Tuesday, December 6, 2016

An Update and Please be paticent~~~

Hello Everyone,

Dear Friends, all of you who read my blog.

Some of you have written to me concerned that I have not posted anything of late.

And some of you have sent me questions about different things that are happening in your lives.

I just want to let you know I'm fine, but there will be a delay in responding but I will get to your questions and I will post again.

Last Friday we had locally a very tragic fire, that has killed at least 36 people, young people.

If you go on the internet and type in Oakland Ghost Ship Warehouse Fire, you will find articles about this tragic event.

I am not going to go into particulars, but friends of my nieces and nephews have been coming by seeking solace and comfort and trying to understand why this has happened.  

I am not going to go into the "Why" of this tragedy,   that is not for me to discuss or comment about here.  Except that it was going to happen and for an unknown reason or life lesson, and that is too simplified an explanation. 

So I am doing what I can to help these young people make sense of all of this.

Please pray for the victims and their families, that they can find peace.

Bright Blessings,
Ms. Q


  1. I have heard about this. Prayers are up!

    1. Thank you AG.

      Blessings to you,
      Ms. Q

    2. What should I do

    3. Dear AG,

      I am presuming you are asking about your question that you posted on “Please include your initials…..” blog, please see my response to your question.

      In regards to prayers, pray for the souls of those who died that they are at peace, and pray for the victims’ families that their hearts find peace as well.

      Eventually justice will be served, it seems that now the Powers that Be are beginning to realize that they need to help the Arts Community in ways that are progressive and safer, so maybe their deaths will not be in vain.

      Bright Blessings,
      Ms. Q

  2. Dear Mrs Queen B... Ive been seeing this guy for 4years.. He has a leave in (woman) not marry... Im I wasting my time.

    1. Dear Age#123

      You posted twice so I’m responding to your 2nd post.

      I believe you are asking if you wasting your time with a guy you’ve been seeing for 4 years, I’m not sure what you meant about “he has a leave in (woman) not marry” I’m presuming that he has a live-in woman that he is not married to, I am assuming that this live-in woman is the guy’s lover?

      So here is this guy with two women, you and the one who lives with him and you want to know if you’re wasting your time after seeing him for 4 years.

      I drew a card for you on this situation and the card I drew is Knight of Wands, but it is reversed, this describes a sexy and exciting person, obsessed with style and outward appearance, overconfident and foolhardy in their actions. Often suggests an undercurrent of discord, or cruel indifference.

      Basically this is an abusive boyfriend.

      This is also the guy who will steal your spotlight away if he can, do not let his guy be your roommate. He'll trash the place and expect you to clean up, He's a nightmare.

      This card is signaling that he’s trouble. Something is going to break be it your heart or your spirit. Watch out.

      My Dear, the short answer is Drop him like he’s yesterday’s garbage, he’s wasted 4 years of your life, he knows when he has it made, and he’s been stringing the both of you along. Leave him and look for a better, happier life.

      Bright Blessings,
      Ms. Q

  3. Hi I'm seeing someone for 4 years .. I'm I wasting my time

    1. Please read my above reply.

      Bright Blessings,
      Ms. Q

  4. Yes that Ac...but I'm talking about AJ

    1. My Dear,

      The way this system posts confuses me when I'm trying to understand a reference, is this in regards to what you commented under another post?

      Please remember I'm getting close to 80 and get confused.

      Bright Blessings,
      Ms. Q

  5. I have reason to believe someone is working magic against me. What steps do I need to take to protect myself from any potential negative energy or harm they are sending to me?


    1. Dear MC,

      There are many ways you can protect yourself, I have quite a number of them listed in my Archive section that will help you, but some of them do take time and some are a bit quick to do.

      What you can do quickly is to get a St. Michael’s medal and wear that, each morning and before you go to bed say the St. Michael’s prayer I have that listed in my Archive under St. Michael’s prayer and in one other posting , the 2nd thing you can do is have priest blessed holy water in a white dish or holy water fount (you can buy that from a Catholic supply store) have it next to your front door, bless yourself (making the sign of the cross) each time you go out and when you return either from shopping, visiting or going to and from work, or for any reason you have to leave your home.

      Everything else will take time and can be done first on a personal level, and then secondly on an environment level, what I mean by environment is your home, car and work area (if you work at a desk or cubicle).

      For more information look up my posts that say “Cleansing your space first part physical cleansing”, and then these other postings under “ cleansing spell, Firey wall of protection oil, first protection, House warding, house cleansing, Protection, Railroad spikes, shielding, Warding. “ It is extensive and it is a lot to do. But you can do it a bit at a time, building up your protections for your home and for yourself.

      For some of them you will have to either make a trip to your nearest reputable metaphysical or occult supply store, for the Holy Water get that from a Catholic church, either one that follows the modern or traditional path, For statues, crosses and Holy Water fount you can order that from a Catholic Religious supply store.

      One thing I do suggest especially with the weather being so chancy and also if you live in either an area that has snow storms or is having heavy rainstorms, call the metaphysical or occult supply shops first to see if they have what you need, get their costs and hours and how to get there. Many occult shops do sell the St. Michael’s medal, when you get it smudge it first with frankincense either in stick or cone form and then say the St. Michael’s prayer, sometimes these stores will have the prayer card as well.

      Another thing you can do is print off of the internet the pictures of Jesus and Mary usually the images called the “Sacred Heart of Jesus and Mary” pin or tape (which ever works best) the images over you bed, and keep a glass of water next to your bed on your night stand, do not drink that water, the next morning flush that water down the toilet, do that every night and flush the water every morning, this attracts spirits that would seek to do harm to you and helps traps them, flushing them down the toilet gets rid of them.

      Again, take your time, look further on my Archived postings, print them up and put them into a binder so you can refer to them without having to go to the computer, it will save you having to try to remember everything.

      Each thing that you do, that you add to your protection, you will feel bit by bit as if a dark cloud is being pushed back, it does work, I’ve been doing it for years and so has members of my family in some way done it.

      Bright Blessings,
      Ms. Q

  6. Dear Ms. Q,
    I pondered on your blog and I have to say I could read for hours about all of your knowledge you so kindly share with all of us.
    My question for you, I have been with a man for four years and he recently left me for questioning his behavior. The "silent treatment." I tried communication, reaching out but he refuses. I love this man, as stubborn as he is. I've spend a few hundred dollars on work but so far nothing has prevailed. I've also recently started my own jar. Is there any advice you can offer?


    1. Dear K,

      There are two possibilities here, the fact that you were with this man for 4 years, then he leaves you because he’s upset that you are questioning his behavior.

      Obviously he does not like to have his actions questioned, so he’s punishing you, refusing to respond to you.

      That tells me that his is a controlling behavior, I don’t like that when a man does that to a woman, that is abusive behavior.

      I think it is more than just stubbornness.

      If for some reason you questioned his behavior then something subconsciously told you that something was not right.

      When you questioned him about it, he does what any male does that wants to hide something, they get defensive and then leave making you feel bad when all you wanted was the truth.

      I think you are going to have to put the fact that you love him to one side and then become a detective and operate on logic.

      The fact that any work that has been done on him has not worked tells me that he has put up walls or shields. His guilt is preventing anything from happening, and if he really loved you, there would be a crack in his shields and he would eventually respond. That does not seem to be happening. So now I would question if his love was ever real.

      You started your own jar well that is a good step, but that should have been done from the beginning, then secondly did you do a reading to see if reconciliation would work?

      Obviously not because all the work the money that you spent on, has not produced any results. That is very telling to me.

      So now what do you do? Well I did a one card reading on this situation and the card I drew is the Three of Cups (Abundance), but it is reversed, I was not happy when I saw this card.

      The Three of Cups reversed or upside down means a time of shallow overindulgence, followed by depletion. The utterly unfulfilling conclusion of a matter. Satisfaction from sensual pleasures divorced from any sense of love.

      When this card is reversed the Three of Cups is one of the most negative tarot cards, for it represents a third person in the relationship or your partner being unstable with you.

      The keyword that best goes with this tarot card is cheating.

      Yes, it is possible that he has another lady and if this is not the case then the Three of Cups reversed implies that there is hardly any happiness and fun in your relationship and thus, one of you is wondering whether it is best to break up or not.

      This tarot card in reversed position also heralds that you and your lover would never be able to reach your planned goals.

      Because you suspected something and questioned him and he simply walked out of your life, tells me he is seeing someone else.

      Sadly this happens all too often, it seems like men do not want to commit to a serious relationship, if anything he should have been honest with you from the beginning, now 4 years of your life is gone.

      So what do you do, first reflect to see if he really did any true good in your life, if you see that really he made life difficult for you, forcing you to choose between him and your family and friends then you are better off without him.

      In that case do the Honey Jar spell to heal yourself to bring happiness and contentment in your life.

      I did another one card reading on your life and the card I drew is the Knight of Wands upright meaning the essence of fire, a life filled with vitality and passion for life.

      Becoming a sexy and exciting person, daring in actions, cocky in attitude, and utterly without fear.

      Boundless creativity and lust for a change of both pace and place. The rapid approach, or more likely departure, of something that sets your world ablaze. It often suggests travel.

      My Dear K, this card is saying you are better off without him for you have places to go, things to do and people to see, 2017 is going to be an exciting and creative time in your life so welcome the New Year with that knowledge and do not look back but forward.

      Bright Blessings,
      Ms Q

  7. Hi Ms. Q,

    Good day! I desperately seek for your guidance for my current relationship situation. I had a gf of 2 years and we broke up 4 months ago. I know she's the love of my life and that she loves me deeply too. We had issues in our relationship that were never resolved. I am still waiting for her to talk to me again and still am hoping that she'll take me back in her life. Please enlighten me with what I should and can do?

    More blessings and hope you are feeling better.

    Best Regards,

    1. Hello J,

      This is Ms. Q’s niece.

      I did read your post to her, she meditated on and replied that you waited 4 months for her to contact and talk to you, and yet she hasn’t, there must have been something much deeper or something she has hidden from you that she does not want to discuss.

      Call her, do not text, call her and ask her to meet you in a neutral location for coffee, just to talk, do not expect her to take you back she may have some feelings of resentment of some sort, let her talk, do not interrupt nor try to defend yourself, let her get it all out.

      By keeping silent and carefully listening to her will you discover what is bothering her, respond to what she says after she is done speaking, if need be ask her questions of how to improve the relationship or does she want to continue the relationship. Don’t force the issue, let it slowly develop.

      In the meantime to ease the feeling of loss, volunteer at a charity to help feed the hungry, the homeless during this Holiday season, by being among positive people doing positive things it will uplift your spirit.

      In Ms. Q’s words Bright Blessings