that I may be made as clean as the whitest snow” say that one line 3 times while you are showering with the bag of salt and hyssop. You can say it in your own language if it’s easier.
Have the salt and hyssop already prepared in a small cloth bag before you shower then as the water is running over you rub the bag on your body from head to toes, reciting the prayer, after you rub the bag on you allow the water to run over you for another minute, then step out of the shower and allow the air to dry your body, as your body is drying take the egg and carefully---don’t let it break---rub it from the top of your head all the way down your body to your toes, then dress in clean clothes, then at Midnight walk and find a tree away from your home and throw the egg at the base of the tree, thinking very hard about sending back to your Uncle all the evil he has sent to you.
Now when you throw the egg make sure you are far enough away from the tree to not get any egg accidentally splashed on you, if that happens don’t worry, just clean it off your clothes it’s more of a mess than anything.
If you want you can have a friend go with you for safety sake.
When you get home read Psalm 23 the one that says “The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want..” and then relax.
So let’s take this a step further, after you do this, then every morning when you wake up before you shower and dress recite or read Psalm 23 to start the day. You will begin to feel better, and any time you feel upset or threatened recite that psalm to yourself, write it down on a piece of paper and carry it with you in your pocket so you’ll remember it. Remember God, Jesus and their angels are always walking beside you, you are never alone.
I will post something about the situation in relation to your friend Shelley later, be patient.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Dear Mark,
DeleteI’m sorry for not responding sooner but we are having a very bad heat wave here up into the low 100’s, and at my age I do not respond very well to the heat, the family wants me to rest as much as possible.
As I said you can start the cleansing at any time, really as soon as you have what you need. And what is good is that you can repeat the cleansing any time you want, if you feel that you need to repeat it.
Will you be able to have Shelley come to see you before August? That is hard to say, I drew a card from the Tarot Deck and it is the Page of Wands but the Nine of Swords was stuck to it. This tells me that there will be frustrations in having her come to you before August, you will both do your best to have it happen, but it seems that legal and governmental “red tape” will slow the process down.
The possibility of her coming to you before August is there but only if things are overcome, I have a feeling that it may happen later in the year, not sooner, but there is the possibility that the “red tape” might clear up in time so that she can come sooner, you both have to keep working at it, but don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t.
The cleansing will work, but you have to remember all that negativity has been building up over time, and it will take time to remove it, as I said you can repeat the cleansing any time you want if you feel you need to repeat it.
And keep working on bringing Shelley over, it will happen but maybe not quite as soon as you would like.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Greetings Ms Q,
DeleteHow is your health?hope you're getting better by his grace,i got your responds and thank you so much for your consign and attention so far i have done the cleansing today so let me give it one week before i can do another one but there's one more thing i want to tell you about me and shelley we keep having misunderstanding everyday about men she keep around and what always come to my mind is that she will break my heart and she is not the right one for me or she is not real or she is not telling me the truth sometimes i get tired and confuse i really dont know the one am thinking and if all am thinking is true or not please can you confirm for me if she is real to me and if this our relationship will last forever to marriage as we both plan because i dont want to make mistake please ma i will be waiting your respond soon thanks
Mark
Please ma i want to know if this relationship will work or not because am afraid of losing her just she is afraid of losing me too as she use to say but sometimes i dont believe that but i want you to help me to clear up my mind and stop thinking bad thanks
DeleteDear Mark,
DeleteForgive me for not responding so quickly---as I said in my blog we were having a very bad heat wave and I don’t do heat very well.
I'm glad that you are doing the cleansing it will help give you clarity.
I took some time to meditate and reflect on your situation----I’m presuming that you met her on-line, and you have some worries that she may not be real. That she might be, as we say in America, “stringing you along”.
The possibility of that could be true, if she asks for money (a lot of money from you to travel where you are) that is a big red warning flag. In America it’s called “cat fishing”. So yes you have the right to be concerned.
I decided to see if my Spirit Guides could guide me to some sort of answer I turned to Tarot and after meditating I drew a card it was the Seven of Cups but reversed.
The suit of Cups deals with the heart, love, emotions, but this one warns as well because it refers to Temptation.
The image is of a man who has a vision of 7 cups floating on a cloud offering 7 different choices faced with these specters he is taken aback by their confusing nature.
Although the seven cups appear as gifts or prizes, there is always danger hidden within one or two of them to sting anyone who ventures near.
What this suggests is that sometimes you have to choose between many options, all of which may be tempting but only one of which is the best choice.
At others times not all of those choices are real options at all; they are delusions of the imagination. And that is what the Reverse 7 of Cups means.
It is saying that daydreams and fantasies brought into realistic focus by watching for those warning signs then Inner clarity will dissipate any illusions and false choices and forces you to remain connected to reality in the face of illusion.
The Seven of Cups reversed is a card of illusions, temptations, and diversionary tactics. Your views of life at this time are a bit illusory, and may tend toward fantasies that cannot actually be realized in the real world.
Seven of cups reversed is someone who has a poisonous secret and/or a past that is poisoning them in some way and are unable to see the truth about a situation.
You need to stop and give yourself some time and space to think carefully about this situation and not rush into it, the reversed Seven of Cups says take time to see through the illusion and clear away the fog.
Going by what I’m seeing and sensing, be careful, be very careful. Until she can prove to be really real, like being able to see her using SKYP with a true video moving image, that will clear up one thing, if she asks for money to get her to you that would be a warning flag, anything that would cost you money would be a concern.
Now about the men she’s with, is she dating them or saying she’s dating them? That would be a red flag, but remember in many western type societies it’s not unusual for women to have men friends that they are not romantically involved with, they are more like an extended family, so if she is real and true be prepared to accept that, but if they are abusive or she’s romantically involved then how can you know if she is for real.
If she avoids being seen via SKYP or keeps coming up with excuses and yet professes love for you, That would be the biggest red flag of warning to you.
Be very careful Mark.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Greetings Ms Q,
DeleteI got your respond but this person am talking of she is real i have talk with all her family on cam because am friends with them on facebook but what get me confuse is that she add a lot of black me and when i ask her she will just said that they're friends nothing more but she was doing that last year with one black man before i later find out she was dating her and she ask for forgiveness before i engage her and now she start doing it again i have been a lot of white ladies that have boyfriends or lovers but they dont act the way my own fiance do i have ask her many times to tell me what she need she keep saying it me sometimes we have misunderstanding her family will call me and be crying telling me not to hurt their sister or break her heart that am the good thing that have ever happen to her and come to their family but sometimes my mind tell me that they're hiding something for me so that get me more confuse if i have the money to help her come here now i would have done that but i dont have that money now due to my condition is not all that good but what i want to know is if she will leave me to another man but i pray that will not happen and one more thing last week thursday i did that prayer i had a dream when i was after one man and his boys three people join me to fight the man i told them that the man is evil man so the man and his boy's start shooting gun at us and i told the three people with me that i dont have any gun with me they give me old gun and said i should use it but i told them that the gun is old that is not new like the one they have they said is that one i can use to kill the man so i start shooting the man and his boys i kill two of his boys so as the man want to run i shoot him and he fall down and die then i sit on the floor to rest one man just come out with lot of milk,egg and many other things and said i should ask him for what ever i need that he will do it for me and i should not forget anything if i want to ask him for something i said ok to him he stand up and i dont see him again i wake up and get confuse about the dream then in the afternoon of friday i heard police problem i was beating by the police and later they take me to their office i pay almost $19 before they allow me to go on saturday morning till now am still having wound and pains because of that please ma i still need your respond her and my dream with the problem as well thanks so much.
Mark
Dear Mark,
DeleteI’m sorry for the delay in getting back to you, family issues came up.
I am sorry about your police problems, how they behave where you are living is far different than where I live, unless one is in a protest group and you do not disperse upon orders.
But getting to your dream, it is in two parts, your mind was opening up to working out your situation who to believe, who not to believe.
The men that you shot in your dream was the evil as projected by your uncle, the old gun that worked to get rid of them is a symbol of “the old ways” of getting rid or banishing evil.
The man who has the milk and eggs was a major Orisha spirit, eggs and milk such as the white meat and milk from the coconut, these are offerings to Obatala.
Obatalá (also spelled Obbatala or Obatala) is the eldest of the orishas in Santeria and king of the religion in orun (heaven). He is also the father of many of the orishas and as such is given great respect and deference by the other orishas in matters of great importance.
Obatala encourages us to be patient and to handle matters with calm and reason. His ashé (power) is perfectly embodied within his favorite color: white.
He is represented in the Catholic Church as either Our Lady of Mercy or Jesus Christ, this is because Obatala is pure spirit and transcends gender.
As I understand it in Africa the Yoruba’s say that Obatala is next to God, they explain that they know he is not God but he is very close in power to the creator.
Some time ago a Babalawo told me this, as Obatala is known as the third supreme being, Olodumare being the first, and Orunmila the second. Obatala stands with Orunmila as the right hand of God!
In the Catholic Church we have the Holy Trinity, The Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
I have to admit this is now even beyond my abilities and capabilities but depending on whether you go the traditional path of the Yoruba Ifa concepts or that of the Christian Church represented by Jesus Christ, you Do have a spirit that is working with you.
The symbol of the old gun has me thinking the old ways for cleansing, even beyond what I can recommend.
This dream of yours has metaphysically “blown me out of the water” as they say. You have some serious choices to now consider.
In regards to Shelley now that you have confirmed to me that she and her family are physically real, I still have to stand on my reading of the 7 of cups reverse, she is not telling you everything, she seems to be following a pattern of behavior that could be heart breaking to you as well, if she’s done this with another black man, what is not to say that she will do it to you.
Your instincts about her is telling you something is not right, and I know you care for her, but if your instincts is waving a “Red Flag” in front of you then listen to it, keep asking her questions, if the answers don’t seem to add up, then maybe for now it would be best that you not try to bring her over or you not go to her, and instead work on your problem that you are having right now.
I do not want to be cruel to you or even to her and just say “let her go” but you are getting the warning signs, work on them, analyze them, within that you will get your answer.
But again I strongly suggest that you put off trying to get together, it just will not work at this time.
Focus on the dream/vision you had, you may need to seek a Babalawo for a reading and to get your spiritual feet under you.
These are deep waters into an area that I have not treaded in, but may be right for you, but only you can decide that once you’ve consulted a Babalawo.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Ms Blessings,
DeleteCompliment of the week,how are you doing with your health? hope you're getting better now, Please ma you know is upto one month and some week i finish the prayer cleansing you ask me to do i want to know if you can help me again and check how my life is now if everything is ok now because am having much attack at night each time i sleep i shout,i fight and do many things i dont know when am doing them people am with are now afraid to sleep in the same room with me again ma my real name is Makuochukwu chukwuma please check for me how everything is right now and also i have been having serious problem with my fiance which she is the one causing them all but feelings can't allow me to leave her she cheat on me and it hurt me so bad i mean shelley ann please mama i will be so happy if you can do all this for me like you use to and also give me an answer as well i will be waiting to hear from you soon be good and remain bless thanks.
Mark
Dear Makuochukwu,
DeletePart of your “fighting Nightmares” as I call them (this is when you are dreaming but shout and fight in your sleep) is being caused by the stress you are feeling because of what Shelley Ann is emotionally doing to you, it’s an Inner struggle with difficult emotions, with other people, or life situations. If you are dreaming that you are fighting in a dream it may reflect your attempt to cope with trauma or fight back against your problems.
But because you are under a lot of stress you are, in your sleep fighting back, shouting, fighting kicking, this is a medical sign of REM sleep behavior disorder, this disorder has been linked to smoking, stress, too much caffeine and if you work on the land, such as farming, coming in contact with pesticides, but stress is the major trigger.
Sometimes being involved in an emotional situation is like being sucked dry by an emotional vampire, and you through your sleep, your brain becomes active and is trying to fight it off.
I hate to say this my dear, but your situation with Shelly Ann is the trigger for those fighting dreams, it is not healthy for you, it is not love but stress and guilt, you are suffering from the fact that if you leave her your will feel guilty, but she is not being faithful to you and that is pain, your subconscious and your spirit guides are trying to tell you that you have to put your health first, so you must break off with Shelly Ann, in spite of the guilt that she and her family put on you if you decide to leave her.
In essence you are fighting against yourself because you feel that you are damned if you do leave her but protect your health and well-being, and yet damned if you don’t leave her but putting your health both physical and mental health in danger.
I asked my Spirit Guides to help guide me in selecting a card from tarot, I asked if it would be “healthier for you to break off the engagement with Shelly Ann because of her cheating,” the card I drew is the Ten of Pentacles (Wealth) this means that you would have Freedom from anxiety, by doing that you will have in the future someone else who will be good for you and you’ll have the security of home, and the enjoyment of family. My guides are saying Shelly Ann is not for you. As much as that is painful to hear that is what I’m getting.
You are going to have to make a decision on this. And it’s going to be hard.
In the meantime I want you to make sure your bedroom or where you sleep is safe, remove all sharp and breakable objects from your sleeping area, drink chamomile tea to calm your nerves to help you to sleep, if you smoke stop smoking or reduce the amount of smoking that you do. If you drink coffee, drink coffee only in the morning and then chamomile tea in the afternoon and evening, to help calm your nerves.
In the evening at least an hour before you go to sleep, I want you to meditate and relax, first open the windows in your home or at least where you sleep and burn this incense made of 1 part each of Frankincense, Myrrh, Cinnamon, Bay Leaves, Basil, Sandalwood, and if you can find it Rose petals, burn it on a hot coal from a fire (burn it safely) in a heat resistant container (you don’t want anything to catch on fire) sit and relax while its burning, meditate on peaceful things, after it burns out drink some more Chamomile tea, and pray this prayer “The sun is now set, and I give into your hands Oh Lord of Goodness and Grace, all my worries and fears, protect my soul from dangers and give me peace of heart, mind and soul, so that I may face the next rising sun with Joy. Amen”
It will take some time for your mind to calm down but do this every night. Within a month you should see an improvement.
Let me know how things progress.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello ma Blessing,
DeleteThanks for your quick respond ma,how are you doing today?i hope you're getting better and everything is alight now i got your responds ma but am still confuse i know she and her family have hurt me so much but ma i love shelley with all my heart and life i can't afford to loos her is there anything i can do to make her change for good or stop her from acting like or stop her from cheating on me because she is the only woman i have love with my life and if i should leave her i dont think i can trust or love another woman again so i want to know if there's anything i can do to change her from being like that and make her to say the truth all the time please ma i really need something to do for her to make her know the value of what she have and to value it very well because if she keep doing that or enter in the hands of the wrong ones she will get hurt and start to regret what she did and miss and i dont want her to feel hurt or pain is true i forgive her for all she have done but i want her to change and be good so ma can you check your card and tell me what to do so i can put things together again,i will be waiting to hear from you soon have a blissful day thanks.
Makouchukwu
Dear Makouchukwu,
DeleteMy heart aches with what you are going through, but I cannot lie on what the cards are saying.
I had to bring in a friend of mine to help me with your situation, because I felt that my mind was becoming too clouded with your situation, so I felt that “fresh eyes” and a clearer mind was needed.
I showed my friend, Tasja, the comments and replies that you and I had, she read them very carefully, together we called in the spirits and angels to help guide the reading, putting up a white light of protection, then she did a 3 card reading on your situation with Shelly Ann.
The first card was The Fool, the next card was the 8 of Swords, the final card was the 10 of Wands.
To be honest, my Dear, never have I or my friend seen such a negative reading for anyone, the first card The Fool means that you are not looking at things in a realistic way, you are allowing yourself to plunge headlong into disaster which will make you ill, miserable and very unhappy.
The 8 of Swords is Shelly Ann. You have to realize that some things in life are beyond your control, and the Eight of Swords is a symbol of imprisonment. It's a catch-22: a difficult situation from which there is no escape because of mutually conflicting conditions. You can do nothing to help her, because she needs to see a psychiatrist or mental health counselor to get her mentally and emotionally on track, you can’t do a thing because you are where you are, she needs to seek help from a professional, if you bring her to you, you will still have the same problems and she will continue to hurt you, she can’t help it and until she realizes and gets professional help she will continue to do what she is doing.
The only thing you can control is yourself. Nothing magical can stop her, she needs medical help.
The Ten of Wands' meanings is burdens, challenges, intense pressure, oppression, and over commitment. The end result does not look good, according to my friend, if you bring her to you, then you will be taking on more burdens than you can handle and it will lead to stress, so be careful. It can mean a break down in your health, your work, your finances, there is an element of risk for you, and looking at all three cards together it is not a good thing.
I talked this over with my friend, we prayed over it and there is only one conclusion, unless she gets professional help and can prove to you she is getting professional help, but you do Not pay for it, if she is in England there are free clinics she can go to, as my friend said “Don’t go throwing good money after bad” she and her family needs to pay for it.
If she refuses or makes excuses then she does not want any help, she then really enjoys the Drama of giving you pain, then the only course of action is to preserve your health and sanity and that means letting her go.
You cannot do anything else. For me to call in someone else to aid you in guidance on this is my way of saying that I care about you spiritually. My Dear there is nothing more I can do on this, in the end the decision is yours and you will need to take steps to get it to come to some sort of conclusion happy or sad. This may be the “wake up” call that she needs to get help. You cannot do it all by yourself.
In “love” situations I always hope for the best, but sometimes I have to remind people that we cannot rescue someone if they really don’t want to be rescued although they say they do, they are deceiving themselves and those that care about them. I’ve seen too many people become ill, broke and unhappy and asking themselves why did they do it.
So tell her she needs to get professional help, be firm about this.
If she won’t or makes excuses, then you know she not telling the truth and is not for you.
You are in my prayers,
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello ma Blessing,
DeleteHow are you doing today?How is your health hope you're getting better i waited for some time before i could reply you and also i was busy with something here please ma i want you to help me and check about myself to know if things is now ok consign the evil things my uncle did and also to tell if i will rise again financially and also about my plans with shelley because right now we're in good terms but i dont know tomorrow but my mean reason is to know about myself because i did the cleansing you told me last two month so i want to know if you can check it for me let me know my full name is makuochukwu chukwuma i will be waiting to hear from you soon thanks you so much stay bless and be good in Jesus name Amen.
Hello Makuochukwu,
DeleteI’m sorry I didn’t get back to you sooner, family visiting and all the Solar Eclipse excitement, it is good to see family but a little tiring.
Well that is good that things are better with Shelley.
You have a lot of questions to ask so I did a one card reading to see how things are going for you, to see how the energy around you is doing after the cleansing.
The card I drew from Tarot is The Emperor.
My Dear this is a Wonderful card to draw, in the simplest terms it means worldly authority and power, mastering things around you , your thoughts are clear, your knowledge has expanded, what you’ve gone through in life has given you experience, you feel confident and reasonable.
You sense that you have motivation to be able to move through society, the evil social politics (your Uncle) no longer have any negative influence over you, because now you have the ability to fulfill plans and use mental control over the emotions.
This card is saying that although domination of the mind or logic over the heart or emotions is sometimes unwanted or best avoided but now you’re finding that it is necessary and even welcomed.
Because if you are facing difficult choices, you must maintain your concentration and focus.
With that you can enjoy the assertiveness and confidence that this self-control and focus brings.
Do not be afraid to push ahead and do what you know is best. Because you know that if you can master yourself by applying logic and controlling your emotions then you should have little problem mastering the world and everything in it.
You will through logic, bring order out of chaos, you will find that you like to operate within a defined structure with set boundaries, preferring and respecting routine and following a specific regimen or discipline for health, work, and finances and to preserve your home life.
You will not be afraid of any conflict and will use your power to protect those you love.
Over time through the years to come, you will be known as a dominant force, a leader and an ‘expert’ in what field of work you choose.
This card is saying that as long as you focus your attention completely on your goal and be very careful not to reveal any weaknesses or personal doubt then you will achieve a lot in your life.
You will have a much better chance of making your plans come true.
This is because the energy within yourself and around you has changed for good, it has become a force that governs your actions, and these forces are will power and self-control.
By exercising these forces even though in life there will be some difficulties, you will find that there will be nothing you cannot achieve.
Any evil that your uncle has attempted to put on you is slowly fading away, the “road blocks” will eventually be removed.
The cleansing is doing its work.
If you feel later on that you may need to do this cleansing again, then do it.
As a matter of fact it may not hurt to do it at least once a year in order to keep this positive energy going.
You are finally on the right track, just use logic, will power as well as self-control, never let emotions over run you.
By doing that you will achieve a lot in life and be successful, it will take hard work, but you are now in a position to do it.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Ms Blessing,
DeleteCompliment of the season,i got your last reply and i want to say thank you for that, but please ma all the thing i have been expecting since last week everything just hang and this week is running out of hand i never get those things everything still hang i want to know what is causing it and again someone i take as a friend want to set me up i dont know the problem he have with some group of people and he is trying to get me involve in it so that i will join them and go to prison and suffer what i dont know about the person name is Michael Chimamanda Nweke Orji please ma can you look to know what is happening around me and if this their evil plan will work am afraid and confuse ma i really need your help this if it's something i will need to do to stop all this on time i will be waiting to hear from you soon thanks
Makouchukwu
Dear Makouchukwu,
DeleteDo not join this person or group, do not associate with Michael he is involved in some sort of criminal activity as well as the group of persons he is with.
I do not know the laws in your country but this I know in mine. If someone wants me involved in criminal activity I go to the authorities and report them immediately.
By doing that it keeps me in the clear. Hopefully you can do the same.
Tell him you cannot help him and you don’t want to be involved. What happens to him happens to him only, don’t be around him at all. Tell him to stay away from you.
If you have him around you then the negativity he carries will “splash over” to you as well.
Keep your distance away from him. If he is sharing a room with you then you may have to move, he you and he work at the same job, stay away from him if possible don’t talk to him unless it’s has to deal with the job.
As my younger nephew would say “This guy is bad news”.
If you stay around him he will undo all the good that is coming to you as predicted by the Emperor card, if he hasn’t already.
Walk away from this person---NOW!!
I will post more later on what I see.
Be careful.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Ms Blessing,
Deletethanks for your quick respond i want to let you know that i dont know about the deal he did that got him in problem that he is trying to get me involve i dont do things with him i have cut answering his calls and stop talking to him i really dont know about his problem and the people he have the problem with only that he is trying to get me involve in what i dont know and i really want to know what to do about it so that i will never fall in their evil plans please i will be so much happy if you help me on that because you have been doing this for me for some time now and i also i want to know why am having delay in some blessings i have been expecting since last week and with this stupid boy own i want to know everything that is happening around me the evil people are planning against me and how to put them to shame i will be waiting to hear from you soon have a nice and blissful day thanks.
Makuochukwu
Dear Makuochukwu,
DeleteShould he approach you in person you must tell him very clearly and firmly that you do not want to have nothing to do with him or his problems, and for him to stay far away from you, tell him he is bad luck for everyone.
Tell him if he comes around you again you will go to the police.
He has brought you back luck, his negativity is causing a delay in everything and it will take time for it to clear up.
But you must understand, just because the Emperor card came up does not mean that good things will happen in a week, it meant that the energy at the time I drew that card was there to start to SLOWLY happen, because something like this could take months and with careful work improve year after year.
But this young man has undone everything.
You will have to start all over again, with the cleansing that I had instructed you about in my earlier posts.
And then in the future you must be very careful to not let your good and kind nature be taken in by negative people, you must learn to be suspicious of other people’s motives----we have a saying “If it sounds too good to be true, then it is not true”
This means you must take a step back from any plans or suggestions that are put forth in front of you by other people, you must find out from people who are not that person’s close friends or family if that person’s reputation is good or are they false.
You must become a sort of detective to get to the truth.
If you are afraid to go to the police about this person, then go and see a minister or priest of a church and tell him what has happened what this evil deed this person is involved with and can the priest help you, by having a man of God at your side to help, you will get you over the worse of this.
I drew a card for you from Tarot and it is the Three of Cups (Abundance) this means the strength of a diverse community being brought together to help bring aid to someone, it also means a reunion with those who are good for you.
In terms of money do not become too attached to money but be careful in spending it as well, that your needs (financial and otherwise) be met, provided you play your part in doing honest work.
You will also need to take care of your health, you need to stay away from that which is stressful for you and dealing with negative people is harming your health.
Because you have dealt with or are dealing with this negative person this situation has caused or is causing within you a spiritual awakening.
You need to be in far more direct contact with someone you can trust such as a priest of a Catholic mission, who is near you, who understands the situations where you live.
I can only do so much but the 3 of Cups is saying you need someone in your town who has nothing to gain and only a priest of a Catholic Mission is in that position.
With that person (the priest), and the cleansing you do, then you will gain bit by bit, slowly abundance in truly good friends, people and with material things that you can share with those in need.
I will keep you in my prayer circle and pray for you.
Bright Blessings,
Ms Q
Hello Ms Blessing,
DeleteGreetings in the name of God,How are you doing today hope your health is getting better? please ma sorry for disturbing you much with my problem ma i have been having many problems here since last month and also my fiance own as well but i dont know she have been cheating on me and now she have finally leave me but she keep on saying to me that her heart is telling her not to leave me but hr mind is telling her to leave me if i ask her she will say that she have not leave me but she is now with another man ma am really confuse is shelley is really the right woman for me and why am passing through all am going through now please ma help me check if the right woman will come my way or into my life and the country she will come from please ma help me in my current condition and also if shelley will still come back to me please ma i will be waiting to hear from you soon thanks have a nice day
Makuo
Dear Makuo,
DeleteThis is Ms. Q's niece.
Ms. Q has had a serious heart attack and is in the hospital.
She will not longer be able to do readings or write articles or be able to reply to questions or comments.
At the advice of her doctors, and family she is retired.
Her blog will remain as reference information for those who inquire about things.
But she will no longer be able to help you.
When I saw her at the hospital last night I read to her your post.
She closed her eyes for a minutes and then said for you to make a new life, Shelley is not healthy or good for you, she is into mind games with you.
Let Shelley go, cleans yourself of the negativity that she has put upon you. She will never come to you. Let her go and start a new life. Shelley is not the right woman for you.
Once you let her go then you will see things more clearly.
This is Ms. Q's words on your situation, she now needs to heal herself and stay with our family.
She wishes to you all good and wonderful things, but can do no more because of her health.
I'm sorry, but her health must come first.
She wishes you the Brightest of Blessings.
Ms. Q's niece
Hello Ms Q's Niece,
DeleteThanks for your respond,how is she doing with her health now hope she getting better please i want you to help me ask her to check about this lady for me if she is the right one for me we meet on 19th of october and we're on a serious relationship right now but i want to know if she is the right person for me because we want to get married next year april her name is Na'Tashia Trent-Vance please dear help me tell her to check her for me i will be expecting to hear from you soon and tell her am praying for God to heal her soon thanks.
Makuo
Dear Makuo,
DeleteThis is Ms. Q’s niece, her heart attack was extremely serious and she is not out of the woods yet, the Doctors have strongly advised her to no longer do any serious metaphysical work as it could bring on a possible fatal heart attack.
What you are asking of her would put a dangerous strain on her heart and I and our family are not willing to risk that.
We are making sure that she does not do any readings, because of her health, she is over 80 years old and we want her with us for as long as God will permit.
She has retired because of her health condition from doing any readings. And I am being the Guardian at the Gates to protect her health.
She did say the decision to marry her is in your hands, if she has exhibited behavior that you know is not right, then you could be marrying trouble, but only you can decide if being with her is worth it.
If her behavior has been proper then it is up to you, but she warns that if this is someone you’ve only met over the internet and starts asking for money and is using delaying tactics to meet you then be careful it could be a scam that could cost you money.
Ms. Q says for you to use logic, not emotion to make your decision, her health makes her unable to see any more.
In Ms. Q’s words Bright Blessings and the Best of Good Fortune, God be with you.
Hello Ms Q
ReplyDeletei sent your message but i have not get any respond from you yet i send a message 2 times one with my email that start with prince and the other i told you what my uncle did and want me to do please can you get back to me please
Hello There,
DeleteI've been having problems with getting things posted on this particular posting on my blog, in essence it's a "Ghost Post" which should be removed but is not showing up on the main Blog..
If you look above I did respond, but I can only offer you right now protection and what you can do to clear off what has been put on you.
Please read my reply above and those articles that I refer to, the subjects are posted in the archive section.
I will do more on further protection as well as binding, which is what you may need to do with your Uncle.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hi Ms. Q. I hope your foot has healed and that you are doing well. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant since the start of the year. I was wondering if you could see a bundle of joy in our near future? Thank you.
ReplyDeleteHello My Dear,
DeleteMy ankle is taking its sweet time getting healed it’s taking a bit longer than expected, but the Doctor said that “old bones’ don’t heal as fast as young bones, but at least I’m getting around much better, I have to wear a boot brace which is exhausting because it’s so heavy, but the family and my husband push me around in a wheel chair so I do get out to enjoy the sun.
So you and your husband are trying to have a baby----well that is lovely, I trust you’ve talked to your doctor about this to see how viable things are? That is very important.
Also certain foods like yams can cause a form of contraception, my Granny ate a lot of yams to help space out her 7 children and so did my Mother and it seemed to work.
So do be aware that certain foods and drink can cause a delay in conceiving as well as certain medicines, it’s important to talk to your doctor about that.
I drew a card for you and it is the Ace of Cups this means the beginning of the seed of a new relationship or spiritual journey - perhaps as yet unseen. An opportunity for joy, contentment, fertility, or enlightenment. Coming to understand the emotional needs of those around you, this is important if you and your husband have or are stressed out and this may represent an unexpected message.
This indicates the possibility of a baby coming into your life, but it may happen later than sooner, so the best thing is to relax and let nature take its course and of course check with the doctor for your health.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Dear Voodoo Queen
ReplyDeleteI don't know what is wrong with me I think I am a good person an try to help everybody an treat everybody right but I end up loosing....I think someone has put a curse or hex on me What do I do to fix the situation..I tried to help this person she was living in her car with her six kids I let her live with me free of rent til she got on her feet didn't say think you but she used my name 2 get over an my friend for over 10yrs lied on me called cps on me had my children taken an had them turn on me like I was abusing them lost my lively hood job took my income lied on me lost my house an cleaned my bank account out I have nothing an I have never had a bad work with this person an I don't know what I ever did to her to do me like this an the things im going through can you tell me if this a curse or hex or is stupidity on my part
This is just the tip of the ice berg I can go on an on
Is there help for me
Anonymous
DeleteHello My Dear,
Part of your problem my Dear is that you are Too Kind, it doesn’t pay to be too kind, I’ve seen this happen again and again and those who are too kind get burned and burned badly. You are not cursed or hexed, you make the mistake of putting other people first and not yourself or your children.
Your first mistake was taking in this person, instead you should have directed her to a woman’s shelter or to a church where they can help folks in that situation. If she refused to go or kept making excuses then you’d have her number, She is a thief, a user and a liar.
Now you have to start from the very beginning again, First you need to get a lawyer or to a lawyers advocate group to help you get back on your feet. You need to prove that she cleaned out your funds, and lied about the situation with your children. A lawyer can help you with that.
Then petition St. Expedit for help to get back as much as possible what you lost, your children, a job, a home, your money, your friends and put her behind bars, a woman like that needs to have her children removed from her because she is abusing them, teaching them how to steal everything.
Once you get back what you’ve lost Thank St. Expedit and then Petition St. Michael for protection and harden your heart and be logical, send those in need to those agencies that can help them, do not do it yourself.
And always put yourself and your children first---people may say you are being selfish but tell them of what happened to you.
I drew a card for you and it is the Seven of Cups (Temptation), reversed it means that daydreams and fantasies have been brought into realistic focus. You are faced with many options but they will lead you to making the right choice because you’ve now received inner clarity that dissipates illusions and false choices. And now you must remain connected to reality in the face of wishing to be helpful.
You will get your life back but you need serious legal assistance and St. Expedit to help you.
I’ve put you in my prayer circle.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
I love this information, I try to build friendly loving environment/relationship between me and my friend which I like deeply a lot and wish be more between us. Which candles might help me, what color of candles or what would you recommend to do? Thank you
ReplyDeleteHello Angel,
DeleteSometimes it’s not so much color but scent, during the holiday to relax folks I’d burn candles that smelled of vanilla and cinnamon to relax them, usually they’d be cream color or off white, not so harsh looking.
But during the summer or spring I’d burn candles that are light lavender or soft pink in color that smell of lavender or rose.
Once you have the person feeling comfortable and relaxed in your home as well as inviting and as a safe haven, soft gentle music can help as well, sometimes it has to be a combination of scent, sight and sound for it to lead to other things, but it takes time to do it.
Sometimes the smell of baking like cookies can trigger the feelings of gentle love, eating fresh strawberries and ice cream can trigger feelings of fun and relaxation. It’s a combination of things that can lead towards ones goal.
I usually have my Husband in my corner when I bake old-fashion southern cornbread.
Start gently to have them feel secure and then slowly proceed from there, just remember it may take some weeks, but it’s worth it.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Dear Voodoo Q, I'm so thankful for your respond I love it, great adweiss ,I gona do what you recommend and let you know.i hope that all any your health problems turning in better, I pray for you.
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Thank You Angelsbubble,
DeleteAll prayers gratefully appreciated, let me know how things go.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Ms. Queen:
ReplyDeleteLight and love to you. I stumbled on your Blanca g and was intrigued. I was searching for information on candle colors and here you are. I feel my angels sent me to you. My husband lost his job. I have always been the main source of income. Which is fine. But I hate my job. I had a second interview with another company, and I really want it. It would set my career and my family in a good financial place. I am trying not to want it too much but because I hate my current job so bad, I find that I can't stop worrying if I have the new job as I haven't heard anything. Anyway, it's a viscious cycle.
I hope your day is well and I wish you blessings. Thank you for listening.
Freebird
Dear Freebird,
DeleteI suggest that while you are job hunting, to get candles called “Road Opener” to help open the path to finding a new job for you and your husband and “Success” candle to aid you in your interviews, anoint the Success candle with Success oil and Road Opener with Road opener oil.
Then burn a white candle for yourself with Van-Van oil to calm the distaste that you have for your current job and give you a positive outlook in your job hunting and to be confident in your interviews.
You can also burn a St. Joseph Candle to aid your husband in finding a job as well.
You can also burn a green “Money” candle with Van-Van oil to insure that money flows into your home and to your family.
In job hunting it’s very much like fishing you feel a bite on the hook but has the fish really taken the bait or is it just playing with it. The most important thing is to have patience.
You may want to also put together a Honey Jar to draw a job to you, burn a 4 inch tall green candle on the lid, and on your petition paper write a job that will bring money to the family and that you are happy with. (look up Honey jars on my Archive)
Just be careful in burning the candles, have them burn in a safe place where they will not be knocked over and if you have to leave the house snuff them out using a candle snuffer or an old plate placed on the top of the glass enclosed candle so that the flame becomes oxygen starved and goes out.
Re-light them with a prayer to continue its work, the candles should never be un-attended otherwise you could have a fire.
No matter what always remain positive in your outlook, and set the worrying aspect aside, it will come to you, if not this one then another that would be better.
I’ll put you in my prayer circle for success.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
I want to burn a red tea candle on top of water. I meant to let it burn on its own and let the water put out the flame. So it will be burned at its own pace. When that happens and water flame meets I will envision my Lover coming and embracing me and showing me attention and other loving things. Will this plan actually cause my lover to stop being distracted by other women and focus his attention towards me.
ReplyDeleteHello my Dear,
DeleteWhat you are doing is a variation of a candle spell to break a hex or curse spell that has been put upon either you or someone else, I have never known it to be a type of spell to break someone’s attention away from other women and just focusing on you.
And using a tea light really won’t work, the metal cup would weight it down, there are floating candles that are designed to float on water, you can buy them through Amazon, I recommend Hosley’s white unscented floating candles.
Traditionally you purchase a 4 or 6 inch candle put it on a holder inside a bowl of water, have the top of the candle only an inch above the water, then chant what you want broken, as you say these words, you imagine the spell being broken, and see yourself or the other person free from its influence.
It’s important to stare into the flame while keeping this visualization, until the flame reaches the water and extinguishes.
Once the flame goes out, the spell has been broken. After you have finished the spell, dig a hole in the ground and bury the candle in it. Pour the water over the earth.
If you take the tea light out of its metal cup and put it into a shallow bowl of water with the wick just a few centimeters above the water line that would work, but you have to do the visualization while its burning down to the water.
But as I said this type of spell is used to break a curse or hex, not to have one’s lover focus totally on you.
If he is always distracted by other woman, dates them, flirts with them, then I suggest that you wear Follow Me Boy Oil, put it on your wrists or behind your ears use only a tiny bit and not everyday, just when you want an extra boost. As one young lady said “it's like a pushup bra and red lipstick for the soul”.
Just be careful in case of allergy or photo sensitivity.
It’s been known to attract men around a woman like bees to honey, it may make your boyfriend pay more attention to you.
You can purchase it from either Conjured Cardena she calls it “Follow me” or from Lucky Mojo as Follow Me Boy, their links are in my links section.
You can do the spell in the way that you described to see if it will work, but follow it up with “Follow Me” oil to be on the safe side.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
I just want to know how to use the candles because I'm not sure to burn multiple colored ones at the same time. Or if I can do different colored ones at one time as well. I want love peace energy healing positivity prosperity wealth. I dont do witch craft or magic . so does burning these candles equal or of craft n magic?
ReplyDeleteHello My Dear,
DeleteWell you’ve presented a very honest concern by those who are not familiar with “the work”, burning candles is like having a light in the darkness to see one’s way clear, it is much like a prayer, as you see or check on how the candle is burning you are renewing your prayers.
Candles are burned in church, to light at memorials, to celebrate birthdays, weddings, Christmas, Easter and to remember those who have passed.
In some homes where the family is from the “Old World” it is not unusual to see a vigil light burning in front of a saints statue, candles and ancient clay oil lamps are the oldest form of asking for spiritual help.
It is spiritual, metaphysical, it goes well beyond anyone’s idea of magic or witchcraft, because it is multi-religious, multi-spiritual.
If you’ve seen in a metaphysical shop (sometimes called occult shops) a glass enclosed rainbow colored candle, each color represents each desire that you want---peace, wealth, love, healing, energy etc. so you can burn a multi-color candle or a different color candle for each desire, you can do it at the same time or one at a time.
But since you are starting out it’s best to start with a candle that deals with your most major or important concern, focus on that. Then when it burns out light a different candle for a different concern, but if you have a lot going on, then purchase the rainbow color candle, anoint it with Success oil and pray and focus your mind on what is needed.
There is nothing witchcraft about that, everyone prays, I do all the time.
Read my posts on “The Art of Candle Spells” parts 1, 2, 3 and 4--- It’s listed in my Archive, when you bring it up the heading will say “The Art of Candle Talk” and each section will cover a portion of burning candles, both glass enclosed and free standing.
But remember to burn them safely, never leave a lit candle unattended, put it away from little fingers and curious pets, if you have to leave the house, snuff it out with an old plate or saucer do not blow it out, then relight it with a prayer for it to continue its work.
Just remember an Ancient Chinese proverb “It is better to light one candle than to curse the darkness”.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Greeting,
ReplyDeleteHope the finds you in good health,
confusion and frustration with finances, success healing(emotional) life struggles has brought me to burning candles,
which has lead me to your post in search of information. I'm too scared of burnings the wrong candles.? I'm in search of peace with my life dealing with grieving my finances where do I start. how do I start? I'm not even sure of the direction I'm going. I would also like info on where I can get a reading maybe to help guide me..
Dear Iam,
DeleteYou have a lot going on with your life that sometimes it’s hard to discern where to start.
In this case I would first recommend doing a 13th herb uncrossing bath (see my archives for that)
But if that is too much for you to do then you can do a simple cleansing bath by putting the herbs Hyssop, Basil and a bit of sea salt into a muslin bag, stand under a warm shower with the bag under the shower head and recite “Cleanse me with hyssop, Oh Lord and I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. Make me to hear joy and gladness, Let the bones which You have broken rejoice.…”
Then once you are dry light a St. Clare or Santa Clara candle and pray to ask her for clear thinking to see your way to get yourself out of this confusion.
So let’s start with money, once money comes into your life almost everything else clears up, I recommend that you burn a Scented Bayberry candle to bring luck to your home and money to your pocket. You can purchase them at a good metaphysical shop or order it on line from one of the shops that I have links to.
If you want to start action and don’t have the time to purchase a bayberry candle, then get a green glass enclosed candle anoint it with Cinnamon oil, light it when the moon is going from the new phase to full. Read the safety instructions that I post on my archives about burning a candle safely.
For peace, burn a white candle or guardian angel candle anointed with Peace oil to bring peace into the home.
You can burn a pink candle also anointed with Peace oil or Healing Oil to bring a loving presence into your home, as well as for healing.
Then I recommend that you read all my posts that talks about candle burning so that you get familiar with what it entails (see my Archives and tags for them).
But Start with the St. Clare candle and pray to her for clarity first. You can purchase this candle from a Metaphysical shop or online.
This will give you a start on your new and better path in life.
In terms of who can give you a good, in depth reading (because that is what you will need), not knowing where you live I can only recommend two agencies the first is the Association of Readers and Rootworkers
This is their link:
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Association_of_Independent_Readers_and_Rootworkers
The second agency is The American Rootwork Association, this is a link to their members list:
http://www.americanrootworkassociation.com/member-directory.html
Read the bio’s of each reader/rootworker to see who lives close to you and that you’d feel comfortable with.
I cannot recommend anyone to you, but I know that these folks with these two agencies have been properly trained.
Just remember their services are Not free, so check what it would cost for a reading.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Thank you for your reply it was helpful. wondering how long should I burn the candles should I keep repeating the cycles.
Deletewith my birthdate being 6381 just curious should I be cautious I read that somewhere so I'm asking.
Hello My Dear,
DeleteI would burn and repeat the candles cycles for as long as necessary until things are finally on an even balance, and then I would be incline to keep it going until you feel that you can handle things on your own.
Sometimes it can take months. Sometimes just 4 weeks or from moon cycle to moon cycle.
If you want to bring something positive in, then burn the candles from the New moon to the last day of the full moon, then allow to rest and see what develops and then repeat again at the next new moon.
But I myself always have a St. Clare candle burning for clarity, I’m lucky I have a fire place that I can burn it in safely, with a fire screen in front to prevent it from rolling out in case it should tip over.
And don’t worry about burning the candles, it is a Christian practice as well. Just make sure they burn safely, that is the most important thing.
Going by your birthday you are on a 1 life path, and a 9 attitude, being a 1 life path makes you a natural leader you have a strong sense of independence, you do not like relying on other people, especially if you feel they are holding you back. Often, you may feel like it is better to go it alone. But remember as a Life Path 1, be careful and don't try to control everything and everyone around you as you plow headlong towards your goals. In life it is still beneficial to maintain a balance. Which you are trying to do.
You’re born on the 3rd day of the month and it means you can bounce back rapidly from setbacks, physical or mental. Be careful because there is an inner restlessness in your nature, but you tend to scatter your energies and become involved with too may superficial matters and sometimes too sensitive. You are subject to rapid ups and downs.
This birthday indicates you’re good with words, you might want to consider some type of career in writing, journalism something like that.
Anyone with a 9 attitude number is often the leader, whether they want to be or not! At work they'll not just do their job, but everyone else's too. But afterwards they're exhausted and drained, but rarely allow themselves to tell the people responsible. You need to establish boundaries so you don’t feel used and depleted by others.
Being a 1 life path and a 9 attitude you’ve taken on too much and now you need to see where you can par off things, especially to tighten the budget.
Don’t loan, don’t co-sign for anything, get rid of that which takes up your finances---if you have cable get rid of it, paying too much for the apps on your cell phone drop them, use only what you need for work. Cell phone bill too high? Quit texting, tell folks to call you or look for a cheaper cell phone plan. Drop Netflixs and Hulu. Cut out eating out, dine at home, make your own lunch, cut out that extra latte, if need be talk to a financial advisor.
Folks are expecting you to solve their problems especially financially, tell them they need to work it out themselves. And you may need to get a 2nd part-time job. It’s belt-tightening time.
And let those who sponge off of you know money is tight. Look for free things to do. You’d be surprised at what a public library can offer.
These are serious suggestions you may want to seriously consider, make a list keep a journal of your spending, you’d be surprised at what is wasteful.
But most importantly talk to a financial advisor, there are a lot of little things you can do that can add up to a lot of savings.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Good day Queen,
ReplyDeleteI hope you well and happy. I am 26 turning 27 on November 13 and I just wanted to find out if the man I'm dating is the one for me and I also want children. I am also looking for a new job where I can grow and be successful. I have been praying with green,white and red candles. Is there anything you can read on me and what prayers should I pray or what to do. I pray for peace, happiness,success,wisdom and the gift of life and good health. I'm struggling financially and I would like to be self sufficient and independent. I am currently applying for jobs. Hope you are and your blog has been a blessing. I look forward to hearing from you and thank you for your help.
Happiness.
Hello My Dear,
DeleteYou are asking for a full Reading which I do not do, you have so many questions to ask, but there is one thing I can do, and that is to see what would be good for you over all, turning to Tarot I drew a card for this question and I drew The Fool.
The appearance of the Fool in the context of love and life could mean that you aren't really ready for a commitment yet, even though you may feel the need for one, it’s possible that other outside influences are pushing you towards marriage when you may not internally be ready for it.
For now he may be lots of fun that seems to be in the offing. Just don't let your desire for marriage make you make a hasty decision.
Is he the right man for you? Only time will tell, the best thing is to make a list of his good habits and his bad habits, then you need to carefully think can you really live with his bad habits, I can tell you this after dating him for over a year will you know, because by then he will not be on his best behavior.
The Fool card is also an indicator to not rush into things so quickly without looking at everything very carefully.
You are asking for a lot of things but really Wisdom is what you really need, you are young and struggling, you want happiness but the Fool is not looking where he’s going and could fall off the cliff if he doesn’t exercise wisdom.
Enjoy dating this man for now, but focus primarily on finding that job that will give you the independence that you crave, once you have that then you can see everything else fall into place.
Focus on the Green candles for a job and money, petition St. Joseph the worker to help you find that job You can get a St. Joseph Candle to petition him and help focus your prayers.
Lite the candle on a Wednesday and say this prayer every day:
“Dear St. Joseph, you were yourself once faced with the responsibility of providing the necessities of life for your wife and foster-son. Look down with fatherly compassion upon me in my anxiety over my present inability to support (Myself/ my own family). Please help me to find gainful employment very soon, so that this heavy burden of concern will be lifted from my heart and that I am soon able to provide for myself or those whom God has entrusted to my care. Help me to guard against bitterness and discouragement, so that (I / our family) may emerge from this trial spiritually enriched and with even greater blessings from God. Amen.”
If the candle burns out before the following Wednesday keep reciting the prayer and lite a new candle on the following Wednesday, keep it up until you are hired.
Once hired, give a donation to a charity that helps abused women in St. Joseph’s name.
Once you have good employment and are successful at it then everything else will fall into place, but always on Wednesdays say a prayer of Thanks to St. Joseph and he will always watch out for you.
If you are in difficulties pray to St. Joseph and he will guide you.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Thank you for your response Ms Voodoo...I appreciate your time and your insight. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteYou are very welcome My Dear.
DeleteTake good care of yourself.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
My birthday is january 21 1985 this is jessica i had witten to u about my mother and family members.
ReplyDeleteHello ms queen i hope all is well. I was wondering if u could help me my birthday is January 21,1985. I would like to see if u could help me i have never done this before i have lost allot of loved ones like 7 moths apart m y mom in november then my cousin 2 weeks later all of a sudden then my aunt a few months later now my grandmother a month ago i have really been trying to understand allot and my fiance and i have been together for 5 years he just asked me to marry him we are super happy. I was wondering if u could help me understand some of what i have been going through i have really been trying.
ReplyDeleteHello Jessica,
DeleteOne of your messages somehow went into the “spam” folder, I’ve combined your two posts.
When we suffer losses, the loss of each person adds to our awareness of how precious life is and that person’s life experience is to us. From there one goes on a spiritual path.
The hard part is the loss of their physical presence, but they are never far away from us.
Family members in spirit visit those still here in the physical world, and if we listen we are still guided by them and their wisdom, even though you miss their physical presence they are always with you.
I am glad that you gave me your birth-date I’ve combined the numbers and they reduce down to 9.
9’s are natural leaders. People often think they are in charge even if they are not. They take care of everyone else, but need to learn to speak up when they need help, love, and hugs.
The 9s often feel unloved or abandoned, or they feel completely responsible for everyone. It's hard for them to let go of the past, and it is something they need to work on in this lifetime.
Your attitude number is 4 (combine of month and day of your birth) as a 4 you can be very quiet about what you’re thinking, love to be surround by nature, can be a teacher as well as being a “devil’s advocate” having people see things from all sides.
2016 was a 9 year and your personal year, it was also a year of endings for you, which means that it was inevitable that you would have lost family members, a 9 year for 9’s is very hard and can lead to feeling lost or confused.
But 2017 is a 1 year, a year of new beginnings even though you lost another family member, it was at a time when they knew you’d be well taken care of, and with your new fiancé that will happen, a new beginning as you rise out of the ashes from your losses.
You are also learning to do “The Work” and it will be a lifelong learning experience for you as well as helping others in their lives.
I drew a card for you from Tarot and it is the Sun but Reversed, but this is not necessarily a bad thing, it’s still a sign that soon you are likely to find yourself feeling more “free” than you have in a while, maybe in years.
But in reverse, there is much less clarity to this “freedom,” and you may have to work harder to bring the “freedom,” about.
Still, this is an excellent and important time to experience different things, things which are out of your usual routines.
It’s all about vitality, freedom, joy, and self-expression.
The Sun reversed is reminding you that it’s particularly important for you to make an effort to literally count, and stay focused on, your “blessings.”
No matter what might be wrong or sad in your life, you undoubtedly have things to be thankful and grateful for. Stay mindful of these things, and you will bring more blessings into your life.
This is a great time to socialize, to meet new people, and to get out and about.
If you’re looking for a new job it could be right around the corner, you just need to let your employer know what you can bring to the table, but if you’re currently employed then you could be moving towards new opportunities and improvements within your job. Just don’t take your employment for granted when this card appears.
In matters of Love neither partner should not take the other for granted but also to keep things fresh, each partner should allow the other some alone time, the old bubble bath and candles routine or allow him to have his games and root for his team.
In terms of spirituality you may be a little confused from time to time. You’ll know that there is a great deal of beauty to be found in this life, it’s just that some metaphorical cloud makes it hard to see and feel. Have faith - if in nothing else, in yourself, and this universe.
This 1 year will be a year of new discovery and learning for you, with its ups and downs but that is all a part of the learning process so have faith, and know that your family members are never far from you.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hi ms.Queen thank u so much for your insite and help. I have another quick question i know u are busy and i hope u r feeling well. I was wondering if u could maybe give me some insite. I am doing new things that i have always wanted and one of them are spells. I am new to all of it can u maybe give me some guidance on that. Thanks for your help and time.
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DeleteDear Jessica,
My reply is a bit long so I had to do it in two parts.
In doing spells it’s like baking a cake or a loaf of bread, you have to study the recipe first and then gather the ingredients, and decide when is the best time to do it.
You need to set up a space where you will do your spells or work, this becomes your sacred space which must be maintained and kept clean physically and spiritually.
Then you have to figure out what kind of spell you need to do, if you are basing it on a spell you’ve read study it and see if it right for what you want. Then decide what would be the best time to do it, usually this is based on the phase of the moon even if you do it during the day, just remember waxing moon is to bring something to you, waning moon is to banish something from you.
Certain spells have ethical codes, if it’s a love spell to have someone fall in love with you for example, that can be unethical as that is interfering with someone’s free will, but if love is there but has turned sour a love spell could be used to at least try to resolve the situation. So you need to determine that as well.
Spells for protection are good, spells for money or a job is good but don’t make it unrealistic, ask for what you need and no more, such as enough funds to help pay bills, or aid in seeking a job.
Once you have determined what kind of spell you’re going to do, gather the materials and equipment that you need and have them ready, then create your sacred space at your altar, this can be as simple as burning sandalwood or frankincense to create the right atmosphere, then quietly meditate and get your mind into an alpha state (focused), call upon the Devine Presence to protect you, or if you are working with a Saint call upon them to aid you. Some folks will call upon Jesus, God, Mother Mary, or if they are more Wiccan then a god or goddess that they feel close to. Create a white light bubble in your mind surrounding you for protection.
And then start the spell. Once invoked and “running” make an offering if you are working with a particular saint that requires offerings, or thank the Devine for coming to your aid.
Some folks will do a shower before doing the spell work to approach the altar in a clean state, or at least bless themselves with holy water. After doing the spell, you need to ground yourself, there are two ways of doing this, focus your energy going down through your feet into the ground below deep into the earth, the other way is to drink a glass of spring water and eat a couple of oatmeal cookies, the act of drinking and eating helps bring our energy back into ourselves.
Over time you will discover that your personal energy will increase, your aura will expand, certain pieces of jewelry, a scent, a color, crystals even certain everyday objects will take on a personal magical meaning for you to connect to. I have a ring that was given to me by my Grandmother when I was 12, I consider it a personal protection piece, and have only removed it when I’ve gone into surgery, otherwise it is never removed.
In time you will want a space completely set aside for your work, you’ve heard of “Man Caves,” well something new for ladies has developed called a “She Shed” and this is a personal space for a woman.
Sometimes if you live in an apartment you have to be creative using screens to shield your space. I could go into it in great length, but if you read my posts you’ll note I make mention of certain things that some folks would not give a 2nd thought to because it’s part of the decoration.
Continued in Part 2
Part 2
DeleteSpells cannot do everything, I’ve always said they should be a spiritual addition while you are doing the real physical work to get something done, such as job hunting, apartment hunting etc.
I’m going to suggest this article by Mackenzie Sage Wright it’s called Five Spell-Casting Essentials for Beginner Witches, this is the link: https://exemplore.com/wicca-witchcraft/Witchcraft-For-Beginners-The-Five-Essential-Parts-of-Casting-Spells
Her article is more geared to Wiccan workings working with the goddess and the god, I myself am more “hoodoo”, “conjure” calling upon God, Mother Mary, Jesus, the Angles, the Saints and my family members in spirit.
There are those who practice the Santeria religion or Ifa, Palo, or Voodoo/Vaudu, their gods etc are different and how they call upon them for their spell work is different just as mine is different.
But the principals in doing spell work is the same, over time you’ll find what will work best for you and over time you’ll develop your own spells.
I recommend reading “Conjure Wife” by Fritz Lieber, he was a former seminary student studying to be a priest, he discovered the ways of conjure and in his fiction work, mentions how the heroine Tansy learned how to modernize and develop spells so they work more efficiently. The book is still available in paperback and is a thrilling read so I recommend it.
Also read my blog to get a better idea about things and if there are links within the article go to those links and read there, I also recommend printing things out, even the comments section and build up your own book, from there you can trim things down to the essentials for your own information.
And never be afraid to ask questions.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hi there ms. Queen my fiance is reinlisting back to the military we are getting married before he goes out. We are going to frankfurt germany then he is going to Afghanistan i was wondering if u could do a reading for us to see what lies ahead of us please if u have time i know u r busy. Thanks jessica
ReplyDeleteHello Jessica,
DeleteYou’ll find Frankfurt a very interesting place. Of course with your future husband being deployed to Afghanistan I too would be concerned.
I did a one card reading to see what lies ahead and the card I drew is the Page of Pentacles, reversed, this means that right now the both of you are only looking at short term goals or desires, you need to really look at the longer sustainable, long-term goals. You will need to move beyond material satisfaction and towards what will bring you sustainable happiness and fulfillment.
So for a while things could look pretty dark and uncertain until you see clarity as to what is really your long term goals. Short term goals are fine for the immediate, but you both need to look at the long term goals.
Stuck to the Page card was the Six of Swords, this means that with carefully planning you’ll be trusting in intelligence and intuition as you both set off into the unknown.
You’ll be leaving an untenable and unhappy situation and charting a new course in life. It will be a passage from difficulty and progress towards a solution.
That is not to say it won’t have its ups and downs, its great fears, but just remember the both of you will discover a road to recovery from a difficult situation.
Don’t be a bit surprised if in later years the two of you will do a lot of travel and exploration. In a way you’ll enjoy the “Gypsy Life” learning new things, places, people and it will add to your wealth of information.
So you’ll both have short term goals for the immediate situations but it is vital to also make long term goals as well, but it does seem that in terms of long term goals the two of you will be doing a lot of traveling. But try and be selective as to where you travel if at all possible.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Ms.Queen my fiance wanted me to ask u he is a combat sgt and he was injured a while back in combat. Our biggest concern is he had an ora about him before that he went off of to keeo him and his men safe. Like he would know something is about to haopen before it happens he was wondering will he still have that ora about him to guide him and his men to safety to keeo him and his men safe and return he just wanted me to ask u he is really concerned about that if he will still have that like he had before. Thank u for all of your guidance it is greatly appreciated from the western couple thanks jesica
ReplyDeleteHello Jessica,
DeleteI think you mean “Aura”.
Sometimes when one has an injury the Aura can be damaged, it can be healed, it takes a little time.
If the aura is compromised in any way, the person will experience a draining of energy manifesting as a sudden energy loss, a sharp change of mood, headache (often migraine), acute pain, nausea, sudden illness (e.g., infection), etc.
The aura will normally recover its integrity in several days through a natural process of self-healing.
During this period, the person may feel unwell and seek alternate sources of replenishment of vital energy, usually through natural means such as absorbing energy from the environment.
That is why going to such places as the forest, desert, seashore, mountains is so vital. To rest among nature is very important.
Taking vitamins is an alternative for a city dweller, but vacations even for two or three days in a natural setting is vital.
That is why I take breaks just to enjoy being in my back yard and watching the birds and natural urban or suburban wild life helps me, and take longer vacations to the country or sea shore.
If you can maybe you and your husband should take a few days just to go camping, even in an RV rental and forget about the world for a few days.
But in between, an aura cleansing will also help heal any holes as well, this is the easiest way using a quartz crystal.
This method is recommended by Karuna Wellness for self development.
Take a quartz crystal in the shape of a pencil and apply longitudinal passes from top to bottom to clean the entire aura.
The movements should be not quick, start from over the top and end at the feet. After each longitudinal pass flick the crystal over a bowl filled with salt water – to properly dispose of the negative energy you are removing from the aura.
Do this over the entire surface of the aura.
At the end of the session wash the crystal in salt water (but not in the container which you used for the disposal of "dirty" energy).
It is important to clean the crystal too. Alternately, you can leave the crystal under the sun for a few hours.
You can make salt water by putting salt into water and stirring it. Some folks will use Sea Salt and Spring water, but if you’re on deployment you make do with what you’ve got.
You can find these crystals at a rock shop or metaphysical/occult shop.
This will help heal his aura and strengthen it, then his own instincts will take over.
I did a one card reading for your husband and it is the King of Pentacles, but reversed, in his case not a bad thing because his instincts and Aura will take over because this means the dark essence of earth behaving as air, such as a diamond or becoming as hard as a diamond which a solider must be, an unyielding person, with a gift for identifying weakness and exploiting it all qualities a solider must have on deployment in the field.
Have him also wear a blessed St. Michael medal the protector of soldiers.
I will have him and you in my prayer circle.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Ms.Queen,
ReplyDeleteYour blog is very interesting. Hope this message finds you in good health.
I am seeking your advice. I have prayed for peace, love, wealth and health. my birthday is June 17, 1972 I am a mother of 5 and a grandmother of 3. My parents and grandparents have passed away. My children and my grandchildren are my new family. There has been a lot of separation of one state to another, I have property in one state and the other state I have none. I want to reunite my family and bring them together they do not want to live where I have my property. If its possible can you read a card for me or give me an advise.
Hello My Dear,
DeleteYou are a 6 life path.
The day you were born 17, also comes down to 6, as a 17 you are very good at business and organizing but as a 6 not only are you a responsible person you are also caring about your family, may be too much so.
As a 6 life path you are the ultimate nurturer, your maternal instincts exceed all others, you are the predominant caretaker and family head.
You assume significant responsibilities in the community, your life revolves around the immediate home and family. Conservative principles and convictions are deeply ingrained and define your character.
You are idealistic and must feel useful to be happy. The main contribution you make is that of advice, service, and support.
You are very human and realistic about life, and you feel that the most important thing in your life is home, family and good, loyal friends.
But sometimes too much of something may not be a good thing.
You own property in one state and would like your family to move there and they are resisting, you need to be honest and ask them why, is it hard for them to relocate?
Is it Finding jobs? Any good schools? Have they established relationships in their community that they are comfortable with?
If things are good for them there they may not feel the need to move.
Yet you need to keep an eye on the property that you own in the other state to make sure it’s not being damaged or squatted illegally upon, you need to tell them that as well and that it’s also their inheritance which needs to be maintained.
I drew a card from Tarot and it is the Five of Pentacles (Worry), but reversed, you have obviously concerns over this property and you want to take action to protect it.
And subconsciously you are also feeling the need to have family close to you and right where you have property, much like a Mother Hen covering her chicks with her feathers.
Something spiritual inside you is lost, you may feel lonely and want a solid “ground” under you and you feel this move would do it because you feel something is out of place and you are struggling to realize what it is.
You need to explain carefully to your family why you want them to move to this other state, you need to be calm and skillful as you present your concerns and you need to be an active listener to why they don’t want to move.
Is this property family owned? Is it part of your past life when your parents were alive? Are you trying to hold on to it as a way to stay connected to both your past life and your present life?
Sometimes one has to make hard decisions, take a good look at your family.
Are they living lives that are not including you, are you feeling that they are “emotionally” moving away or becoming distant with you?
Take a good look into yourself, are you holding on too much to the past?
These are hard questions to answer. And you have to be honest with yourself about it.
An honest family discussion with a mediator who has no connection to either side might be useful, take a look at what might be beneficial for your family to move to the other state, is there less crime, better schools, better job opportunities, better health care?
You have to remember finding good paying jobs in this current economy is very hard and you don’t want to accidentally lead your family into poverty.
You’ll need to look at their needs beyond your own, as hard as that is.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Ms. Queen,
ReplyDeleteI came across your blog and I find it interesting, and inspiring.
I am in need of a direction.
I am a mother and I have a son. My birthday is 3/11/1991. I am currently not with my sons father. I meet a man who caught my interest. He lost a loved one who was the love of his life and the mother of his child, 9 months ago. The man I meet is extremely affectionate, we have only been dating for few months and he already tells me he is in love with me but my heart is with my child's father. I've tried to break it off but when I do he begs for me not to leave him and he has never found anyone like me. Can you read a card for me and give me advice on the reading or a spiritual guidance.
Thank you so very much,
♥ I send my blessing to you
Dear Adaa,
DeleteYour gentleman friend is still going through the period of painful mourning, and it’s hard for him to separate the feelings of his loss and the feelings he has for you, he subconsciously fears that with your leaving him it’s like his child’s mother dying all over again.
I recommend that you suggest to him to seek grief consoling to help him process his grief further because what he is doing is transferring the love he had for his lost one to you and that is not fair to either of you.
You need to tell him this and that you’ll be his friend while he comes to an understanding of what he is feeling and so he can process it, but you cannot be there in the way he would like it to be because his loss is too fresh.
In a way it’s a form of re-bounding like after a break up.
You are a Pisces and are caring and compassionate but just like other Pisces who are born during the 2nd third of that sun sign you are also practical as well.
In combining your birthday numbers you are a 7 life path which means you are a very spiritual, peaceful and affectionate person. But you guard your connection to people carefully.
It's easy for you to detect deception and recognize insincere people, and you avoid them, you don’t like the hustle and bustle of modern life, you need a good deal of quiet time to be with your own inner thoughts and dreams.
You dislike crowds, noise, distractions, and confusion and you tend to be a reserve person, but once someone gets to know you it’s like the sun breaking through the clouds.
You’d almost prefer a small town to the Big City if you had a choice.
In terms of work you have a gift for investigation, analysis, and keen observation. You think and evaluate situations very quickly, and with accuracy.
Because of that you are thorough in your work, a perfectionist who expects everyone else to meet your same high standards.
I drew a card for you especially since your heart is with your child’s father and the relationship with this other man and I drew THE FOOL.
This means that in your new relationship you are at the start of something new, but it does mean change and upheaval.
You know your heart is with your child’s father but is his heart with you? That is a question that still needs to be answered, and if his heart is not with you, then why miss your chance.
Once your friend does grief consoling and comes to terms with his feelings, if his feeling for you are still the same then the Fool Card is saying to take a leap of faith, no matter how scary it might be.
And if it doesn’t work out quite the way either of you had hoped for, was anything lost? No.
Because both of you had that chance for new discovery and you see what wonders are out there. Who knows it could be with the fellow you’re seeing now.
But I do strongly encourage that he seek grief consoling so that his feelings for you are genuine and not simply a transference of feelings.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Thank you very much. I will be taking your advice. I really want to thank you from the bottom of my heart !
DeleteHello Ms. Queen
ReplyDeleteI love your honesty on your blog, I've been to some folks in the past and nothing I get answered make any sense at all and seems like it's not true.
I have marital problems, it seems the engery that I te from my husband that he doesn't love me. When I left from my home before I felt relieved and able to breathe and conquer my goals and dreams. Now that I let him back in seems like all went back down again. I see that he try's but then he's back again with I don't care mode. Also I have so many other problems with others in my family, brothers mother and sometimes my sister. I feel like I only have myself and my kids. My kids too feel left out of a lot of functions or they are treated very ugly by my own family. The same ones. I feel I have my granny that comes to tell me it's going to be ok in my sleep but the last time was a few years back. I always see cardinals and I've seen I believe is a falcon. I also put candles and my peticions in it. I only used white. What wld you suggest Ms. Queen.
Thank you
Marisol
Dear Marisol,
DeleteYou are asking for a full reading on 5 different subjects.
First off take a look at how you felt when your husband was not with you and when he was with you, Big difference wasn’t it? Remember how free you felt? Now remember that while I explain your readings.
First you are a 3 life path, based on your birthdate--- According to Glynis McCants “THREES communicate in all areas: You will find them as Writers, radio broadcasters, actors, singers, performers, counselors etc..They are natural comedians, but if they do not use their creative energy, they can feel manic and unhappy.” Does that sound like you?
You are a very creative person, and if you’re working at it with great communication skills, and are innovative in the world of writing, acting, being a motivational speaker, or do well in the entertainment industry, not necessarily as an actress or singer but in one of the support businesses such as publicist or working for an agent.
But you also stress, harmony, beauty and pleasure, the hard part is focusing your creative self-expression.
Part of your problem is not being good at handling money, you spend it when you have it and don’t when you don’t, saving for a rainy day is hard for you, maybe because you want to live life to its fullest and you enjoy connecting to people.
To be rejected especially by family members is painful and would cause you to retreat into a shell, with children to care for it makes it especially painful when they are rejected, that is because as a 3 you are very sensitive.
But you have the capability to bounce back, for example when your husband was not around you seemed to survive very well, but the minute you allowed him into your life he seemed to squash your bright light, sucking the life out of you.
And it seems your family members are doing the same to you, even though you may care for them.
On the Romance side 3’s don’t do very well, that’s because of your bright shining light you attract demanding and dominating people and for you balance and an equal give and take in a relationship of any kind, family, friends, lovers- is very important to you, it’s vital and when it’s not, then you’re not happy.
Your hardest test in life is controlling your highs and lows. You don’t very well in a routine environment or when you are placed under dominating managers or even family members and people who overly think things frustrate you, you don't function too well with this type whether you are working for, with, or under them.
But if you are ever able to focus your energies and talents, then you will go very far in life.
You just need to get out from under that rock that’s crushing you.
But you do need to guard against becoming an escapist, being moody and retreating from the world, also avoid being critical of others, being impatient, intolerant or even being overly optimistic.
You need to do a list of what works for you and what doesn’t and that would also include people, you also will need to be realistic about life since you do have 3 children to care for.
You need to focus your talents and abilities and also learn to handle money very carefully. Set goals of what you really want and shrug off the nay-sayers, whomever they might be.
I’m continuing this in Part 2
Part 2
DeleteYou also have a 3 attitude which is some ways is good but in other ways is bad because in some ways you don’t want to grow up and be an old adult, so you’ll have to learn to mix the adult with the child to live, laugh and love life.
The date of the month that you were born is a supporting influence in your life path and your 3 attitude, it can soften it, strengthen it in areas where your life path might be weakest. You were born on the 6th day of the month, so this tends to make a 3 life path tone itself down and understand being responsible, helpful and it helps you try to understand why you feel the way you do. It makes you an open and honest person as well as caring about family---6 is the number associated with responsibility and caring, no matter what your life path is.
So this will help you focus on your needs to what you need to do, remember that list of what works and what doesn’t, that also would include who is negative in your life and who is positive in your life. And I’ve always said one does not need negativity in one’s life.
I want you to carefully read your question/comment to me, separate each sentence, that’s because it came from your heart and your heart will tell you what you need to do.
Now I’ve drawn a card from Tarot to see more about your future, since I’ve pretty much describe what energies are around you. And that Tarot card is the Two of Pentacles or Change, this means working on balance and harmony that will be achieved during a time of upheaval and transformation. You are going to be taking two steps forward for every one step back. This also means a shifting the importance of projects and priorities to keep everything on track. A lot of changes will happen include a change in occupation or location.
This calls for the necessity of balance between opposing desires and interests. Life will always be uncertain, yet if you can produce balance and harmony among all the demands upon you, you will ultimately live happily and in prosperity. But you need to be very clear on your priorities and where you want to invest your time and energy. Don’t be distracted by the little petty things so managing your time and priorities is important.
This card predicts change, and for you change is important, but it also predicts problems and difficulties but by being flexible and managing your time effectively will keep you on top of the situation.
You need to be able to cope with change, remaining flexible and adaptable in your approach. Rather than putting all your eggs in one basket, you may be better to keep two or more things going at once so you have the luxury of choice, should one option fall through. You must stay centered while you stay flexible and keep informed. Look for new possibilities, be open to change and go with the flow as best you can.
What that change will be only you know what you will need to change in your life.
Regarding the symbols of seeing cardinals and a falcon, birds symbolize liberation, finding your voice, positive changes.
A cardinal mean you know that you should be your own first priority. Taking good care of yourself first, it will make it much easier for you to help others.
It’s letting you know that now is the time to start those new projects you’ve been contemplating.
And its saying focus and set your intentions clearly as well as signaling you to be wary of what you are creating with your thoughts. Is this really what you want? Make sure that you are aware of exactly what you are manifesting and then make any corrections that are necessary.
The Falcon means that you are being asked to be vigilant. An opportunity for big positive changes in your life is close at hand and it will require good planning and strategy as well as action on your part.
Everything is pointing to change Marisol and only you can do it.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Thank you Ms. Q appreciate all your help. I knw what your talking about when I felt free and able to thrive, as for my family you are correct as the moment my brothers are not speaking to me. I've even done my part to speak to him and he won't budge. I spoke my mind and I believe doing that he was upset. As for the opportunity I want to try this job, it's a different position and hoping and praying I'm able to get it. Yes it involves of traveling from LA to Texas everyday but it's worth it. Again thank you
DeleteDear Marisol,
DeleteYou are doing the right thing, yes take this opportunity, if you don't take chances how will you grow?
And show to your children how to be brave in the face of difficulty.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Good evening Ms Q
DeleteIm sorry to bother again, not sure what I want to ask 1st so much is going ok at the moment. I was wondering what do I need to do to land this job. They just placed a hiring freeze now I'm back to square 1. Also with my husband, do I have to have him leave. How do I make that happen. I've told him to leave and he smirks at me. But from what I've stated before about not feeling loved by him. Is my intuition correct. Is he really here just for interest?
Thank you Ms Q I appreciate you
Marisol
Hello Marisol,
DeleteIf you and your husband own a house together and you both are living in it, he is not going to leave and give up his property because some states say that the person who remains and claims that as their permanent address may get the house.
But if he has been physically abusive to you, then you do have recourse to call the police and get a stay away order.
If you want to legally separate from him then you need to speak to a lawyer to see what you can do and what it entails, especially if you want him out of the house.
On a metaphysical level, when he’s not around dust a little hot-foot powder in his shoes, and put a little into the pockets of his pants. Not too much to be obvious, don’t worry it won’t hurt him.
In landing the job, you may want to burn a Road Opener candle or a Block Buster candle to open the path to a new job.
Or you could petition either St. Jude or St. Expedite to help you get a job or to even get him to leave.
In regards to your husband I drew a card from Tarot and it is The Tower. This means an unforeseen catastrophe. An abrupt change, perhaps leading to a new lifestyle and enlightenment. May indicate a broken relationship, divorce, it signifies darkness and destruction on a physical scale.
You may need to be careful with him because this card indicates he would like nothing else but to see you fail, maybe even get all the property for himself.
But this card is not all about catastrophe on either a subtle or subconscious level, because more importantly with any destruction there comes creation.
Therefore this card represents an awakening and is about inspiration, freedom, reality and the release from bondage. It is a truthful and honest card that tell you that revelation will come as a bolt of lightning to you through a shocking and life impacting event.
So be on your toes with him, and even with your family.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
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ReplyDeleteMy Name is Marisol Magaña Borja
DOB 6/6/1980
I have 3 kids
Im seeking advice or direction for Love Health Success Wealth and Protection
Hi Ms. Queen hope all is well. You have been a blessing to many and was hoping you could also be a blessing to me. My birthday is Dec 2, 1987 and my fiance is Oct 16, 1988 we have a little girl together and like many couples we have our ups and downs. I was hoping you could do a 1 card reading to see what the future holds for us. Thank you and many blessings to you.
ReplyDeleteDear Wonder,
DeleteYou are on a 3 life path and your fiancé is on a 7 life path, because you’re a 3 and he’s a 7, that means your relationship is a bit of a challenge and requires more compromises, which explains your ups and downs.
You being a 3, you may feel the need to always be constantly on the go with a lot of activity, travel, and social contact, unfortunately a 7 which your fiancé is, may find that intolerable.
Your fiancé as a 7 needs solitude and can only take just so much human contact before retreating into his cave of peace and quiet.
When there is a confrontation between a 3 and a 7 it is always hard work and both of you need to understand the long-term requirement for compromise.
The key to making this relationship work is open dialog regarding wants, needs, and goals between the two of you with periodic adjustments and reassessments.
That being said I drew a card from Tarot and the card I drew is the Queen of Pentacles, but reversed, this is the dark essence of earth behaving as water, such as ice, the both of you are going to have to careful about being driven by an overwhelming need to accumulate and maintain wealth and material things.
If you do that then you can never stop to enjoy either.
The both of you have to avoid becoming consumed in your work, placing career before family or relationships, if either of you do that it will have a negative impact.
Don’t get me wrong, when starting out to get a home and a stable life this may be ok on a temporary basis but you both will need to assess its long-term impact on your relationship.
To get your lives in balance return to a favorite nature spot (a forest, beach or mountain) and take in the fresh, natural energy, get involved in camping or simple RVing to stay connected to nature and get away from the hustle and bustle of the city, the internet, computers, and video games and learn the song of birds, listen to the wind in the trees, collect shells at the sea shore, see the wonder of the natural world through your little girls eyes. It will help put life in perspective and re-energize both of you.
This card can suggest being worried about whether you can be financially independent, while also still maintaining family connections, that if you invest too much in your careers or financial well-being, you might not have enough energy to invest in family.
Just remember the both of you cannot do everything and will need to make some choices and compromises.
You can be wealthy but spiritually poor, so always invest in family first, mental health first, stay connected to real people and not internet ones and learn to compromise.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hi Ms Queen, hope you are doing well. My girl friend and i recently had a baby and now that the baby is here she is wanting to go out without me. Could you please do a 1 card reading for me.
ReplyDeleteHello My Dear,
DeleteWell from the brief words you’ve told me it seems that your girlfriend is not really ready to care for a baby, I’m presuming that it is she who was pregnant?
Stop and think about this, if you were told you couldn’t go out and go clubbing, dancing or drink alcohol, that this baby is pushing your body out of shape, you can’t sit comfortably, can’t sleep comfortably, can’t do anything, well once it’s born naturally it’s time to catch up on what you’ve been missing.
She wants to Party, she does not want to be a Mom. She may have been too young to even consider the seriousness of parenthood.
So she’s dumping it on you.
Stop and think were you the one who really wanted the baby? Did you somehow persuade her to have this baby? Did the two of you move too fast without considering all the difficulties and what you have to give up to raise a baby entails? From her actions it seems not.
I drew a card from Tarot and it is the Eight of Wands (Swiftness)this is a sudden release of raw power and setting things in motion.
Now this card was not in the reverse position but it is describing in your situation as negative actions.
It means that the two of you made bad decisions in haste and now she is regretting it and rejecting the situation.
This card also signifies surprises in relationships that something unexpected is approaching. The only problem here is that it can be a good surprise or an unwelcome surprise. And in your case it seems that you got an unwelcomed surprised in that your girlfriend in her own way is deserting you by leaving you with the baby when she goes out.
Having this baby was a major transformation and maybe one that was not subconsciously in her plans, you can expect this surprise to turn your life around and be a shock to you as it was to her.
So much so that you are now giving away too much energy to your relationship. If you can give 100% of yourself in caring for this baby, you will. It’s a very noble thing to.
But remember that your energy and your efforts must be appreciated and reciprocated. If you keep operating like this, you will run out of energy, and you will feel emotionally spent until you can no longer give anything more.
Your partner should also be giving the same amount of energy on this relationship. Otherwise, it’s for nothing. You can’t be the only one working to save the relationship.
The two of you need to go to couples consuling as well as child parenting because it’s obvious she wants to be free of these obligations.
The two of you are going to have to come to some serious decisions, such as does she want to give up the baby, turn over all care to you and she go off and live her own life? Can the two of you work something out together so you both have a little freedom and fun while the baby is with a responsible baby sitter? Did the two of you enter into this too young? Would it be better to put the baby up for adoption?
The two of you are not even married. And yet the two of you had a baby. As my Granny would say “Babies having babies is not good and creates hate, they haven’t grown up yet.”
Sad to say but now it’s time for the both of you to put on your “grown up pants” and take care of that baby.
I’ll have you both in my prayer circle.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
good evening Ms. Q , my names Keryss Brea Jones born Aug 15 1990 . ive lost 3 important male partners in my not so long lifetime and suffer judgement often times from it that has began to become dangerous , i have four daughters which two were stolen from me by their father (the oldest two's father committed suicide as teens) i work as an accountant but havent had motivation enough to even do that . im planning on leaving CA to Al for a few months to a year to clear my mind and heart and hopefully start a successful business in both states . ive been interested in being read lately . its been very heavy on my heart for days now ... would it be too much to request one from yuu ??
ReplyDelete-Keryss Brea
Hello Keryss,
DeleteI’m sorry for taking so long to get back to you, I’ve had family visiting and of course the Eclipse excitement.
You have a lot going on in your life, a lot of pain as well, your birth month is August and we’ve just had a solar eclipse in August.
It is believed that those folks born in the month that a solar eclipse is taking place will feel the energy of the eclipse very acutely so your feeling to move to clear your head is correct because the eclipse has said to you time to make a change and it will help.
I took a look at your birth date and you are on a 6 life path meaning you are a nurturer and the dominant caretaker, you have a tendency to take on responsibilities especially with home and family, your 6 life path is a very domestic number, you need to feel useful to feel happy and the most important thing in your life is home, family and friends, being an accountant is also being responsible, at work you work to being order and working with numbers is a form of order, at home you seek to do order by creating or trying to create a form of domestic bliss or tranquility.
But on the flip side of the 6 life path you have a tendency to take on too many responsibilities to the point where you become confused.
2017 is a 6 personal year for you meaning increased responsibilities and a deepening concern for family, loved ones, and close friends having to make some adjustments in your life, or sacrifices.
This is not really a year for major accomplishments, but rather a time to handle those adjustments to your plans that may be necessary or required, and for finishing projects started earlier. Endeavors will seem to be moving so very slowly throughout this year.
The important thing is to be willing to accept a slower pace and be sure to enjoy the peace and harmony that this personal year
A 6 life path coupled with a 6 personal year also means that you’ll discover some creative and artistic talent within yourself, so traveling to AI will reveal over time what it is you need to do .
Now that is doing numerology so I’ve also drawn a card for you from Tarot it’s the Seven of Swords (Futility), but reversed, this suggests that you need to break free from old habits and ways of thinking in order to overcome the blockages that currently stand in your way.
You need to accept what is happening to you and act on it, rather than trying to escape. You need to do things differently, releasing yourself from past behaviors or limiting beliefs so that you can move forward in your life.
Do not become trapped into thinking that you can only do certain things with which you are familiar. Expand your consideration set to broader horizons.
You will know in your soul, that when the timing is right, you will be able to follow through on your dreams, releasing an old pain from your heart.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hi Ms.Queen. My name is Melissa Rodriguez dob 11.19.82, could you please do a 1 card reading. Thank you in advance.
ReplyDeleteDear Melissa,
DeleteNot knowing what your situation is or what is your question, I’d be flying in the dark.
So let’s start with your birthdate, combining the numbers we come up with 5, you are on a 5 life path, in which you’d like to make the world a better place where people are free to choose that which would be best for them.
As a matter of fact Freedom is your key word and in your pursuit of freedom, you’re versatile, adventurous, and advanced in your thinking.
You want to find the answers that life throws at you because your path is for constant change and improvement which means you’d like to be totally unrestrained, because 5’s are often associated with the productive use of freedom.
A love of adventure may dominate your life either mental or physical and taking a conservative approach is just not in your nature.
But this could lead to problems for you as well because in romance internally you really don’t want to be tied down and restricted, now that doesn’t mean that you’re unfaithful, but you really need someone who understands your outlook on life, and if you’re involved with someone who keeps a tight rein on you that is not good nor healthy for you.
The down side of being a 5 life path is sometimes you’re so multitalented that you may suffer from a lack of direction, making you possibly irresponsible in getting things done with home and job.
That's because if you give in to the total per suit of sensation and adventure, you’ll become unaware of hurting those around you. And that is because you hate routine and boring work, and staying with everyday tasks that must be finished on time, because you’d like to live in the moment and not plan for tomorrow.
But on the positive side of being a 5 life path is that you are a good communicator, and you know how to motivate people around you. This may be your strongest and most valuable trait. Depending upon your education and opportunities, your potential job opportunities in government, the law, and other positions of authority is unlimited. Or being in sales and demonstrating things is another job path for you.
But again not knowing the current situation you’re in I’m flying blind, I drew a card for you from Tarot and it is the Three of Swords (Sorrow), but reversed.
This is sad, it means that you have or will receive unsettling news that’s going to have you distance yourself from a destructive relationship.
You may need to not let yourself get dragged into a negative situation by your emotions, because you may have or will help someone you thought was in need but instead your trust in that person has been or will be betrayed, once the painful truth came out or is going to come out. Painfully honest communication needs to take place.
It could be that you are now going through some painful heartbreak, either a relationship has ended or has experienced challenging times, a loved one has passed, or you felt hurt from a situation that affected you deeply.
Give yourself time to heal and accept the hurt as a learning lesson and then move on, if you don’t the 3 of Swords is warning you that you may get stuck in the emotions of the past and will miss new opportunities.
It’s hard to deal with the pain, just learn to accept the situation and any emotional blocks will be removed. Let it go, once the upset, pain and tears have gone, open the door to new experiences.
If you’ve been in a restrictive relationship and it has broken up, be thankful, because now you have the freedom you need and desire.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Hello Ms.Queen my name is Yvette Rodriguez my D.O.B is 12/20/1993 I would like to receive a 1 card reading on your behalf. I would like to know if 2017 will be a good year for me. I've been at a standstill for about 2 years in all aspects of my life. I have recently found a job and am hoping to get the ball rolling in my life once again . I also truly long and hope to find love or a meaningful relationship . My love life hasn't been a good not an abundant one. I also feel the need to mention that I have been burning white candles to enlighten my way and repel negative energies as well as pink candles to attract a true/ soulmate partner . I hope to hear from you soon, Thank you.
ReplyDeleteHello Yvette,
DeleteSorry for the delay getting back to you. I’m going to do this based on your birthdate and a card reading.
You are a 9 life path, and 2017 is a 6 year for you, but you also have a 5 attitude which can be at war with the 9 life path.
As a 9 you are a humanitarian and people sense you may be in charge when you’re not but people turn to you to ask for help, sometimes because you take care of everyone else you don’t feel that you are loved in return, and it has happened time and time again in your past, which you need to let go of so that you can work on the positives that are coming to you.
There is compassion in your life and you give of yourself, and people trust you. You’re not too much into material goods but have comfort and quality in your life, but be very careful with your money, focus on saving towards retirement.
You meet people easily and can make friends quickly because of your demeanor. But relationships can be difficult for you because it is hard to strike a balance that is effective. If a partner is like you then a relationship will be happy and lasting. On the other hand, if a partner is focus on material issues, problems will arise quickly.
Because you feel things deeply you may need an outlet to express your feelings either through writing, painting, music or other art forms.
Because 9 life paths are less inclined in the competitive business world and you may find this a struggle preferring to work as part of a team.
There is a down side to the 9 life path that is realizing that internally you may have difficulty believing in the idea that giving and a lack of personal ambition can be satisfying. And instead may turn towards material things but also receive little satisfaction for that.
Another thing is that your humanitarian life path can be at war with your 5 attitude which is to be playful and have fun, to go out and experience the world and live for the moment, because if you get stuck in a situation you don't like, you may subconsciously feel the need to create some drama, or end up playing the martyr. So it’s better to get out there and play, or read stimulating books loaded with adventure, and imagination that makes you a part of the action. You could be flirtatious, and would like to be the life of the party.
But again the 5 attitude wars against the serious side of your 9 life path nature which is causing you to be sort of frozen in place. So you need to find a balance between the two to avoid going to extremes.
What is left of 2017 is a 6 personal year bringing on increasing responsibilities and concerns for family, and those you care about. You may have to make some adjustments in your life. This is not really a year for major accomplishments, but a time to handle changes to your plans that may be necessary or required, things will seem to be moving so very slowly for the remainder of this year. But expect to see changes to improve things to have what’s left a very good year, just remember to be willing to accept a slower pace and be sure to enjoy the peace and harmony that the remainder of 2017 will bring.
Now we really need to see what 2018 will bring to you since that is still coming so I’ll continue that in Part 2
PART 2
DeleteO.K. 2018 will be a 7 personal year which will be a time of analysis and understanding, 2018 would be best for you to focus on your talents and skills in an effort to refine them. Perhaps to gain more education to expand your skills.
In 2018 you may want to be free from the outside responsibilities that you’ve taken on that may have been thrusted upon you, so you will need to enlist others to help.
You’re hoping to find a meaningful relationship and for that I’ve turned towards Tarot for that, please remember I’m not sure if this will come in 2017 or 2018 and I drew from Tarot the Seven of Swords (Futility), but reversed. This means that you feel you’re in a hopeless situation or cycle and can’t seem to break it. Possibly because you seem to pick the wrong person to fall in love with.
You need to break free from old habits and the current way of thinking in order to overcome the mental and emotional block that currently stands in your way. You will need to act on it, rather than trying to escape from it. Do not become trapped into thinking that you can only do certain things with which you are familiar. Expand your mindset to broader horizons.
You will need to be careful about whom you date or fall in love with, you’ll need to use logic and not emotion in dealing with a new relationship, remember when falling in love the first 3 months is a sort of “honeymoon” there are stars in your eyes, give a new relationship a year to see the faults of the other person, and do not move in together nor share funds or co-sign for anything. Maintain your own place and keep your hard earned money to yourself. If the other person goes to jail let someone else bail them out.
For the next year and a half be very careful in the romance department, otherwise you could be taken for a ride that you won’t like.
Focus on your work, expand your abilities and training, by doing that you will increase your income, and learn to have fun in your life without romantic entanglements, you do not need a man to define who you are, only You can define yourself and build yourself up.
Continue to burn the white candles for enlightenment and repel negativity and burn the pink candles to love yourself because in truth there is no such thing as a soulmate, only a person you can get along with.
So burn the pink candles to surround yourself with loving energy. Because I do not see a good person coming to you until 2019 when that will be an 8 personal year for you where you’ll be seeing advancement and recognition for your work and will project and feel self-confidence and authority, and feeling like you can tackle the world with or without someone at your side.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Freedom,please voodoo queen can I have your personal Facebook for better and understanding interaction. Please I need your help.thanks
ReplyDeleteHello Freedom,
DeleteThis is Ms. Q's niece.
She is on vacation now for two weeks, visiting family.
I'm house sitting for her and checking her blog.
Ms. Q does not have a Facebook page, she only answers questions here on her blog.
This particular post tends to fill up fast.
If you go up to the section titled "Blog Archive" you will find her latest postings and you can post your questions there.
But it will be at least two weeks before she can reply.
In Ms. Q's words
"Bright Blessings"
Greetings Queen
ReplyDeleteThank you for the opportunity offered in this platform to get help.
Queen I am 27 years of age, female with two kids different fathers and I am no longer with their dads. I would like to know from the spirits that will I ever get someone who's meant for me? Someone who will love me and would want to marry me?
I'v been single for 2years. Currently there's a guy perusing to be in a relationship with me. I like him and his company. But my only issue is he's not single. I dont wanna settle.
Kindly draw a card for me and tell me what exactly my future holds when it comes to relationships. Or maybe I was meant to be alone forever.
I thank you.
Dear Joselyn,
DeleteYou are right!! Do not settle for someone who is already committed to another woman, it will only bring you more unhappiness and another baby. You do not need that, especially if you are struggling now.
The one thing I’ve always said to my nieces is to never let a man or a woman (if your LBGT) define who you are or put you in a particular situation, only you can do that because you have freedom of choice and only you can love yourself, no one else can. Only you can make yourself whole.
But for some people they don’t want to be alone in life and having to struggle on their own. That’s understandable.
But in this day and age, it seems that people do not want to commit themselves to another.
One thing my Granny and my Mom told me is to never think that by having a baby by a man it will keep them with you----IT WON’T. Until that wedding band is on your finger do NOT have unprotected sex. Because by being married you and your child will have legal rights, which an unmarried woman with children have a hard time claiming no matter what the law says.
And if this man is perusing you and he’s committed to another person, well he’s cheating on that other person, what’s not to say he won’t cheat on you, because once he has you, he’ll move on to the next unattainable quarry.
O.K. you do want to know if someone will come for you or are you to remain single for the rest of your life, well I called upon my guides and spirit guided my hand to draw from Tarot and the card I drew is the Eight of Wands (Swiftness), but reversed this means that if you’re not careful then you could take a foolhardy and untimely plunge into the unknown. Your impatience in finding a good man can lead you to making poor decisions in love, business, travel, or spiritual growth.
This card reverse counsel’s patience. Some things in life cannot be forced or hurried. At the same time, you need to look at how you are using your precious and limited energy.
Don’t waste your time on someone who is already involved with someone else, you need to focus on yourself and your children but be careful when someone new comes into your life, do not allow the green-eyed monster of jealousy to take control and drive that man away, use logic to be sure that new person is not cheating.
So when will a new person arrive? Possibly by next Spring, late Spring. Do not look like a frump, fix yourself up and have a smile on your face, but always be aware that some men have hidden agendas and don’t think that having sex and a baby by the next fellow will keep him, it won’t.
Be friendly but be a bit hard to get, not until he puts that wedding ring on your finger and says “I Do.”
I would not be surprised if you play your cards right, if by Summer of 2019, you will either be married or have a very serious and committed man in your life.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
I don't see why people are afraid to burn black candles alone. This brings very powerful prayer meditation and protection. Not to mention the banishment of all negative energy seen or unseen. But I will agree that once the black candle has been burning for a while lighting a white candle with it (or any other color) will completely destroy any evil or negative. Especially from others.
ReplyDeleteDear Lord Night
DeleteI agree one can burn a black candle by its self especially if anointed with a banishing oil to remove negativity, that in itself is not evil.
And I have done so myself, but to make sure that something positive will fill the vacuum that the banishing leaves, about half or ¾’s of the way when the black candle burns down, I will then start to burn a white candle (at least a white candle) to bring in the positive energy to fill the “open space” the negative energy leaves.
It’s based on the idea that “nature abhors a vacuum” and it is always wise to make sure that the “open space” does not get refilled with another but different batch of negative energy. It’s precautionary.
I covered this in my post on double action candles on Wednesday, June 7, 2017 “What are and How to use Double Action Candles (aka Dual Action Candles)” and that post explains it more in depth. Check it out.
But I do admit sometimes I don’t have the time to go to my local Occult shop to buy a double action candle so I will use two separate ones, especially if time is of the essence.
But I too do not see black candles as a negative but as a tool to help produce positive results.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Great minds think alike sister! I completely agree. I do the exact same thing! Once the black candle is almost spent a white candle is well suited to bring the true banishment of negativity. I also burn frankincense and Myrrh resins which are prestigious exorcism tools, but prayer combined with candles is something so simple and phenomenal that I will probably never draw away from these methods. You rock! No Facebook page or anything? ?
DeleteDear Lord Night,
DeleteYes (lol) Great minds do think alike. I rock? Well I’ve never thought of myself as a rock star. (lol) But Thank You.
But I also consider the fact that it’s like two different scientists doing the same experiment in different parts of the world, they don’t know each other but they discover that the method and results are the same. The spiritual principals are the same.
I too burn frankincense and myrrh resins as well as prayer when doing the work, so we have both hit upon the correct method of what works. I have found that when I don’t have those resins that Nag Champa is a good back up incense.
Have you read Fritz Lieber’s novel “Conjure Wife”? In it he posits the principal of the same workings from different places and then finding what works best. It’s an entertaining novel to read. At one time he was studying for the priesthood so he had access to all kinds of “occult” information.
Sorry to say No I do not have a Facebook page, if I did I’d be at my computer all day. And at my age I tend to value my privacy, so I do not give out my e-mail. Otherwise I'd be overwhelmed.
Doing my blog, writing my articles, house work, and doing the work (now a days for family and friends) and interacting with my family and friends keeps me pretty busy, so I do need a bit of time to just sit back and enjoy nature, even if it’s in my back yard.
I’m glad that you’re enjoying my blog, I intent to keep it going for as long as I am able.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
I am happy to hear that at least someone knows what I am talking about! Most people brush off these methods because they think they know better because they googled sage. Usually when people tell me things like, "I've been burning sage all over and nothing seems any better!"I simply tell them that sage is truly fantastic but definitely not the pinnacle item to use when facing the worst demonic or satanic things or even heavy stress! The wise men who brought the frankincense and Myrrh were truly wise! I still have sage but when people don't listen I can't do anything for them! I usually make certain that I never run out of frankincense and Myrrh! They're truly beneficial! Facebook is overrated! But you may find some great lost connections on there! I have not read "Conjure Wife" but I will surely look for it online. I love your blog! Very helpful and wise!
DeleteThank You Lord Night,
DeleteI try to do my best, but even I make mistakes, but the most important thing is to be willing to learn something new or compare the differences.
I too get fed up with "know it all's" who get their ideas from Google without doing any real research.
And even worse those who say they are the "Great and Grand PooBah" of whatever and their word is final.
To them I give a flip of my hair and say "Whatever".
Because no one is a "great and grand poobah" of anything, we are all students as well as teachers, and it's a wise teacher who still wants to learn like a student.
The 3 Wise Men were on the Mark when they gave those resins.
Usually I never run out of those two important resins, but on occasion when I haven't had a chance to go to my local metaphysical shop, that has happened.
I think you'll enjoy reading "Conjure Wife" it's an old book but still in print and it was made into 3 movies:
1944's "Weird Woman",
1962's "Night of the Eagle" the US title was "Burn, Witch, Burn"
and the 1980 "Witches Brew" aka "Witch Witch is Which" (they made that as a comedy).
I feel that the British film "Burn, Witch Burn" was very close to the novel and what we practitioners come into contact with
When I want a Halloween viewing I watch it along with 1957 "Night of the Demon" aka US title "Curse of the Demon" with Dana Andrews.
I'd get the longer British version "Night of the Demon"
Those two films along with the more recent (2005?) "The Skeleton Key" are pretty close to what "the working" could be (or is?).
Also they're great fun to watch for Halloween. Pop lots of popcorn as well.
Yes I can have fun too, yesterday one of my youngest nieces gave me a brand new coffee mug it says "Don't Make Me Flip my Witch Switch".
Who says it has to be all serious.
Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q
Blessings to you as well! I will check back here many times! Forget those know it all poobahs! The wisest people are the learners!
DeleteHello Ms. Queen,
ReplyDeleteI've been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs. He is 46 and I'm 34. At the start of our relationship i asked him if he had any children and his answer was no. Last yr, May 2016 he informed me he had a daughter (& that her sister could also be his) but never told me because he wasn't sure if they were his. He told me he had her at a young age 17 and her mother took her away and told him she wasn't his. Now, a little over 1 yr later he informs me he has another grown child and again wasn't apart of his life because of that child's mother used him to get pregnant and was older and told him it wasn't his. I have met both his children and they both confirmed his stories are true. I found an email where he is reaching out to another child and she told him she isn't ready to have a connection with him. I have no children and before all this we had discussed having children. I'm so confused and want to give him the benefit of the doubt that he didn't tell me because he didn't know if they were infact his. However, today his son informed me that there was dna testing done years ago and it came out 99.9% that he is his. The other 2 sisters, have not had dna testing done. (The 3 that I'm aware of are mid to late 20s). I'm not sure what I'm trying to ask you...I know it's his past and if they all turn up to be his i should be accepting because I love him. But i feel betrayed, I'm starting to feel like a choice was ripped away from me. That he knowingly knew but failed to mention it because I wouldn't have given him a chance. I just dont see how this could have continuously happened. That they all denied him having any part of his children's lives and how many more he could possibly have. As of now it's 4 children with 3 different mothers. This is driving me crazy, again i don't know what I'm trying to ask but please help. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my ranting.
Hello,
DeleteThis is Ms. Q’s niece. If you’ve read the latest post on her blog you’ll know she suffered a serious heart attack.
Because of her condition and that she’s over 80 years old, Ms. Q has retired and will no longer write on her blog or be able to answer comments or questions in any depth. She is also unable to do any readings or candle interpretations.
She has given recommendations on the latest post whom you could contact for your questions, we are leaving the blog up for reference for people.
However when she was feeling comfortable I did put your question to her and she replied.
She says that you are young you do not need a man who is 12 years older than you and has lied to you. Leave him says Ms. Q, because there is a better man out there for you.
In Ms. Q’s words Bright Blessings
Hello Ms. Q , I just came across your page after googling a question about candle colors and the meanings. Thank you very much for your piece on that it was well written and so very informative. I'm wondering if you can help me with a question I've always had about myself. I'll just say it, I've many times sensed what I think may be spirits of those who have passed. It's been since I was barely a teenager to current. I'm wondering if you can see anything about this or if I'm nuts lol, By the way , I'm not schizophrenic or anything like that. I also don't see anything that's not there in a psychotic manner and I don't hear voices in a psychotic manner either. I just wanted to clear that up. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for all the good you do.
ReplyDeleteHello J93,
DeleteThis is Ms. Q’s niece. If you’ve read the latest post on her blog you’ll know she suffered a serious heart attack.
Because of her condition and that she’s over 80 years old, Ms. Q has retired and will no longer write on her blog or be able to answer comments or questions in any depth. She is also unable to do any readings or candle interpretations.
She has given recommendations on the latest post whom you could contact for your questions, we are leaving the blog up for reference for people.
I did inform her of what you are going through.
She replied that yes you are sensitive to hearing the spirits, and because they see your "light" they are attracted to you.
She recommends that you wear a blessed St. Michael medal to keep negative spirits away from you and if you look up her posts on shielding, protection etc. it will give you some tools to help turn them off so you are not bothered all the time by them.
In Ms. Q’s words Bright Blessings
Hello Ms. Queen I ran across your blog and Lord knows I needed some advice from someone like you. My name is Chantel bday 7/31/1989 I've been in this relationship with this person for 3 years now and I love him dearly. But his mother really doesn't like me.Ive been kind to her ,loaned her money , and the drama still remains. She always accuse me of doing witchcraft and voodoo (which I know nothing about) ,she thinks I'm doing it to stop her from getting her blessings. She has hit me before ,came to my house a sprinkled salt all over the floor, She recently told me she has pictures of me and she hasn't been to my house for no reason..She's crazyyyy and I need some kind of help. I'm starting to believe she's practicing witchcraft with pictures of me She also stated that she hope I die having my baby(currently pregnant)Once again I've never done nothing to her but tried to show her love Help Queen V
ReplyDeleteHello ms queen v my name is Chantel dob 7/31/1989 I've been in this relationship for 3 years now and my boyfriend mom has always accused me of doing witchcraft or voodoo (which I know nothing about)She's hit me before ,told me she hopes I die having the baby (I'm currently pregnant) Has threatened my livelihood ,she told me she has pictures of me so I need to be praying or going to church.Im so lost and confused .I love my boyfriend but I'm a little fed up with his mom Help me please queen v
ReplyDeleteHello Chantel,
DeleteThis is Ms. Q’s niece. If you’ve read the latest post on her blog you’ll know she suffered a serious heart attack.
Because of her condition and that she’s over 80 years old, Ms. Q has retired and will no longer write on her blog or be able to answer comments or questions in any depth. She is also unable to do any readings or candle interpretations.
She has given recommendations on the latest post whom you could contact for your questions, we are leaving the blog up for reference for people.
Because of your condition I put your question to Ms. Q when she was feeling stronger.
She replied that when dealing with a crazy person who feels that you have "stolen her son" there is nothing you can undo except to talk to your boyfriend about her, maybe seek a restraining order on her if it gets real bad.
Stop loaning her money, don't try to love her, if she makes that accusation again tell her that its her own fault she cannot get any blessings because of her own anger.
The only thing she is doing is stressing you out to make your pregnancy difficult, she cannot threaten your livelihood, she is using mind games, if she has physically hit you that is called assault and you can have her arrested, inform your boyfriend about that and that if she does it again you will call the police.
Sprinkle red brick dust at your front door, any salt she uses will not work. Wear the sacred heart medal of Jesus and Mary blessed for protection.
And after the baby is born keep the baby away from her she could harm the baby because of her mental condition.
Read Ms. Q's posts on shielding and protection as well as her other posts.
But most importantly tell your boyfriend that you may need to get an Order of Protection from the courts because of his Mother's bizarre and harmful behavior and get him to intercede to protect you and the baby.
In Ms. Q’s words Bright Blessings
Hi Ms. Queen,
DeleteMy name is Chanteau. MY BIRTHDAY IS 12/26/1980. I was wondering if you can help me. My brother is missing we are from Louisiana ,but he moved to Savannah, GA for treatment for
Drug addiction. He has been missing since May 12, 2017. I need to know if he is dead or alive and where is he.
Dear Chanteau,
DeleteThis is Ms. Q’s niece.
If you read the latest blog post you'll know Ms. Q suffered a serious heart attack and has retired from writing her blog or answering in depth any comments or questions, she is also unable to do any card readings.
Your question would require her to go into the spiritual world to see if your brother is there, and I do not want to risk her health.
But in meditation she feels something bad did happen to him, and recommends that you contact the Savanna police to see if any “John Doe’s” were found and were unidentified. She feels there was some sort of “confusion” at the Drug Rehab place or before he got to it.
Considering the storms that were suffered in that area, she feels that it may be impossible to find him.
She wishes she could do more but I’m not willing to risk her health. We both wish you good luck in finding him.
In Ms. Q’s words Bright Blessings even in this difficult time.
GOOD EVENING MS QUEEN THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME AND TRYING TO HELP US ALL FIND OUR WAY WISH YOU MANY BLESSINGS MY QUESTION TO YOU IS I HAVE MY GIRLFRIEND AND I LOVE HER BUT WE HAVE SEPARATED AND NOT TALKING AND SHE HAS JUST SEPARTED HERSELF FROM ME IAM SO LOST AND DEPRESSED I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING I WISH I COULD TURN BACK TIME FROM WHEN I MET THIS GIRL WHO IS CAUSING ALL THESE ISSUES BETWEEN US THERE ALOT MORE TO IT BUT DO YOU SEE US TOGETHER ANYTHIME SOON I KNOW IMPOSSIABLE QUESTION BUT ILL TAKE ANYTHING AT THIS POINT ,,MUCH LOVE
ReplyDeleteHello,
DeleteThis is Ms. Q’s Niece.
Ms. Q suffered a very serious heart attack and has retired from writing her blog or answering any questions or comments in depth.
I did ask her this question to see if she could suggest something to you, she replied that you may need to give it time, the issues involved were a breaking point, if she is refusing to speak to you then the issues were too much for her to deal with.
Ms. Q suggests that to get over the hurt you are feeling the best thing is to leave her alone and get involved in a charity during the holiday season such as a food bank or feeding the poor, by being involved in charity work you’ll see clarity in your life and meet someone who may be better for you.
Don’t be alone, get involved in the community. By next Summer things will be brighter for you.
In Ms. Q’s words Bright Blessings
Hi my name is Emily & Prayer’s for healing for Ms.Q I happened to stubble along this page .. in seeking guidance .. my birthday was yesterday 11/27/69 woke up at 1:30 A.M can’t sleep feeling sad ..
ReplyDeleteAnd boy oh boy do I have lots to say ... I was seeking guidance for my health, marriage, kids, my business.. my journey has not been easy and still waiting to be happy and healthy .. but do not want to bother Ms.Q ... GOD BLESS her healing ..
Dear Emily,
DeleteThis is Ms. Q’s niece, your prayers are greatly appreciated for Ms. Q’s well-being.
Ms. Q meditated on your general situation, she cannot give specifics because of her health condition, but she understands your feelings of sadness, you are approaching the 50 mile-stone and you may be wondering where life is heading for you and your family.
You being a Sagittarian have a tendency to see things in broad strokes, so that you’ll pile worry upon worry on yourself and you have a tendency to question everything.
Ms. Q recommends that first you need to see if you are suffering from the effects of menopause which can cause depression and worry, she’s not saying that you need happy pills, but first get yourself and your outlook under control, if need be seek out a group that talks about these things.
Waiting for something to happen to be happy and healthy and everything is not a good idea, you need to be pro-active.
No one is always happy nor healthy, life has its ups and downs and right now you are in a down period says Ms. Q.
Once you go to group consoling, once you find out if you are suffering from the effects (subtle as it can be) from Menopause, then bit by bit you will find a measure of contentment, not happiness but contentment, which is different.
Ms. Q thinks you may have to give up something, which it taking a major drain on your life and energy, which is stressing you too much.
Get a sheet of paper and at the top write down the “subject” of concern, then make two columns one that says “PROS” and the other that says “CONS”, do it for the other situations in your life.
When you compare the different subjects and see what is stressing you the most, then see what can be done to fix it or to let it go.
Ms. Q thinks, unless your business is the major bread winner, you may have to give it up, until at such time when the children are out of the house, by doing that it can also save your marriage.
The Holidays are also a stressful time for everyone, see if you can shift some responsibilities onto someone else, it may help.
She also recommends that you burn candles that smell of cinnamon and vanilla during the fall and winter months to make the house feel inviting.
And then burn candles that smell of Lavender during the spring and summer so the house will feel peaceful.
In Ms. Q’s words Bright Blessings
Hi There
ReplyDeleteI wanted to know in 2018 will I make it and win Olympia bodybuilding event. Female 7/20/1979. Thanks.
Dear Fitspiritualgirl,
DeleteThis is Ms. Q’s niece, if you’ve read the latest post you’d be aware that Ms. Q has suffered a very serious heart attack and has retired from writing her blog or answering in depth any questions or comments or doing any readings or interpretations.
I did read your post to her and she was puzzled by why a beautiful and focused woman like you needed to have reassurance of your self-worth by winning this competition?
Ms. Q was feeling a bit stronger yesterday and although she had been advised to not do any readings, she decided to do a short one card reading on your question and the card she drew from Tarot is The Devil.
Ms. Q meditated on this card in relation to your question and she said you need to be careful about being seduced by the material world and physical pleasures as well as with any lust for and obsession with money and power.
She said that the Devil card indicates that you are becoming obsessed and hell-bent on a particular idea, situation or endeavor.
You are over-investing yourself in one area at the expense of other areas of your life.
You need to be careful because you have created an unhealthy bond with these materialistic desires and you are now being controlled by this bondage, everything will come at a cost to something that really is far more important to you spiritually than winning an event.
This card is saying you need to be careful to not forget about the importance of investing in your relationships or yourself spiritually.
Take this opportunity to bring about positive change in your life by providing yourself with ongoing encouragement and motivation. You must remain faithful to your goal of freedom from obsession.
This card is warning you to look out for anything that might put you in debt or under the control of another person who may not have the best of intentions.
The possibility of winning is there, but at what cost says Ms. Q.
She advises you to expand your horizons and goals beyond this event and bodybuilding, there is so much more out there for you.
In Ms. Q’s words Bright Blessings
Oh my goodness Ms. Q I just read about your health please take it easy and heed the advice of your loved ones. You need to take care of yourself. Don’t worry about your blog. Love and light to you. All the best.
ReplyDeleteBlessings Ms.Q. i have a situatiom im in and i need help badly! I feel for someone who works at the school my oldest daughter goes to! I sent her ediable as a secrect admirer we use to talk then she went cold! On me she would stare from a distant but when i look her way she looks away! She requested me on fb but i denied it not knowing it was her and when insent one back she denied me so i found her on ig and sent a request and she blocked me!...the next day shw saw me n gave me look of death! I need an answer on weather or not shes interetsed in me! She an attention seeker but like to play a game and i lit a love candle for her but i just feel like something is there but not sure what can u please help me and let me know is she interested in me or if i should just let go! Please help
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DeleteThis is Ms. Q’s niece, sorry for the delay in responding to your question but we’ve been sick with the flu, and we were worried about Ms. Q that she had to be hospitalized because of it. She is better now but weak.
If you read the latest blog post you’d know she suffered a serious heart attack and has retired from writing her blog or doing any readings
However I read your question to her. And she drew 1 card it was the Magician Reversed, according to Ms. Q this person you’re interested in is Bad News, this person will use deceit, manipulation and using one’s skill and ability for negative ends.
It can reflect trickery and cunning, untrustworthiness and cause mental confusion.
Run away if possible from this person have nothing to do with them, it will only cause you pain and grief, this person likes to play mental games on people and has no kindness in them. You would do well to forget about this person.
In Ms. Q’s words “Bright Blessings”