Once again I find myself talking about how to protect yourself from spiritual invasion, not by the dead or demons but by the Living or Negative People.
No one question regarding how to dislodge such a being can be answered with a simple and pat remedy. Each situation is unique and equally difficult---and a good part of it is how much and how far are you willing to go to dislodge such a disagreeable living spirit.
Part if it maybe impossible especially if it is someone you have to work with or is part of your family.
Part of it maybe difficult if the person is a stalker both physically and psychically.
So you have to do things that will require you to move, cut yourself off from the real person, get a court order, change your home address and phone number warn your friends and other family to not give out your new information, change jobs, move out of state or to a new city...Which works if you're dealing with a stalker and a family member.
But no matter what you will always run into the psychic vampire or energy thief, but by then you will be better prepared.
Let us deal first with being "haunted" by the spirit of a living person.
I was recently asked a question by a reader of this blog, how does one dislodge the ghost or spirit of a “Living Person”?
Without much more information it is a very hard question to answer because there are a lot of different speculations about this ghost of a living person.
First have you actually seen or heard this person or only felt them?
Second in terms of dislodging is the actual physical person a family member, ex-spouse, ex-partner, current or former co-worker that you do not have a good relationship with?
Is this someone who is still living but lived in your home or apartment before and had to vacate it for whatever reason? Is it someone who is jealous of you?
Is this person someone that you only casually met but now has an obsession about you.
Does this person that you’ve concerned with practices magic or hoodoo or other occult workings.
Do you come into contact with the actual person and feel physically and mentally drained for a day or several days.
What is the age of that person and what is their physical health.
What is that person’s mental outlook?
These are all very important questions because each basic one is handled slightly differently and who they are what they do and their own personality and health determines the type of haunting.
But there are two basic ways to handle this, and I will describe what happened and what to do.
In generally thought among most people to believe that ghosts do exist and as a matter of fact a lot of theories as to why and for what reason they exist has been bandied about. The Main thought is that only a deceased person can project their ghostly images amongst those who are alive.
However as early as 1913, some people have conceived that living people as well may have the ability to move their spirits about the planet. I am one who believes that people can be haunted by spirits of other living persons, though this may sound strange to many others.
So what can cause this to happen? Well if a person has strong psychic abilities or has trained themselves to heighten their abilities they can project their spirit at will to another location, this is not unusual. And there are people who do it naturally or have done it under a crisis situation.
Emanuel Swedenborg born on 29 January 1688 and died 29 March 1772. was a Swedish scientist, philosopher, theologian, revelator, and, in the eyes of some, a Christian mystic. He termed himself a "Servant of the Lord Jesus Christ" in True Christian Religion.
On Thursday, July 19, 1759 a huge well-documented fire broke out in Stockholm, Sweden. The high and increasing winds caused it spread very fast, consuming about 300 houses and making 2000 people homeless.
When the fire broke out Swedenborg was at a dinner with friends in Gothenburg, about 400 km from Stockholm. He became agitated and told the party at six o'clock that there was a fire in Stockholm that it had consumed his neighbor’s home and was threatening his own. Two hours later, he exclaimed with relief that the fire had stopped three doors from his home. In the excitement following his report, word even reached the ears of the provincial governor, who summoned Swedenborg that same evening and asked for a detailed recounting.
A few days later word came which confirmed Swedenborg’s “viewing”, as a matter of fact some people in Stockholm during the crisis were surprised to see him there, when he was in full view of his friends at the same time.
In the case of people doing remote viewing there has been records of the person which they are seeking actually projecting themselves to another person to give information or receive information.
This can be called bi-location and a theory on this states that a person can appear in two places at the same time, either at will or under stress. In a book called "Human Personality and Its Survival of Bodily Death", a parapsychologist details a story in which two young girls see an image of their father in two separate locations. It is believed that these "doubles" can be seen when a person whose image is projected, is under some kind of extreme duress, or right before actual death (though that wasn't the case with the two girls.
This is completely different from the phenomenon called a doppelganger in which you see your own double.
The most easily understood notion behind the idea of "living ghosts" lies in the concept of astral travel (or out-of-body experiences.) In which people have the capability of leaving their physical bodies--either consciously (that is at will) or subconsciously (when they are asleep)--then it might be fair to assume that other people can see/experience the spirit of the living person wandering about. In fact, experts in this field of study sometimes refer to astral projection as the liberation of the double (sometimes called the astral double.)
I have to admit there is much controversy surrounding the topic of astral projection. But if we're to imagine that one's spirit can temporarily separate from the body at will, would it not be feasible for other people in different parts of the world, to see that person in this state?
So it is dependent upon the situation, in some cases you may be dealing with someone who can bi-locate at will, someone who can in their sleeping or meditative state project their aura self, someone who is projecting their physical image onto your mind deliberately in hopes of making you ill, and if it is someone you come into contact with but leaves you physically drained then that is a psychic or energy vampire.
Once you answer any of the above questions either yes or no, the next question is this---are they doing anything that is harming you either mentally or physically, or just frightening you. Or is this someone one you do care about but their sudden unexplained appearance startles and frightens you.
That is the next set of questions to answer.
Once you have narrowed it down then you can pretty much have an idea how to deal with them, through some of these examples that I’m going to relate to you.
First off---the technique to close your chakra’s that I posted in an earlier post, will help you from not seeing or sensing this person a great deal, this is especially true if you are being visited by someone who is ill and is desperately trying to hang on by attaching themselves to your survival chakra. Most of the time this will work with someone who does not realize what they are doing.
But in some cases you make have to take it a step further.
I mentioned that my Mother was doing that without realizing it after she had her third stroke, she subconsciously realized that she was going to die the question was when, but she was hanging on, and in doing that was putting herself in great pain and I was feeling drained and because of my love for her I was actually feeding her energy.
I had to stop that, she had to go onto her journey herself, so I closed down my chakra’s and through meditation I saw the psychic cord connecting to her, once I got to the base chakra I envision my hand as being a white light sword and sliced it through the cord. I then said a prayer asking God and the Angels to put my Mother into their hands, not mine.
The next few weeks were hard, I had to be compassionate and yet close off my heart, I made sure she was well taken care of and then the final steps happened and at that point my Mother accepted the fact she was dying in her one moment of lucidness.
To make sure that in her final hours she did not try to attach herself to me again, I put up a white light of protection around me and called upon God and his angels to help my Mother make the transition.
But what if you’re being “haunted” by someone who is doing this at will, deliberately? This is where you may have to take far more determined and drastic steps.
A friend of mine had that problem with her own Mother----I know I seem to be picking upon Mother’s but there is some sort of psychic bond between mothers and their children----there are Mothers who are wonderful loving and giving people and may the Devine Presence Bless and Keep them well always
But there are some who you can only say are just their biological mother, never that really loving supportive person you had hope to have---and the same can be said for children and fathers as well.
My friend, whom I will call Jan, had a mother whom I wished I’ve never met, the woman was a narcissist, very controlling, manipulative---well I cannot say the word here.
This woman would do her best to intrude into Jan’s life, even going so far as to have Jan lose her chance of getting a very good job that would pay well.
That was the final straw for Jan and she moved as far away as she could from her Mother, but it was hard, she had several siblings who also had to deal with the woman, but somehow managed to have the mental strength to get far, far away. Jan was last and admittedly the weakest in having the strength because she always felt sorry for her Mother, but eventually that changed after she came to me to help her.
Knowing about her mother’s general personality, Jan told me about some of the strange things her Mother would do and that her Mother always had an attraction to paranormal stuff, the occult, would visit psychics and even would take trips 2 or 3 times a year to New Orleans and would be in touch with people there.
I suspected that her Mother was doing negative magickal workings in order to keep Jan close to her and in essence live off of her, even though the Mother had a good inheritance income. But also it seemed that her Mother enjoyed inflicting upon Jan a form of emotional abuse.
I asked Jan if she had noticed any changes in her Mother’s personality, not that it was any good in the first place, but did it get worse? Jan said yes, after a boyfriend of her mother’s died in a car accident, he was at fault. And the Boyfriend was into dark magik, after his death she became more abusive.
While Jan was still living with her Mother her Mother remarked to Jan that she was able to make people do her bidding by some occult method. It was after that remark that Jan lost her chance at getting that good job that led Jan to leave her mother’s place, moved out of town, and changed her phone number to avoid all contact with her.
Several months after that strange things would happen to Jan in her new place and sometimes people would be talking to her when suddenly their voice would change and they’d say strange things to her, then seemed to awaken and were surprised by what transpired.
Then Jan started seeing her Mother in her new home, especially at times when she knew her Mother was far away. She’d never been afraid of her Mother in regards to her claims of being able to do paranormal or occult things before but now she was very upset
I told Jan that she had to make both herself and her home uncomfortable for her Mother’s Astral spirit to not want to hang around.
The first thing Jan did was clear away all clutter and organize her home, a spring cleaning of sorts.
2nd she went to a metaphysical shop and purchased sage bundles to burn, oil of Frankincense, Church blessed Holy water, print out off the internet a picture of the Sacred hearts of Mary and Jesus, a black figure candle in the shape of a woman, 2 Iron rail road spikes, pins used in sewing, a black cord used in crafts not made of polyblends but natural fibers, sea or Kosher salt, and shot glasses, figure 4 shot glasses for the bed room, 2 for each of the other rooms including bath rooms and closets, kitchen and storage areas, and make a small packet of salt from a brown paper bag tied with twine.
First she had to take a quick shower, and rub some of the salt on her body to clear any negativity, then put on clean comfortable clothes.
Then she was to sage herself and apply oil of frankincense to her forehead and heart area, not much just a drop or two.
Then she was to open all the doors and drawers to all the rooms including closets and smudge with the burning sage bundles, taking care to not allow any burning embers to fall. She also had to unplug the smoke alarms as well and not re-plug them until she was done.
She was to start smudging from the back of her home to the front door opening the front door last and saying in each room and finally at the front door “Spirit or projection of (name here) be gone, you are not wanted here, this is not your place and you do not have any hold on me, I divorce you, I disown you, I deny your existence, You are dead to me, You no longer exist!! BE GONE!!”
Then go around your home sprinkling the Holy Water, place some Holy Water in a small bowl, next to your front door on the inside, so that each time you come home from work you can bless yourself with it.
Now with the picture of the Sacred Heart of Mary and Jesus put that above your bed, I told Jan that if she has a boyfriend over for the night and he objects to that picture tell him it’s staying, if he continues to object then you don’t need that boyfriend in your life.
In the 4 corners of your bed room put a shot glass of salt in each corner,
In the rest of her house, put two shot glasses of salt in the corners across from each other, this includes kitchen, bathrooms and closets---if you have a garage, storage shed do it there too.
Put a Railroad spike at the front door and the back door of your home if you do not have a back door but a balcony or patio as some condo’s or apartments have, put the 2nd railroad spike there.
Then with the black figure candle in the shape of a woman, using a sturdy pin or needle on the back side of the candle Jan was to write or print the name of her mother, first, middle and last, if she didn’t know the middle name not to worry, it is envisioning the woman while inscribing the name that helps.
Then taking the black twine Jan was to wrap up the figure candle completely from the neck all the way down saying “I bind thee (say the name) that you will no longer have any hold over me, that you will no longer be free to haunt me or harm me or in any way influence me or anyone human or animal that I love or am in contact with, I deny you your powers over me” repeat that until you’ve tied off the twine.
Then taking a pin thrust it into the forehead of the figure candle and say “You have no power over me I take it away”.
Although it sounds harsh, this is to prevent this person from using any form of psychic ability to project her image or will onto Jan.
I told Jan she will need to smudge herself two or three times a week when she comes home to keep herself protected so the combination of blessing herself with the Holy Water when she comes home, a touch of frankincense oil on her forehead and smudging herself before bed time and keeping the energy in her home uncomfortable for her Mother’s projected spirit from invading.
She also smudge and sprinkled Holy Water in her car and put the packet of salt in the glove compartment to protect her while she drove her car.
About a month later I got a call from her and she said that ever since she did what I recommended she had not been in anyway haunted by her Mother’s projected spirit, in essence she dislodged her. But that one of her siblings was now having problems and she suggested what she did, to her sibling.
Now this was done to a cognizant person who was trying to invade Jan’s life, deliberately, in the case of my Mother my mother was not aware of what she was doing, so I had to do something far gentler.
Those are the two processes that I suggest, now if Anonymous is being haunted by the living spirit of a man you can use a figure candle in the shape of a man but the process is the same.
There is a caveat, it is best to avoid drinking alcohol or doing recreational drugs as this will lower your own personal energies to repel the spirit invader. Should you indulge especially in recreational drugs then it will happen all over again. A glass of champagne at a celebration is fine but its best to stick to sparkling water.
Also do not think of that person, or spend any mental energy on them as it might re-create the link again and undo what you’ve done, and will have to repeat it.
In another post I will describe what to do with a psychic or energy vampire as well as several books to read to explain what else you can do for psychic protection.
Blessings Ms. Q and Anonymous