Tuesday, December 29, 2015

A candle spell to banish a person and get your loved one back~~~

Hello Everyone,

Recently Ms. Q was asked if there is a candle spell to banish a negative person or persons out of someone's life and have them come back.

There are spells many spells, so it can be hard to say which one would work, in response to a question put by "Endlesslove"   Ms. Q has recommended these two spells.

But she does it with a caveat, the spell work can help up to a point but also physical work is needed, Ms. Q strongly believes in the adage that "God helps those who help themselves".

So with that in mind Ms. Q shares these two spells, we have seen them posted on several areas of the internet so it is out there, but she has found them to be helpful.

Here is the question------

Im in to candle work. I have a situation where i trying to keep my family together. My s/o is fighting and sex addiction as well a women is in the picture that keeps blocking us from rebuilding. What candle work can I use to remove the issues mainly the women and pull us closer together?

And here is Ms. Q's response~~~~~

Ms. Q says there are several levels that you are working on and you will have to work with each one separately, because doing them together will scatter your energy. 

 First you need to get rid of the woman or women if more than one from your s/o.  

Once you do that then you will need to do a healing ritual to bring under control this sex addiction but this should also be done in conjunction with therapy.  Sex addiction like drugs, alcohol and gambling is a physical and psychological disorder that needs to be worked on through a licensed therapist or group treatment, so both your s/o and you can understand why this obsession.

But even Ms. Q says that the rituals are not always completely successful, the sex drive is a powerful addiction.

So let’s start with breaking up and getting rid of the woman/women in your s/o life.

There are  two types of candle work you can do, this is one that she learned from one of the ladies in her Granny’s group, it’s an old Southern Hoodoo ritual, but all you need is one small red candle.  

 On separate sheets of brown paper that has not known a scissors (means you have to hand tear it) write on it 13 times the name of the woman----if there is more than one woman then it’s that many pieces of paper to write each woman’s name 13 times.    

Anoint the corners of the paper with Banishing oil and then in the center sprinkle with a bit of Banishing powder.  Fold the paper from each corner to the middle so that the ends overlap then seal the folds with the wax from a red candle or red sealing wax.

Bury this packet or packets in a discreet spot in your garden at midnight---now if you live in an apartment then bury them in a pot with dirt.  

Every night for the next 13 nights sprinkle the pot of dirt or the ground where you’ve buried the packet(s) with “Damnation” oil.  

 On the 14th night dig up the packet(s) and burn them to ashes in a safe fire proof container.    

Carefully collect the ashes and either throw them to the 4 winds (4 directions North, South, East, West) or into running water, such as a river, stream, lakeor fast moving rain water down a gutter.

That’s one type of very simple candle work.

Now there is also a “Hotfoot” candle spell but this works for a specific person in mind.   

This is an old Southern Hoodoo candle ritual and Ms. Q’s Granny has said that it has worked most of the time unless someone is working counter acting magic.

What you will need is 
a Black candle,
“Hot Foot” or “Get Away” oil and powder
A rusty nail
7 pins or needles
Brown paper that has not known a scissors
Red ink pen (felt tip is fine)

Write or inscribe the person’s name on the candle with the nail and dress the candle with the oil, stroke the candle away from you. 

 Insert the pins or needles at equal intervals through the candle from bottom to the top and sprinkle the candle with the powder.

On the paper write the person’s name 7 times in red ink.  Turn the paper 1 quarter turn and across their name write what you want them to do (move away, stay away, leave town etc.) 

 Place the paper under the candle and light the candle. 

Burn the candle until the first needle falls, all the while focus/concentrate on what you want to happen to this person and then extinguish this candle (snuff it out do not blow it out you can use a candle snuffer) with that first needle or pin stick it into the paper straight up and down, the next night when the second needle or pin falls out pin it across the first one   so that it looks like this  X.

By the end of the ritual you should have three crosses in the paper with the middle cross finished with the 7th pin going straight up and down.  

 It should look like this  X X X.  then the middle x has the 7th pin going up and down the middle.

Repeat this ritual every night added a bit more oil and more powder until the candle has burned down completely and all the pins have been used.

On the last night after the last needle or pin has fallen out and you’ve pinned it to the paper,  use the candles’  last flicker light to burn the paper, needles and all.   

Place the ashes and needles (or pins) in a piece of paper and mix with a bit more oil and powder then if possible without being seen sprinkle in the front yard of the person you want to leave your s/o alone if they don’t have a yard then at the front door or at the bottom step that leads to their front door. 

If you know their car you can put a bit of  the oil on their car handles that you know they will come in contact with.  Especially if you know they are the driver.

Once that has been done and is successful then there is a simple candle ritual that you can do to start the healing process.

 Get a pink (or red—white will do) male image candle and a female image candle, anoint them with  Adam and Eve oil (stroking it towards you as you Dress the candles) inscribe your S/O name on one and your name on the other (I’m assuming that your s/o is of the opposite sex if not then get the right candle to match each of your sexes).

Have the candles facing each other but a ways apart, burn them for 15 minutes concentrating on being together, then snuff out,  the next night light the candles and bring them closer together.

  Do this for 7 nights in a row, until they are directly facing each other,  on the last night let it burn completely out, then wrap the remains in red paper and bury under a rose bush.  

If all goes well and there is no counter magic working against you it should work.    

You should also wear a touch of “Cleo May” oil to re-attract you S/O and then gently encourage your S/O to seek help for this addiction and work together on this.   

But remember this is not an easy thing to overcome, and it will take more than candle work, it will need the personal touch as well. 

In Ms. Q’s words “Blessings to you”

Thursday, December 24, 2015

Rain and Full Moon Water from Christmas Eve and Christmas Day~~~~

Hello Everyone,

Ms. Q is getting stronger and more energetic each day and I do believe that by New Years she will be posting on her own once again.

But she became very excited a day or two ago when she found out that there will be rain on Christmas Eve Dec. 24 and Christmas Day Dec 25 as well as a Full Moon on Christmas Day.

So she has encourage me to put out white bowls to collect this rain water for Christmas Eve and I'm to put out Spring Water if it doesn't rain during the Full Moon of Christmas Day.

Many of you from different countries may not celebrate this time of year as many Christians do, and where you are at it may not rain either, but where we are it will, and rain is considered living water.

According to Ms. Q's Granny's tradition rain water collected on Christmas Eve is like Holy Water, thrice blessed, it is very powerful to keep evil banished and so should be used to bless the house and everyone in it, as well as breaking evil.  It can also be used for greater psychic clarity.

Spring water put out to collect the rays (either seen or unseen) during a Full Moon on Christmas Day is also considered extremely powerful in breaking evil.   Now should it also rain during the time of the Full Moon on Christmas Day collect that water.

But to have two conditions happening at nearly the same time is very rare,  the next full Moon on Christmas won't happen for another 17 years.   Although in Northern Climates experiencing winter and the possibility of rain on Christmas Eve can happen.

Now if where you live you don't get rain but snow, well that's solid rain, so put your bowls out to collect that.

This is considered sacred and holy water to be used in blessings and banishings,  but because it doesn't happen so often use it carefully and wisely.

Now when the Full Moon occurs on Christmas Day is 11:11 GMT  also an extra plus, but find out locally when it is to occur in your area.

Spiritually the Full Moon on Christmas Day and even the near Full Moon on Christmas Even has special spiritual influence, According to Sara Coughlin------

"Given its traditional name (Cold Moon), December's full moon is associated with a negative aspect of the month — the cold, dark, long nights, specifically. One can see this as a natural (if less-than-cheery) symbol for this month's moon, but it can also be an opportunity to step back and consider other sources of warmth and light in your life. Just as the winter solstice brings people together, you may recognize that, during the colder months of the year, you seek comfort among friends and family.

These feelings may be stronger than usual this year, as the maternal and familial influence of the full moon may intensify your desire to be around loved ones for the holidays. Other spiritual effects of the full moon (clarity of mind and heart, heightened psychic awareness, a greater capacity for healing) can be beneficial for your end-of-year reflections, and even help you set intentions for 2016. With this in mind, even your Christmas well-wishes can be imbued with the power of the full moon now.

Christmas is supposed to be a time of giving, charity, and goodwill. The full moon can bring unexpected things about yourself to light. If simultaneously observed, the collision of these two events (the holiday and the full moon) will usher in a truly advantageous moment to reevaluate our place in the world and our relationships with those we care about."

If you go to       http://www.space.com/31471-rare-christmas-full-moon-guide.html   You will get more mundane information about this Rare Full Moon.

So gather this water or put your bowl of spring water out to collect the energy.   Keep it in dark blue colored bottles, collect as much as you can.   Because this is a rare and special spiritual event.

In the words of Ms. Q   "Blessings to Everyone"

Friday, November 27, 2015

A short list of recommended Metaphysical Shops ~~~

Hello Everyone,

Ms. Q and I had quite a chat about purchasing things from either an on line shop, through Esty, or from a brick and mortar store. 

Ms. Q said “Sometimes it’s like trying a different baking product, for example you’ve used Duncan Hines for years to bake something and one day you go to the store and they’re all out of Duncan Hines but have instead Best Foods, now both products are good, but each one responds differently, the texture is different, the taste is different and although good, to your family it’s not quite the same.  

And yet someone who has used Best Foods for years goes to their store and they’re out of Best Foods so they use Duncan Hines.  Again both products are good but this one is different and to that family it’s not quite the same.  

My Granny use to say “To Each their own”  meaning use that which works best for you.” 

Ms. Q went further to explain this in more magickal terms “O.K. I’ve used oils and such from Ancient Ways, and it works really good, for example, I use a Banishing Oil they make and it works really good,  but one day they were out, so I traveled to Mystic Dream and got theirs and it worked too, but in a different way, the results although gratifying surprised me as to how it worked.”

“I’ve also used War Water from Conjured Cardea and it has "Pow",  but someone gave me War Water from another shop and it worked too but it took a little longer to be effective especially since it was a situation that was not as difficult, even though I prayed over both of them,  and although I would prefer Conjured Cardea, this other shop would do in a pinch, even if I have to consider re-doing the spell work later on with the preferred product from the preferred source.”

Ms. Q has discovered that even among those folks well known in the magick and Hoodoo community that there is some feuds, as to which or whom is the better, more knowledgeable practitioner,  or who stole what explanation from who, or this practitioner has “done me wrong don’t trust him/her”  and even in various reviews there are different reactions to different Metaphysical shops, some people have had great results and others only give it a one star rating for whatever reason.

Ms. Q has found that by using a product she can give a personal rating on the Shop but suggests that each individual find out for themselves.   A store keeper or anyone can be having a bad day or the practitioner is ill or having an illness or crisis in their family that is not helping them to function and cannot give quality customer service.   Ms. Q says that what people forget is that practitioners are human too.  Illness, family situations, and other crisis can affect them.  But the one thing she dis-likes is one's ego getting in the way and putting blinders on.   She has seen that first hand and it does no one any good. 

Large companies like Indio Products and Wisdom Products do not have such a problem, but the smaller independent ones will, it can’t be helped. 

This is a very short list of those proprietors of Metaphysical and Hoodoo Products that Ms. Q has purchased and used.  Other practitioners may different in their opinions which is their right, but Ms. Q is only going by her personal experience with these and other shops.

They are listed in no particular order:

Conjured Cardea

Sarah is the sole proprietor and operator of Conjured Cardea, which she created in 2008, and offers an array of hand made products, Ms. Q has been happy with her service and products and gives an excellent recommendation.  Sarah has started doing specialty items as well including candles.  

About overseas shipping Ms. Q suggests that you e-mail Sarah.

Ancient Ways  
Herb Shop
4075 Telegraph Ave, Oakland, CA 94609
(510) 653-3244
Hours: · 11:00 AM – 7:00 PM Pacific Standard Time

Ancient Ways is the sponsor of ThurgiCon and PantheaCon in the San Francisco Bay Area.  It’s been in business for many, many years, and Ms. Q has always had excellent service and recommendations by the Staff and the Owner and has found them to be very friendly and helpful.   Glenn Turner, the Proprietor of Ancient Ways store, is also the PantheaCon Ringmaster, and the Sponsor of TheurgiCon and is a long time, very knowledgeable, gifted person in the local Metaphysical community.

In terms of doing overseas shipment Ms. Q is not sure they can do that and suggests that you e-mail them.

The Mystic Dream
 1437 N Broadway, Walnut Creek, CA 94596
Phone:(925) 933-2342
Hours: · 10:00 AM – 7:00 PM

The Shop first opened their doors in 1989 with a simple vision: to create a space for healing and spiritual exploration.  Since 2007 the store has been under the leadership of Chas Bogan and Storm Faerywol.  A very lovely shop in Walnut Creek, they offer classes and special metaphysical events in their store.  Staff is very friendly and knowledgeable, like Ancient Ways and Conjured Cardea they make their own products.   E-mail in regards to overseas shipping.

Lucky Hoodoo Products
Lucky Hoodoo Products Inc.
803 S. Lincoln Dr.
Hancock, MI 49930
(800) 482-4419

Owned and operated by Miss Alice with assistance from Frank Papa Doc. Family members of both Miss Alice and the Papa Doc were spiritual workers and regular shoppers at all the small candles shops and hoodoo stores in the area (near south side of Chicago) throughout the 30’s 40’s and 50’s. A tradition that was passed onto them and been a part of their lives ever since.  Between the two of them they have amassed over 50 years of experience.

Ms. Q has purchased some of their products by mail order and has been happy with the results.   E-mail in regards to overseas shipping

Lucky Mojo Curio Company
6632 Covey Rd. 
Forestville, California

This shop imports and distributes folkloric magical, occult, herbal, and spiritual supplies  from Asia, Latin America, and the Middle East for those who work in Hindu, Buddhist, Catholic,  Protestant, Muslim, and Jewish religious and magical traditions. Ms Q understands that they sell retail and wholesale and has seen Lucky Mojo products in some metaphysical shops both brick and mortar as well as on-line.

Owned by Catherine Yronwode it appears to be an on-line presence since 1998 although she may have opened her shop in 1993.  In 2002 she published a new book, “Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic: a materia magica of African-American conjure”  Ms. Q agrees with most of what Ms. Yronwode written, in comparing it with what was told to Ms. Q by her Grandmother’s friends as well as working with her Grandmother’s group.    Ms Q says the other books written by Ms. Yronwode are also good to add to one’s personal Library.  Ms. Yronwode has done extensive research into this subject.

In terms of customer service most recently it seems to be “hit or miss” possibly due to some illness, Ms. Q recommends calling first, doing overseas shipping is unknown.

Indio Products
2750 So Alameda St
Los Angeles, CA 90058 -
Phone: (323) 778-2233
Email: sales@indioproducts.com
To order: 1-800-944-1414

Indio Products ships worldwide and many, many Botanica’s and metaphysical shops carry their candles, they also offer the Anna Riva products, the 7 Sisters of New Orleans products, and possibly some Black Hawk Products.  Ms. Q has been able to receive large candle shipments from them during the days when she was setting lights for family and friends.   

Some of Ms. Q's practitioner friends are loyal Anna Riva and 7 Sisters of New Orleans users and  have not been disappointed with the Indio Products.

 Indio does Whole sale and in buying whole sale in regards to international shipping read their page first to be aware of their terms.

Wisdom Products
5333 E. Slauson Ave
Suite B
Commerce, CA 90040
Customer Service hours
8 a.m. to 4 p.m Pacific Standard Time
Phone 323-726-2100

Wisdom Products also ships worldwide and carry many of the same products as Indio in some cases they carry some products that Indio doesn’t, they also offer a Retail Catalog, and some of Ms. Q’s friends have purchased Wisdom Products and have been happy with their service.  Again read their pages in regards to shipping.  


This is just a short list based upon Ms. Q's experience with these shops, both on line and at their brick and mortar stores.   In time this list will expand, just check the Links section.

If you are an individual practitioner doing the work for yourself and your friends this will be of some help.  If you are planning on expanding your Spiritual Services or are frequently setting lights for family and friends, then setting up a whole sale account with  Indio and Wisdom Products may be a good thing to do. 

In time you the reader will find other sources for different things, or you will on your own begin making your own oils and incense and such.  But Ms. Q always says "take baby steps, just a little at a time and learn, learn, learn, read and learn and don't be afraid to ask questions on how something works.  It's how one learns."  

I will be adding these links to the Recommended Metaphysical Shops List on the side bar of this blog and we hope by New Years Ms. Q will be able to get back to writing her blog herself.

And in Ms. Q's words "Blessings to All of You"