Dear Ms. Q, and others,
I've had two people post to me questions about protection and what to do, for some reason my system will not allow me to post my reply's so I am posting them here so that my message to each person is reached
Here is one question----
My Dear,
If you do not feel safe then you are not, make sure that the
legal steps include doing a restraining order against him and do not be afraid to use
it should he violate it.
The second step is for now do not go anywhere alone, especially
at night, always have someone with you, you will need to do this for the next 6
months. If during the day you need to go
someplace such as grocery shopping, make sure you park as close to the store as
possible and have a “bag boy” or person come out with you to put your groceries
into the car and ask him/her to stay with you until you are in the car and have
started the engine, then he can leave.
Get a blessed St. Michael medal and wear it all the time,
and carry pepper spray for your personal protection, learn how to use it
properly and carry it in your hand ready to use if need be. You can buy pepper spray at a sporting goods
store and also ask at the Police Department if they give Pepper Spray defense
classes, so you’ll know how to properly use it.
For Spiritual protection in your home read my previous posts
about spiritual cleansing and protection, get a good friend to help you. If you work out of your home that will be
extra spiritual protection, if your business is located in another location,
you can do modified spiritual protection.
But back it up with physical
protection.
If you live in a house have mounted security cameras and if
there are dark areas of your house such as a drive way, back yard etc. have
mounted motion detector lights, they are
a deterrent, of course small animals
such as cats, raccoon's etc. will set them off but it’s worth the annoyance.
If you live in an apartment, mount an indoor security
camera, many people use them especially to catch robbers in the act. You may need to mount two of them, especially
if you have a back access such as a sliding glass door.
Do not be afraid to speak to a detective at the police
department about your fears and ask for advice. If you have good neighbors tell them about
your fears about your Ex-husband. Ask
them to be on the alert for suspicious strangers or if they see your Ex hanging around.
If there is one thing I have learned in my years of doing
the Work, getting legal help and taking
physical safety precautions for yourself and your home is the first thing to
do, having spiritual back up is the
second thing.
My Father use to say to me “The sad part about women is that
in dealing with injustice, they haven’t learn to ‘grow a pair’, you’ve got to
be tough like a man and say that ‘you won’t take that anymore’ and stand up,
not whimper, but fight back and not be afraid to fight back”.
Say the St. Michael prayer and wear a blessed St. Michael medal and ask him to help give you
strength and courage day and night, at night as well call upon Mother Mary and
Jesus to watch over you day and night and to inspire you to find ways to
protect yourself, to keep you on your guard, until this crisis is pass.
My Granny use to say to me “All the prayers in the world will
not help you if you do not do something physical to help yourself, life is a
combination of both the spiritual and the physical, there is a reason why in
the Bible it says ‘God helps those who help themselves’ “ or as my Grandpa use
to say as a World War II veteran “Praise the Lord and pass that ammunition” which was his way of saying “call upon God but
make sure you have a gun to back you up.”
That is why I do recommend Pepper Spray and the other things
in addition to Spiritual protection.
If you are not afraid of burning candles, get a St. Michael
Candle for protection and a Just Judge to keep your husband legally at bay, put
them in an area where they will not tip over nor are near anything
combustible/flammable, if you have pets (cats especially) make sure they cannot
get to the candles, when you leave the house snuff the candle out for safety,
do not blow on it, get a candle snuffer or place a saucer on top of the glass
enclosed candle to cut off air, take the time to make sure the candle is out,
relight it when you get home and re-enforce the intention for which you need it
for.
Again check out my other posts on protection for more information
This crisis My Dear, will pass, but it will take strength
and courage on your part to do it, never
be afraid, Jesus and Mother Mary are always with you.
Blessings My Child
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The second response is to Miriam, her question is so long that I cannot post it here, but here is my response.
Dear Miriam,
I am glad that you have a lawyer to help you, You now are going to have to be the Older sister and tell your Mother, that you will have to take charge, that your older sister is too sick to deal with this situation. Wear the St. Michael's medal for spiritual protection and also read my posts about protection as well.
Another thing because you are holding two jobs, dealing with this legal crisis and family matters your health is vital to achieving success. Be sure to take spiritual baths to cleans you but also if you feel ill see a Doctor to stay well. This will be physically draining upon you but you can do it.
I see at this time
That there is news coming that portends the arrival of change. Although not immediate, prepare to evaluate the risks and rewards of this change, it will be of great help and value to you.
You will gain insight into your future if you remain attentive and studious of the signs around you, think positive and do not give into fear, your lawyer is right it will take tiny steps but also do a "freezing spell" to freeze the negative person out of your sister's life and your family's life, it will help spiritually. I have it posted on one of my posts, and it is very simple to do.
When in doubt, go to church, do not be afraid to speak to the minister or priest there, or to just sit quietly and meditate. Because you are Never Alone- -the Universe will put before you what you need, when you seek it---I recommend the movie "The Pursuit of Happyness" I also recommend the book as well.
~~~~~
The second response is to Miriam, her question is so long that I cannot post it here, but here is my response.
Dear Miriam,
I am glad that you have a lawyer to help you, You now are going to have to be the Older sister and tell your Mother, that you will have to take charge, that your older sister is too sick to deal with this situation. Wear the St. Michael's medal for spiritual protection and also read my posts about protection as well.
Another thing because you are holding two jobs, dealing with this legal crisis and family matters your health is vital to achieving success. Be sure to take spiritual baths to cleans you but also if you feel ill see a Doctor to stay well. This will be physically draining upon you but you can do it.
I see at this time
That there is news coming that portends the arrival of change. Although not immediate, prepare to evaluate the risks and rewards of this change, it will be of great help and value to you.
Dear Ms.Q:
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your kind replies. It's been a life transforming time for me. Many things happening at the same time, but I've been through this before (not as bad as this...) but I'll come out of this stronger for sure.
I am very thankful for your time and consideration to write back, and yes I imagine how sought after you may be and how energy draining it can be too, that is why I appreciate your time and energy towards an unknown person from the other side of the world. I appreciate it, and I mean it.
As I said, your blog is on my favourites list and I really enjoying reading your stories and posts, so I'll be around reading from time to time.
Blessings to you to. :) Miriam
Dear Miriam,
DeleteThank You. I will include you and your Mother in my healing and prayer Circle, to continue to give you strength, courage and insight as you take care of this very serious matter that is before you and to continue to help you in the future.
Blessings to you.
Any info on tying nature ?
ReplyDeleteDear Anonymous,
DeleteExactly what are you referring to, since when we use herbs and such we are working with nature and with the energies around us. So please elaborate and I will answer in a post as a question of general interest.
Blessings Ms. Q